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Posted: 9 years ago
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Well I know it is a old philosophy that people blame parents for their children's mistakes.

But here The mighty dev Dixit is afraid -nervous -hesitating to tell something to his very own beloved maa..gaining confidence -waiting for the right time. ...

But we all readily come to blame him coward-spineless. .it's natural we get disappointed by our hero's unmanly behavior and calling him by names..

But I want to ask 1simple question-Is n't parents's duty to create such a atmosphere at home as our children freely come &share anything to them?
I know dev is not a child at age but that doubles the problems even more. He is a man wirh blood &bones carrying nothing but heartful of love to the most important ladies of his life.If Ishwari has created such a pleasant atmosphere at home ---then for Godsake why will he hesitate?

He don't want to hurt his ladies that's all..he knew Ishwari will get disappointed that he is hiding all through abt his love from her.
But he couldn't put his love at stake by opening it in a wrong time and if his mother disapproved her tho??

Honestly speaking he doesn't know a bit abt Ishwari's rude behavior to Sona till now.He is thinking they r in very good terms. Is that not Sona's mistake that she hides Ishwari's behavior towards her to dev?

Maa-Sona they r his two pillars of strength as well as two biggest weakness of his life.now mama put finger on what's the problem is ?? He comes to form.

My heart really went out to him when he weakly walked into home (becoz may be he knew sona left home without meeting him ) sat tiredly on sofa-immediately Ishwari's coughs threw an another emotional torture on his way.And the way he received taunts - his bad day didn't end rhere ..he asked may be to know abt things -"u said something to maa" uff dev u urself created a mess 4 u.But I am 100% sure he didn't doubt her here-just asking if she tells something innocently and that hurted maa but that question hurts Sona very deep :(

So I think it's only me here to support dev 😭

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Dev is also right in his own way. You are not alone you know 😆. Even the last part where he asked Sona if she said something to his ma to upset her I will not blame him. He is getting hit by both of them together. It is like they are targeting him. The only scenario he could come up with was that both of them had a spat and was taking it out on the one dear to them ie him in a nut shell.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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No u r not alone ... I am pissed off with how both Ishwari and Sona are behaving .
They are both pushing him and pushing him real hard ...both of them are not understanding that he is in between ...this is not how it works sorry !

Ishwari ... is this the only way to express your anger ...importance ...neglect whatever u feel Dev is doing to you.
She is toiling so hard to make him feel guilty ...how do u deal with such a parent ...come on tell me ...one can just merely listen and make a move... at this rate in future...She will not leave any scope for Dev to stand up for his Love! can he leave her to die ...her ways are really not subtle or thought provoking ...they are very in your face kind...you did this to me ... I will do this to you !!! Very disappointed in her ... how awesome was Mamaji to say that he is a grown up boy now ...give him time ...he is just prepping himself up ...he has found something for himself for the 1st time...this line made no impact on the mother who very well knows how hard her son has been toiling all these years ...what she absorbs... he did not tell me ..means I am not important !!!!!
What is the ego here ??? Go ask him ... Do u like Sonakshi ...but no u cant even do this ...why ! coz then the ball will be in ur court !!

Sona ...baby what were u doing today ...there is a right time for everything ...and today was not an ok day really !
Her feelings of insecurity are not wrong ...she is observing Ishwari's behaviour towards her which is how u treat an outsider and hence she wants a position in his life in the open !!! It is not wrong to think about this at all...what is wrong is being pushy !
Just yesterday she said ... I dont want to sound pushy ...what was she doing today ...she saw herself that Ishwari was in a super horrible mood so how difficult is it to understand that she is not in the right state of mind to listen about them...Does Sona know ...Ishwari knows about them ?? does she know the reason behind her behaviour...Dev does not know too !! does this not need to be sorted before he goes up to Ishwari to tell about them.
It was in the open that Ishwari is being weird and throwing tantrums...what is the need for her to say the same thing again at the same time ...what good will it do ...a good thing if said at an incorrect time can go in the wrong direction ...trust me !!!


The boy was just a punching bag today for both of them who were just adamant on getting out of him what they want !!!



Edited by aaliah3108 - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: gmgi

Dev is also right in his own way. You are not alone you know😆. Even the last part where he asked Sona if she said something to his ma to upset her I will not blame him. He is getting hit by both of them together. It is like they are targeting him. The only scenario he could come up with was that both of them had a spat and was taking it out on the one dear to them ie him in a nut shell.



Haan that's what I'm trying to say .he never in his dreams too will doubt her..thanks yaar. U r with me 😛
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Posted: 9 years ago
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You are not alone...I completely agree with you ..
I felt bad for Dev...he hasn't completely recovered from his illness he is subjected to torture from his mom and his GF who was like a friend has suddenly lost patience and is behind him for confessing his feelings to his family ...disappointed with Sona...I understand her insecurity and glad that she questioned him but timing was wrong ...she didn't have to throw a tantrum when his dear mom was already throwing one .

Along with this issue he has office tension to worry about due to Gujral .My heart goes for him...it's true the people who love you the most are the ones who will hurt you the most

Whenever Dev had issues with his complicated family he used to run to Sona for some solace and that's what made his fall in love with her...a understanding patner who had the patience to listen to him and offer some advise .

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Even my heart goes out to Dev...I really felt sad as he was being punished for no mistake of his own...I loved the way he tried to talk to both the ladies..Maa and Sona...the conversation with each of them itself shows how much important they both are to him.He trusts both his ladies blindly.But sadly, they both failed to understand his plight today.
But rationally speaking even Dev too is responsible for the consequences he is facing today...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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you r not alone..me too felt very sad for dev..😭
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Just to add one more thing ...I really admire your posts.They really express the perfect analysis of the situation.Hats off to u 👏
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Cspcheziyan



My heart really went out to him when he weakly walked into home (becoz may be he knew sona left home without meeting him ) sat tiredly on sofa-immediately Ishwari's coughs threw an another emotional torture on his way.And the way he received taunts - his bad day didn't end rhere ..he asked may be to know abt things -"u said something to maa" uff dev u urself created a mess 4 u.But I am 100% sure he didn't doubt her here-just asking if she tells something innocently and that hurted maa but that question hurts Sona very deep :(

So I think it's only me here to support dev 😭

You are definitely not alone dear...On top of all this, This guy just now recovered from illness. At least they should have allowed him to take breath properly.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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no u r not alone.. I also fell soory and sad for dev...he is trying to handle the situation
sona dev ishwari all three are right at their place at the same time...

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