Is dev only wrong here??? - Page 2

Originally posted by: vandyt1602

Just to add one more thing ...I really admire your posts.They really express the perfect analysis of the situation.Hats off to u👏

Thank u yaar.u guys r also amazing .expressing ur views beautifully in crisp way.really because of u all I feel encouraged

@aaliah "" Ishwari ... is this the only way to express your anger ...importance ...neglect whatever u feel Dev is doing to you.
She is toiling so hard to make him feel guilty ...how do u deal with such a parent ""

Yes u r soo scary at the same time expects ur son to open up..???
I too felt if her ways subtle -it would be so nice to watch.

And Sona -yes wrong timing. But cvs justified her losing hope by previous incidents (Ishwari's weird behavior-RR's taunts.( These push the girl to edge.

Originally posted by: aaliah3108

No u r not alone ... I am pissed off with how both Ishwari and Sona are behaving .

They are both pushing him and pushing him real hard ...both of them are not understanding that he is in between ...this is not how it works sorry !

Ishwari ... is this the only way to express your anger ...importance ...neglect whatever u feel Dev is doing to you.

She is toiling so hard to make him feel guilty ...how do u deal with such a parent ...come on tell me ...one can just merely listen and make a move... at this rate in future...She will not leave any scope for Dev to stand up for his Love! can he leave her to die ...her ways are really not subtle or thought provoking ...they are very in your face kind...you did this to me ... I will do this to you !!! Very disappointed in her ... how awesome was Mamaji to say that he is a grown up boy now ...give him time ...he is just prepping himself up ...he has found something for himself for the 1st time...this line made no impact on the mother who very well knows how hard her son has been toiling all these years ...what she absorbs... he did not tell me ..means I am not important !!!!!

What is the ego here ??? Go ask him ... Do u like Sonakshi ...but no u cant even do this ...why ! coz then the ball will be in ur court !!

Sona ...baby what were u doing today ...there is a right time for everything ...and today was not an ok day really !

Her feelings of insecurity are not wrong ...she is observing Ishwari's behaviour towards her which is how u treat an outsider and hence she wants a position in his life in the open !!! It is not wrong to think about this at all...what is wrong is being pushy !

Just yesterday she said ... I dont want to sound pushy ...what was she doing today ...she saw herself that Ishwari was in a super horrible mood so how difficult is it to understand that she is not in the right state of mind to listen about them...Does Sona know ...Ishwari knows about them ?? does she know the reason behind her behaviour...Dev does not know too !! does this not need to be sorted before he goes up to Ishwari to tell about them.

It was in the open that Ishwari is being weird and throwing tantrums...what is the need for her to say the same thing again at the same time ...what good will it do ...a good thing if said at an incorrect time can go in the wrong direction ...trust me !!!

The boy was just a punching bag today for both of them who were just adamant on getting out of him what they want !!!

Well Said

Regarding Sona, I feel she is right when Dev was not mentioning about her to Ishwari. She wants the permanency of their relationship not a casual relationship. she has gone through a lot when Dev was unwell. I can understand why isnt she telling her parents only if she discloses, they would want her to get married immediately and if Dev deny the relationship. her parents would be hurt and sad why did she fall for a rich man.


You are so right about Iswari. throwing tantrums doesn't prove that she is right and she has to keep ego. Every mother would ask upfront whether the son or daughter has anybody in their lives. and they would support them. Do you think after marriage, Would Dev share all the bedroom secrets with his mother? If she doesn't like Sona, she should disclose it . I would hate her if she chooses tactics to prove that Sona is the wrong person in his life.


Indeed he was a punching bag. he became sandwich between two ladies of his life.

You have company, many like me feel that dev was not wrong totally. He's not a coward or spineless either . It is very easy to blame him for hesitating to open up but I don't think he should be blamed for it not at least today . Poor guy was sick and just got fine , here his dearest matha is really with her drama . She's not leaving a single chance to throw it on his face. I really pity this poor guy , he 247 thinks about his maa and her well being but matha is in for her ego fight .

You are not alone dear.
Count me in.
Felt very bad for him.
BTW. brilliant post. Perfect analysis of dev's situation.

Originally posted by: yyy

You are not alone...I completely agree with you ..

I felt bad for Dev...he hasn't completely recovered from his illness he is subjected to torture from his mom and his GF who was like a friend has suddenly lost patience and is behind him for confessing his feelings to his family ...disappointed with Sona...I understand her insecurity and glad that she questioned him but timing was wrong ...she didn't have to throw a tantrum when his dear mom was already throwing one .

Along with this issue he has office tension to worry about due to Gujral .My heart goes for him...it's true the people who love you the most are the ones who will hurt you the most

Whenever Dev had issues with his complicated family he used to run to Sona for some solace and that's what made his fall in love with her...a understanding patner who had the patience to listen to him and offer some advise .

"It's true the ppl who love u the most r the ones who will hurt u the most "" so true yaar.It happens -is happening in every one's day to day life.
And regarding Sona -we can connect ourselves to her present condition -when we r already in a neck deep problem how can we help the other one ??.she herself very much confused abt Ishwari 's sudden change of behavior. (She never giives two cents to RR 's comments )poor girl as dev said she went to silent mode.

Originally posted by: vandyt1602

Even my heart goes out to Dev...I really felt sad as he was being punished for no mistake of his own...I loved the way he tried to talk to both the ladies..Maa and Sona...the conversation with each of them itself shows how much important they both are to him.He trusts both his ladies blindly.But sadly, they both failed to understand his plight today.

But rationally speaking even Dev too is responsible for the consequences he is facing today...

Aptly said! !

He trusts both the ladies blindly and his earth revolves around them.one girl went to silent mode.And the other most important woman giving cynical comments(I know the word is kind of harsh ) .but as u mentioned lastly he is responsible for his owm mess ----.hmmm ...let him learn in a hard way.

Originally posted by: LiveLife321

You are definitely not alone dear...On top of all this, This guy just now recovered from illness. At least they should have allowed him to take breath properly.

Don't ask I desperately wants to jump into the screen and give him a friendly hug.many time I feel this for our sona onky.And definitely I want to appreciate Shaheer --how beautiful and manly he portrays the restlessness of dev through his body language. ..hats off man 👏

Originally posted by: M.soni

no u r not alone.. I also fell soory and sad for dev...he is trying to handle the situation

sona dev ishwari all three are right at their place at the same time...

That's the beauty of the script - every character has it's right pov.that's what happening in real life too haina?
(Every time I saw ur profile pic my heart melts )