Why Am I feeling bad for Sona :'( - Page 6

Originally posted by: aaliah3108

Aww my cute girls! Come here all of u. Let me give u a hug. Lovers fight... And they fight real bad trust me ... Don't talk may b for days... Some days belong to the gf, some to the bf... It all happens in turns... It really does not matter In a relationship who says sorry... See Dev is a difficult man and Sona knows... She said sorry I know many did not like but try to see why she cd have said so... She was asking him to change something he has not budged from since 27 years not even on his mom's persistence... Why will he agree immediately to what sona is saying... As it is he understands things late... There r diff ways to deal with different people... Like sona said... Diff plants req diff kind of soil and care... Some need to be tendered with more patience some can do with less care... If Dev would have agreed ASAP it wd have been against how he has been shown to be... Two fights and all r thinking sona deserves better... This is not how love works girls... 😆 u can never come to know how a person is... Will be later on... There is no way to find out either ... When u love a person u embrace their faults... Their shortcomings everything... If our spouse is being difficult or obstinate one cannot leave the ground saying I care about damn... We try... Sometimes politely.. Sometimes with authority... Sometimes with humility... Sona is doing just that... Our girl is strong... Aise hi wo sab problems ki solution nai hai... She is sona which is
Pure gold and gold just glistens even more in hazardous Conditions.

Originally posted by: saumiee

Aww😳I don't know how much of it is true, but whatever you said sounds beautiful. .😆I hope we get to see these dimensions in DevAkshi relationship. . And not merely one aspect where one partner only shares and other cares.

I trust the cvs though.

The last line is so true😳

Baby u shall understand this in sometime... Let ur time come... 😆 it's OK yaar... Even I want to see tables turned... Shall we tweet to Mamta mam on this?? What say
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Originally posted by: aaliah3108

Baby u shall understand this in sometime... Let ur time come... 😆 it's OK yaar... Even I want to see tables turned... Shall we tweet to Mamta mam on this?? What say
😉

Originally posted by: LiveLife321

Word to everything you said here aaliah.

"Apologizing doesn't always mean you are wrong and other is right. It just means you value your relationship more than your ego"

What all you lovely people need is a tight hug🤗Guys relationships are not like balance sheets to check who will get more profit or who will be at loss. When we love someone it means we accept them along with all their flaws. You all may be seeing the sufferings what Sona is going through or will go through but i am seeing the RESPECT she is earning. This is the most difficult thing to earn in any relationship.

Hey u can call me Ruchi. My un is a pseudo name.
Well the path of love is not easy to traverse... It's a complete package... I agree what u said about apologizing... Just like a person who is silent is not weak... Oh yes respect is imp... He eventually did what she asked him to ... It's good in a way that he understood what she meant... Which he was not in the heat of the moment. Sona NE kya kaha tha... End mei Ladko ko ladkion ki baat Manning hi padta hai... Is mei kuch galat nai hai... 😆 😉

Yet to watch the episode but I also feel something that is deep rooted for 20 long years takes time to change..if they would have shown him agreeing easily that wouldnt have been justified about his character..
He shouted at Sona ..feeling bad about that..:(
He should have understood she is just trying to show him a different perspective..ummm..I think the he vent out the anger of all these years on her??? episode dekhne ke baad pata chalega..
Regarding the Bose family, its necessary to show some bonding between them and Dev. Yes the show is about Dev-Sona-Ishwari but Bose family are not just puppets..I really want to see Dev' s excitement too to know about what they feel about him and their relationship and he should value their approval too..really counting on the CVS on this..
As he said for Ranveer during that watch fiasco, he is his family and he can bend for his family..its necessary that he gives importance to Sonas family too..
its early to comment on this part as yet we have not entered that part Whr the family knows about their relationship but hoping to see this..

@saumiee... I'm gonna tweet to her tomm... Let's do it... My I'd is @Iamfulloflife... Tell me urs.. I'll. Follow u... 😉

Hi Saumya ,

Originally posted by: aaliah3108

@saumiee... I'm gonna tweet to her tomm... Let's do it... My I'd is @Iamfulloflife... Tell me urs.. I'll. Follow u... 😉

Originally posted by: desigirl987

Hi Saumya ,

U are not alone dear , I am loving Sona and more and more and was thinking of making a post regarding that 😊 . Its true most of us felt bad for Sona ... but she didn't , because its not the first time she has seen him being extremely caring and then being rude in the next moment , she fell in love with this complex man , and she was ready to accept him with all his weaknesses . Now that she knows him , she is trying to make him open up about his feelings , pains he went through , past . She really wants to heal him , and knows its only possible if he feels free to be the real "Dev' around her ,with all his shortcomings , not the IDEAL one he is to all other family and she understands , he loves her too much to feel guilty if he feels his words hurt her .By apologizing She was only giving assurance that she understand his pain , and will be there for him always . Its a slow process , but I feel she is in the right path ...

I'm a big fan of them both...I think Sona is trying for him to open up... And knows his complexities..
Infact she knew he would not be sleeping and will be thinking about what she has said.. But she let him Face his battles!

I love how open they both are and agree to disagree in a very positive manner...
I was happy to see Dev attend the pooja.. Sona's thoughts are very effective and have a big impact on him 👏 Slow and steady he will change for her even more! Like he just did for the Havan!!!