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Posted: 9 years ago
#41
Soumi... Haan re...
She should do that... After u said I realized... She's like his punching bag... He gets all romantic for one min n the next min ..baaam😳...

I want Sona to show him attitude...show him her value...he loves her...but he still has a long long way to go...to understand her real value
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Posted: 9 years ago
#42

Originally posted by: saumiee

I know right??! That was so bad. . Does he even know anything about her family, he is least bit interested in knowing her apart from his usual I love yous.šŸ˜•. Had someone slept while I am talking about my childhood and family, I would have never talked to him.šŸ„±šŸ˜†

Seriously!! Me too! It's an honest request to CVs to show some situations wherein Dev can be the strength and support for Sonakshi.. we get it, Sonakshi is Dev's saviour.. But he needs to support her as well and stop treating her like a therapist
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Aww my cute girls! Come here all of u. Let me give u a hug. Lovers fight... And they fight real bad trust me ... Don't talk may b for days... Some days belong to the gf, some to the bf... It all happens in turns... It really does not matter In a relationship who says sorry... See Dev is a difficult man and Sona knows... She said sorry I know many did not like but try to see why she cd have said so... She was asking him to change something he has not budged from since 27 years not even on his mom's persistence... Why will he agree immediately to what sona is saying... As it is he understands things late... There r diff ways to deal with different people... Like sona said... Diff plants req diff kind of soil and care... Some need to be tendered with more patience some can do with less care... If Dev would have agreed ASAP it wd have been against how he has been shown to be... Two fights and all r thinking sona deserves better... This is not how love works girls... šŸ˜† u can never come to know how a person is... Will be later on... There is no way to find out either ... When u love a person u embrace their faults... Their shortcomings everything... If our spouse is being difficult or obstinate one cannot leave the ground saying I care about damn... We try... Sometimes politely.. Sometimes with authority... Sometimes with humility... Sona is doing just that... Our girl is strong... Aise hi wo sab problems ki solution nai hai... She is sona which is
Pure gold and gold just glistens even more in hazardous Conditions.
Edited by aaliah3108 - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
#44
Me too ... Also in sona's Fandom...
Actually main to ShaRica ki Fandom main hu šŸ˜‰
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: sjain

I beg to differ here

Honestly their is nothing to feel bad about it and really I didnt even notice what you hve expressed in this post

well I believe we rightfully takeout frustration on the person who can take it easily and wont even complaint becoz they know you well enough to feel bad about it..and why dev didnt say "sorry isnt needed" ..ok thats seriously not important.. one cant be always so cautious while talking to your partner..its fine to be lil casual careless nd just b yourself in front of them..and vent out

and him saying that he cant change was best part of their scn in tonight's episode as it would have been so wrong if he had agreed to sit in pooja just coz sonakshi convinced him to do so..he took his own time ..she just stated her point of view in front of him and that clicked with him

She was upset coz she felt she pushed him to understand..(which according to me she didnt) but then even small arguments or disagreement sometimes disturbs you alot..infact she wasnt expecting any apology from Dev

ATM Ishwari has to misunderstand sonakshi ..its obvious..so i just dont care..let it be..she will be fine in future lmaoo

I guess i just went a bit overboard with my comment sorry for that hope it makes dome sense ..thats purely my POV

I never said that what Dev did was wrong. You can be yourselves with your loved one, surely.What my problem is that Sona has just become a person to whom everyone in the Dixit family vents out their feelings.
Dev snapped at her, Okay fine. It happens. But then, why did he change the topic and pointed how she called Ishwari 'maa'. I felt it was quite pointeless here. As if his world revolves around his own struggles and his mom.He could have said, just one line to mend it. Not even words I say, even his actions or expressions would be sufficient. But he was too consumed for his own good.
I found it vague when he shifted to being mushy wala perfect and hugged her..as if nothing happened. (The hug was adorable though *_* )

Yes, that part was very honest but very hurtful. It was not about changing you as a person anyway, but the feeling. Sona does not want to change him either. . But he is not even willing to try anything. Take it or leave it type. What about "you make me want to be a better person?"šŸ˜•
Edited by saumiee - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
#46
RR is the Karela of the show meant to make everything else sweeter... But yesterday her zurrath to check Shona's phone was uncalled for...
N when will this Dev start reacting to all this Zeena Zoori that is being tapkaoed upon Shona! He is to arrive in time to put RR to place before... Ab boyfriend ban Gaya toh late commer ban Gaya *shakes head*
PS: I jumped into a discussion again... :p I am Ress~
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Posted: 9 years ago
#47
Dev venting out his frustrations on Sona just shows how comfortable he is with her he is himself only with her , yes she convinced him not for herself but for his mother , sometimes guys when they know they losing to their girl they'll add something that makes the disagreement more stronger like saying he won't change for her , she asked him to change he knows he has been changing because of her love but he feels home with Sona so he vents out his frustration yes there should be a limit and Sona will probably tell him that's enough ! when she feels he has gone overboard
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Posted: 9 years ago
#48

Originally posted by: Push-pull

Come on let me give you a hug. šŸ¤—

We very well know that the Dixits are like this..šŸ˜†
I would anyday go with Dev's spurts than his high promisesšŸ˜†.. It makes him more real and true to his nature..šŸ˜‰

and don't you worry about our SonašŸ¤—.. She's not a poor soul to be lost in all this mess.. Sure it's a task for her to keep her going amidst this bunch of lost souls, but she sure will find her way...

Aww.. thanks for the hug..šŸ¤—
I want both Dev and Sonakshi to find their way together
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Buzzinnn...

Yes I did feel bad for a second or two maybe...but it wasn't intentional..My heart went out to that boy who held the almighty responsible for turning his family's life upside down. At that age, when something so devastating happens, it just gets imprinted in your head. And when Ishwari said that Bhagwan will make everything fine, he did pray with surety that his father will be fine. And when his father died, that faith in the almighty was lost too. To him Ishwari's faith in God did nothing for them & it was only his mother's hard work that helped them survive... And the difficulties that followed after his father's death only Dev knew... She didn't know! And that was the reason for his outburst. He didn't intentionally snap at her. It was all the pent up reservations that he had with the almighty that came out & Sona had to witness it. He loves her, you get to be yourself with the person you love the most...and he was being himself. And maybe she realized it & she immediately said sorry. But I wish she didn't have to say sorry though...

And when he said, he won't change for her, I liked his honesty. And am glad that he didn't evade that question & he gave her an answer. He did say he was a difficult man!!!...It's not going to be easy for Sona after all. But he did listen to her & sit for the Pooja...šŸ˜†

I'm a big fan of Sona too ā¤ļø ... Love her man. I love Devakshi & I hate to say it...yes she deserves much much better. Poor girl has no idea that she's stuck in a rut..😭

Yes, Dev loves her. .😳 And it wasn't intentional. Venting out your true feelings is okay.. better be honest than be fake and good. Its just that I am feeling that Sona is pretty much becoming a support system merely, where her own emotional needs and identity is slowly being lost.
You understand when your partner is frustrated and they need to speak it all up. .But there should be a limit to it. You can't be so distorted that you don't realise that you are hurting someone else too.
Okay, as I am typing this, I realise this happens in real life as well.šŸ˜† This reply is pointless now.šŸ˜†I just hope Dev realises that he cannot snap at her every time, what RV has already realised in the same epi.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: aaliah3108

Aww my cute girls! Come here all of u. Let me give u a hug. Lovers fight... And they fight real bad trust me ... Don't talk may b for days... Some days belong to the gf, some to the bf... It all happens in turns... It really does not matter In a relationship who says sorry... See Dev is a difficult man and Sona knows... She said sorry I know many did not like but try to see why she cd have said so... She was asking him to change something he has not budged from since 27 years not even on his mom's persistence... Why will he agree immediately to what sona is saying... As it is he understands things late... There r diff ways to deal with different people... Like sona said... Diff plants req diff kind of soil and care... Some need to be tendered with more patience some can do with less care... If Dev would have agreed ASAP it wd have been against how he has been shown to be... Two fights and all r thinking sona deserves better... This is not how love works girls... šŸ˜† u can never come to know how a person is... Will be later on... There is no way to find out either ... When u love a person u embrace their faults... Their shortcomings everything... If our spouse is being difficult or obstinate one cannot leave the ground saying I care about damn... We try... Sometimes politely.. Sometimes with authority... Sometimes with humility... Sona is doing just that... Our girl is strong... Aise hi wo sab problems ki solution nai hai... She is sona which is
Pure gold and gold just glistens even more in hazardous Conditions.

Aww😳 I don't know how much of it is true, but whatever you said sounds beautiful. . šŸ˜† I hope we get to see these dimensions in DevAkshi relationship. . And not merely one aspect where one partner only shares and other cares.
I trust the cvs though.
The last line is so true😳

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