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LovePraja

@LovePraja

Voyager

Posted: 9 years ago

#61

I too felt sorry for Sona today...

It is so bcoz these days Ishwari nd RR are having a go at her one after another... Dev doesn't seem to have any knowledge about this. It is very bad indeed. Sone has never been shown proper respect as s doctor/ nutritionist. She has always been taken for granted. But she had always been respectful towards everyone. Probably this is how she was able to win over Dev's trust first and his live later. She had been tolerant and patient and at d same time stood her ground in front of Dev.

But now that she's in love with Dev, she seems to think that she has to take care of people, understand their problems, deal with their insecurities in Dev's house without complaining... She seems to think it to be her duty.

That's why she gets close to them and in turn they treat her badly.

I feel really bad for her. Don't want her to be doormat... But I guess there more of torture to come her way. Hope Dev takes care of her.

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randommusings

@randommusings

Sparkler

Posted: 9 years ago

#62

Thanks for this post...awesome to know so many people love Sona. I actually started watching the show bcoz I liked her so much in the initial promo.

You rightly pointed out how Dev snapped at her, n gave no response to her sorry. Infact at restaurant also, he left her there all alone. His tone reminded me of initial Dev, Mr Aubhudro. Well he said he won't change even for her, it was a complete U-turn from confession whr he said - she made him a better man.

Seriously she is caught between such complex and rude people - who shouts/insults first and then talk sweetly without apologising when Sona only wants to help them.

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Erian

@Erian

Explorer

Posted: 9 years ago

#63

Originally posted by: saumiee
Tell me if I am alone. . But instead of understanding Dev's dilemma of choosing what to do, I was feeling bad for Sona.
I felt pathetic when He snapped at her, that
No! You dont understand what I am going through

All Poor Sona said was 'I understand' and 'sorry' afterwards.

🥺 Dev did not even say Sorry wasn't needed. He changed the topic.
And then he clearly said, he won't change even for her. 🤢
(Though he is changing😆)
Dev, dare you ask her to change or adjust for you. . Entire Sona fandom would be coming after you then😡😆
(IDK if there exists a Sona fandom, or I am the single member🤣)

After all this, all Dev could register was that Sonakshi called Ishwari 'Maa'😕
Sonakshi was upset at night when she remembered what he said, But I am glad she did not message him.😃

Now, she will face the wrath of Ishwari Ji. . Even when Dev sat in the pooja for Ishwari and not Sonakshi. She just put things into perspective for him.

Am I the only one who thinks Sona deserves better? And please don't say she is responsible for the mess, you can't blame her if she is a nice girl.
P.S I still love DevAkshi though.😆

Of course you're not alone in this Sona fandom. I also am a member of the group too.

I fully agree with you as it was not at all just behaviour of Mr. Dixit. He can't misbehave with the poor girl for his own trauma. She's trying her level best to give all the care, support & love he needs. I can understand Mr. Dixit had a difficult childhood but it's not justified to snap her every time it comes out. There was, is & probably will be frustration but Mr. Dixit shouldn't take his lady love for granted.

There's no one in the Dixit family who raises a voice for Sona. She's not only taunted by RR on every single time she sees her but also been humiliated on several occassions. No one, not even her Mr. Obhodro stood up for her.

Now Mrs. Ishwari Dixit is also misbehaving with Sona for her own insecurities. And Mr. Dixit is ignoring every single occassions to protect her.

I so wish Sonakshi stood up for herself & tell Mr. Dixit that he needs to learn to Support her too. After all, whatever she's doing it's only for HIS betterment. I just want the SHERNI Sona back.

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vinshe

@vinshe

Explorer

Posted: 9 years ago

#64

I love Sona too..

Didn't like Dev's tone one bit.. she should demand better.. next time they have a fight or an argument or any disagreement she should be the one to walk off..

As much as I love Devakshi.. i strongly feel men should learn to treat their women right..

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AnnTaylor

@AnnTaylor

Explorer

Posted: 9 years ago

#65

Count me in. I feel sorry to see a self possessed girl like Sona stuck with the dysfunctional family like Dixits. But I am sure she will navigate the situations with grace and dignity.

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Silambu

@Silambu

Dazzler

+ 4

Posted: 9 years ago

#66

Hmmm I think Dev is suffering from PMS - the male version. Lets cut him some slacks😆

Dev, that was totally uncalled for ...dont have to change but can adjust right

I think the only rationale explanation I can find for Dev's outburst, he was pre-occupied with his disbelief in god who he felt abandoned his family when they needed God the most and he lost faith.

So in that anger mode, words flowed...not intentionally...could have been better though...a little too indifferent to Sona was not needed.

Well Dev is learning...at least he came to pooja... so finally congrats to Sona who managed to convince him in her own subtle way and he listened !

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shruti.

@shruti2007

Dazzler

Posted: 9 years ago

#67

Originally posted by: saumiee

What I hate the most is, she has been so lovingly brought up by her parents. . And she has to bear with all this 'yelling and snapping' now. .

Yaaa poor sona, others yelling at her i can understand, bt dev 😡 also dis too much tht day in coffee shop and now in house.dis too much yaar being romantic is not enough

Edited by shruti. - 9 years ago

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Sharicafan

@Sharicafan

Beginner

Posted: 9 years ago

#68

I am glad people are noticing this..I felt very bad when he left her in the cafe that day...it was perhaps the worst thing a guy can do on a romantic date...people were happy about the 100th episode and the forehead kiss and many were happy they patched up soon...yet Dev's anger seemed very scary and yes, he did it again! Snapping is not a healthy way of discussing. I hope Sona gets angry after the next fight and makes Dev come over to her house to apologise...I am happy how Sona has managed to stay calm despite unacceptable behaviors by Dev,Ishwari and RR. Dysfunctional family indeed...

P.S I love Dev...It's just that his anger streak makes me worry about Sona...and why has he stopped trying to kiss her or prevent her from going? I miss that..

Edited by Sharicafan - 9 years ago

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Simrran

@poojak

Voyager

Posted: 9 years ago

#69

I know right. Dev doesn't treat her nicely. Feels like she a Cupid bt dev and her family problems. She is s well sorted person. She loves dev but she deserves respect also. Come on CVS, don't shape her character like this.

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sowiee

@sowiee

Dazzler

Posted: 9 years ago

#70

Hii..even I m into the fandom u r not alone.

The thing is she is adjusting a lot for him

Even Dev shud adjust something for her Na..

I felt really bad for sona when he said u don't know anything if she doesn't know anything why will she come and gve that gyaan bhashaa and all...

I even got bad when he said nahiii I will not. Change ..I mean we can clearly see the change in the sona face expression.

She is right everyone is nor perfect same applies to u sona..u should voice out your opinion unless and until you don't voice out Dev cannot understand what you are feeling. It hurts you later because of your silence today.

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