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Posted: 9 years ago
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I am so thankful to you forget about making a post but rather this thing crossed your mind.
Off late either dev is all lovey dovey or else he snaps at sona like anything. I agree he had a painful and disastrous past but that time is over. You can never move ahead if don't bury the remnants of past. He always claims that you won't understand but has he ever tried to get her point all that matters is his family and their needs. Has he ever bothered to ask her about sona's family or their wellbeing. The story just revolves around dev and his family. Sonakshi too must have faced loads of problems and must have struggled but that is never discussed.
The episode yesterday with radha rani left a very bad taste in my mouth and yet again this act of dev left a sour taste and void that he has not understood sona as of now. He has a shoulder to always cry upon in sona but he himself said no matter what his mother would always be his ultimate goal has he ever thought of the poor soul who would she look for.
I often wonder why over a period of time a girl loses her ferocious nature in almost all the serials.
I want the fiesta not ferocious sonakshi back who gives back what other person deserves. I want her to give a piece of mind to all three rr, ishwari and dev.
Lastly if not least ishwari is a human and not god.she must have committed mistake and her son will definitely beg and bend down in front of God when all layers of ishwari will unfold. Love u r parents but what he does is insane, we all are human and to err is only human. Respect u r parents, learn from them follow their advice but do not blindly move onto a path shown by anyone.
Dev should realise that it is the blessings of God that that made it till here otherwise there are so many people in world who just passes away with their struggles.
Both the mother son duo really should thano god for the most valuable and precious blessing in their life whom they just take for granted.
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Posted: 9 years ago
#32
I beg to differ here

Honestly their is nothing to feel bad about it and really I didnt even notice what you hve expressed in this post

well I believe we rightfully takeout frustration on the person who can take it easily and wont even complaint becoz they know you well enough to feel bad about it..and why dev didnt say "sorry isnt needed" ..ok thats seriously not important.. one cant be always so cautious while talking to your partner..its fine to be lil casual careless nd just b yourself in front of them..and vent out

and him saying that he cant change was best part of their scn in tonight's episode as it would have been so wrong if he had agreed to sit in pooja just coz sonakshi convinced him to do so..he took his own time ..she just stated her point of view in front of him and that clicked with him

She was upset coz she felt she pushed him to understand..(which according to me she didnt) but then even small arguments or disagreement sometimes disturbs you alot..infact she wasnt expecting any apology from Dev

ATM Ishwari has to misunderstand sonakshi ..its obvious..so i just dont care..let it be..she will be fine in future lmaoo

I guess i just went a bit overboard with my comment sorry for that hope it makes dome sense ..thats purely my POV
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Posted: 9 years ago
#33

Originally posted by: Cool_wonder


Tell me about it😲...she spoke so beautifully and maturely .and all Dev. Ould hear was maa😲

A nightmare boyfriend for any girl ya...


And he hugs her after she says that she'll call him maa before him...ufff

In donoko sati yug me behjo re baba😡😆

After the confession I felt Dev is gonna be the best boyfriend ever, but he really has a long long way to go!!
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Posted: 9 years ago
#34
agree saumya

I felt so bad for sona and after that sona was saying sorry too 😭 i just didnt like dev's tone and i was expecting a sorry from his side too or atleast when sona said sorry he could have said ' u dont need to be sorry because u r not wrong' he better make up for it tomorrow.

I really want dev to interact with bose family after confessionwe have not seen any. relationships should be mutual anx balanced but this time their relation looks like one sided.

u are not alone saumi , i m with u and many more are i am sure 😊
but still love devakshi
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Posted: 9 years ago
#35
Come on let me give you a hug. 🤗
We very well know that the Dixits are like this..😆
I would anyday go with Dev's spurts than his high promises😆.. It makes him more real and true to his nature..😉

and don't you worry about our Sona🤗.. She's not a poor soul to be lost in all this mess.. Sure it's a task for her to keep her going amidst this bunch of lost souls, but she sure will find her way...
Edited by Push-pull - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
#36

Originally posted by: Cool_wonder

I am with you soumi...

I love that Sona girl...gosh...remembering ishwaris one word..."ur so young ..yet you handled this better than I did" when Sona convinenced neha for lehenga...

Somewhere Dev is taking Sona for granted...he is possessive about her loves her and all...guess he needs to change in few other things as well...

I so so so so have a feeling that Sona will be the one to back out first ... When she learns that Dev n Ishwari r in pain because of her...

Yaar, she is so mature and sensible for her age. It should be Dev because he went through a troubled childhood and all that and they say, experience teaches you a lot. Doesn't look like that to me.
Sometimes I feel, for Dev Sona is valuable only because HE loves Her, nothing beyond that.
Oh no! I don't want her to be sacrificing and leave. . instead
I want her to leave and say it clear and loud that you can't keep me in this mess! I am not your personal belonging. . For all your mush talks. .and venting out. Sort your problems with your mother and then come back to me!
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Posted: 9 years ago
#37

Originally posted by: Malvika07

Sorry to butt in, but yes!! He does that a lot!! Whenever sonakshi talks about her family he just zones out.. hell, they even showed a scene that he went to sleep when Sonakshi started talking about her family!! Imagine if sona would've done something like this.. he would've gotten so upset.. disappointing it is,really!

I know right??! That was so bad. . Does he even know anything about her family, he is least bit interested in knowing her apart from his usual I love yous.😕. Had someone slept while I am talking about my childhood and family, I would have never talked to him.🥱😆
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Posted: 9 years ago
#38

Yes I did feel bad for a second or two maybe...but it wasn't intentional..My heart went out to that boy who held the almighty responsible for turning his family's life upside down. At that age, when something so devastating happens, it just gets imprinted in your head. And when Ishwari said that Bhagwan will make everything fine, he did pray with surety that his father will be fine. And when his father died, that faith in the almighty was lost too. To him Ishwari's faith in God did nothing for them & it was only his mother's hard work that helped them survive... And the difficulties that followed after his father's death only Dev knew... She didn't know! And that was the reason for his outburst. He didn't intentionally snap at her. It was all the pent up reservations that he had with the almighty that came out & Sona had to witness it. He loves her, you get to be yourself with the person you love the most...and he was being himself. And maybe she realized it & she immediately said sorry. But I wish she didn't have to say sorry though...

And when he said, he won't change for her, I liked his honesty. And am glad that he didn't evade that question & he gave her an answer. He did say he was a difficult man!!!...It's not going to be easy for Sona after all. But he did listen to her & sit for the Pooja...😆

I'm a big fan of Sona too ❤️ ... Love her man. I love Devakshi & I hate to say it...yes she deserves much much better. Poor girl has no idea that she's stuck in a rut..😭

Edited by Buzzinnn... - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
#39
The snap felt like a dhappad on our faces it hurt... N yes yaar this Dev bf classes jaata hai kya? Jab sorry bolne KI baath aayi phat se topic change? N waise I felt Shona calling auntyji maa awkward to say the least '
Edited by mi7chimes - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
#40

Originally posted by: Prarthana33

I am so thankful to you forget about making a post but rather this thing crossed your mind.

Off late either dev is all lovey dovey or else he snaps at sona like anything. I agree he had a painful and disastrous past but that time is over. You can never move ahead if don't bury the remnants of past. He always claims that you won't understand but has he ever tried to get her point all that matters is his family and their needs. Has he ever bothered to ask her about sona's family or their wellbeing. The story just revolves around dev and his family. Sonakshi too must have faced loads of problems and must have struggled but that is never discussed.
The episode yesterday with radha rani left a very bad taste in my mouth and yet again this act of dev left a sour taste and void that he has not understood sona as of now. He has a shoulder to always cry upon in sona but he himself said no matter what his mother would always be his ultimate goal has he ever thought of the poor soul who would she look for.
I often wonder why over a period of time a girl loses her ferocious nature in almost all the serials.
I want the fiesta not ferocious sonakshi back who gives back what other person deserves. I want her to give a piece of mind to all three rr, ishwari and dev.
Lastly if not least ishwari is a human and not god.she must have committed mistake and her son will definitely beg and bend down in front of God when all layers of ishwari will unfold. Love u r parents but what he does is insane, we all are human and to err is only human. Respect u r parents, learn from them follow their advice but do not blindly move onto a path shown by anyone.
Dev should realise that it is the blessings of God that that made it till here otherwise there are so many people in world who just passes away with their struggles.
Both the mother son duo really should thano god for the most valuable and precious blessing in their life whom they just take for granted.

Thanks a lot and very well said dear🤗

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