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Posted: 9 years ago
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Yeah I agree. Actually I was really annoyed with Sona making it about her. Like you said its different because Dev will be able to provide a good life for Sona and frankly Sona can work as well.
If Neha is relying on Ranveer for financial support then its reasonable that Neha wants to better his ability to provide for them.

But what I don't get is if all this is so important to Neha then why doesn't she get a job outside the house. That way she'll be able to support her own needs without having to worry about Ranveer's issues.
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Posted: 9 years ago
#42
If Dev had shared this same problem with Sona before confessing ,Sona would have advised him instead of walking away.She shouldnt have got offended but helped Dev clear his mind. JMO.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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<font color="#990000"><font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="2">@ TM : Firstly your tile of your post is really Sona behaving like Ishita😆If Sona were Ishita, she should have given more lectures on middle class to Dev, Plus she would have gone straight to Neha room explaining her how wrong she is in ? Then next day she would have gone out of way to explain things to Ranveer as well.😆?

I don't think - Sona character has not done anything above mentioned things. So She is different than Ishita. ( I loved Ishita character - YHM 1.0 wali 😆)

Now coming to serial part- Obviously no one is wrong in this situation.Dev and Neha are more practical people , because of their past. Ranveer and Sona are more emotional people plus they can't compromise on their self respect.

Hatss off to Cv to writing such beautiful characters- where you can sympathise with each character rather than Blame- game.

Hatss off to forumwaisi is always so positive and always respect differnt pov.


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Edited by mayu1982 - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
#44
I agree with @mayu1982 ..😊
If sona is like Ishitha she will not worry about herself. .As a mahan female lead she will go and give lecturers to neha and ranveer whether they want it or not..🤣


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Posted: 9 years ago
#45
Well even I felt Sona was bit wrong in her reaction. First of all Dev called her to speak to her about the mess. He has clearly told many times to her that he wants to give all happiness to his sisters.. I felt Sona over reacted instead of understanding his POV. He just wants his sister to be happy the way she wants.. not having any financial issues..
Sonaherself has faced the situation when she lost her job and had issues with money initially and thats why even if she didnt want she agreed to work with Dev. and now when Dev doesnt want his sister to face the poverty they had already seen once she just walked away saying Dev doesnt want relation with middle class family.. How could she forget that Dev wasnt from middle class but from POOR family once so he understands his sister's fear...

He dint insult Ranveer but gave him an opportunity that too in the field he wants... i felt Ranveer had inferiority complex as well which he called self-respect...

I agree with malikakas that Neha has to be self dependent now and stop bothering her bhai and worrying about Ranveer's family... get a life girl...
Edited by sowmyap03 - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
#46
You don't choose who you fall in love with. And I'm hundred percent with Sona, if Neha had such a problem with Ranveer's financial status, there were other ways than telling Dev to give him a job that pays better. It's not about even Neha's worries that made Ranveer angry, but the fact that she didn't tell him. Relationships are based off of honestly and trust, and Neha needs to get that. I think Sona understands this, hence she's angry with Dev. Realistically, if he's feeling this way about Neha and Ranveer, how will he be with them when they get married? And Ranveer isn't poor, I don't think the brother sister get this. Probably because they have only been very poor, and now very rich, they haven't lived in the middle class so they don't understand that life is not that hard with middle class families.
Just my opinion😛
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: aaliah3108

Nope u got it wrong. A statement that both the families status does not match can either be applicable to both dev and Neha or none. You cannot say it's OK for dev while not OK for Neha. This is self contradiction. She just told him the right thing. Sona is not wrong.

My thoughts exactly 👏
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: aaliah3108



Sorry girls u r not getting the crux of the issue. What if he turns poor after being rich for sometime. What if dev loses his wealth... What do u do... Abandon the person??? . I'm just saying money is imp but if u love a person more u will still go ahead and choose to be with him despite financial issues... Why cannot Neha think of building a life with ranveer and be an equal contributor!!!! One cannot get the both of all world's.

THANK YOU. 👏👏👏
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Mages

dev and neha has hurt ranveer's self respect...thats what both sona-ishwari trying to say...which is true...its not wrong to help but its wrong to set condition...ranveer maybe a lower middle class man...but he is not lazy...he has his own stable job...he will take care of his family by his own...its not his ego...its his self-respect and self-pride...there are people like that in the world...

for those who are saying ranveer is MCP...if he is a MCP...he would have treated neha like a crap...he would not have encourage neha to study...there is a difference b/w self-respecting man and MCP...

i don't support neha at all...just becos she suffered in her childhood...she wants a easy way in life with conditions...relationships are not based on conditions...if she was thinking so much at status and all that...she should not have confess her love and just concentrate on her studies and get marry to a rich man...didn't she refused to accept ranveer's love due to his middle class condition...than why confess her love...life is all abt struggle and ups and downs...with her support and love...ranveer will succeed in his life...there is no need to set conditions...

all ranveer wants...there is no interference in his lifestyle...any self-respecting man would want that...he can change anything for love but not his principles...there are some people in real world lives their life with principles...they can sacrifice anything but not their principles...

So true, relationships cannot be built on conditions!!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: TheRowdiest


She is the biggest Mahaan Aatma in this world

She knows everything , she can never be wrong and other person infront of her can never be right, she is the bhashan queen ...when time comes she can do deliveries , become a doctor , nurses won't be able to do deliveries but they wait for her ... Inshort there is nothing in this world which she can't do 😆


Haha mahaan aatma...na na our Sona is simple si bandi
..not mahaan at all 😆

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