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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: aban1



Hi I am new in this forum. But I thing ranveer is a man who loves his ego more than anything. If he doesn't want to take Dev's or anyones help he should try himself to give Neha the life style she is in now. if not 100% at list 60%. But he is not doing anything where Neha already told him that she scared of poverty as she face a lot in her life. so if you really love her do something, rather than doing anything he just want Naha to compromise, my question is if you can't compromise your ego then why Neha will compromise her life. Why girls always needs to do that. and there is a difference between Ego and Self-respect. Raver has ego and he consider that as his self-respect.

And in sona's case she came from a middle class family not seen the life that Dev and Neha was. So it's easy for her to give lecture and moral gyan but very difficult to lead that life.

She already told him she is scared

This exactly my view... 1. She had already told that she is scared of Poverty... But he still proposed.

2. Sona came from proper middle class or bit upper middle class where she got equal importance and opportunity to do whatever she wants to study or live. So she has no idea what Neha gone thru and will go thru after marriage.

But still best thing about Neha is she is not rejecting Ranveer coz he is poor she loves him as a person. And she is not earning so she expects her brother to help.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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This is the best thing about the show
We can't blame anyone.. no one is completely wrong here
Neither dev nor sona
Neither ranveer nor neha


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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: manasa.hegde

She already told him she is scared

This exactly my view... 1. She had already told that she is scared of Poverty... But he still proposed.

2. Sona came from proper middle class or bit upper middle class where she got equal importance and opportunity to do whatever she wants to study or live. So she has no idea what Neha gone thru and will go thru after marriage.

But still best thing about Neha is she is not rejecting Ranveer coz he is poor she loves him as a person. And she is not earning so she expects her brother to help.



Sorry girls u r not getting the crux of the issue. What if he turns poor after being rich for sometime. What if dev loses his wealth... What do u do... Abandon the person??? . I'm just saying money is imp but if u love a person more u will still go ahead and choose to be with him despite financial issues... Why cannot Neha think of building a life with ranveer and be an equal contributor!!!! One cannot get the both of all world's.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: aban1


Hi I am new in this forum. But I thing ranveer is a man who loves his ego more than anything. If he doesn't want to take Dev's or anyones help he should try himself to give Neha the life style she is in now. if not 100% at list 60%. But he is not doing anything where Neha already told him that she scared of poverty as she face a lot in her life. so if you really love her do something, rather than doing anything he just want Naha to compromise, my question is if you can't compromise your ego then why Neha will compromise her life. Why girls always needs to do that. and there is a difference between Ego and Self-respect. Raver has ego and he consider that as his self-respect.

And in sona's case she came from a middle class family not seen the life that Dev and Neha was. So it's easy for her to give lecture and moral gyan but very difficult to lead that life.


i agree with u 100%. ranveer is just being a typical mcp. and sona is comparing herself
to ranveers. sonsa seems more like a upper middle class family where ranveers is a lower middle
class family. just see the comparison between ranveers house & sonas house. THERE IS A
HUGE DIFFERENCE. sona does not understand what neha has gone thru but dev can.
sona was never in the place neha was. having said that neha should not have accepted
ranveer in the first place knowing very well where he is coming from. but i guess she must
have thought that given an opportunity he might want to come up in life as she said in
todays episode.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: aaliah3108

Nope u got it wrong. A statement that both the families status does not match can either be applicable to both dev and Neha or none. You cannot say it's OK for dev while not OK for Neha. This is self contradiction. She just told him the right thing. Sona is not wrong.


i completely agree...dev was talking abt status which did not go down well with sona as she hails from a middle class family...sona was not wrong in what she say...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: manasa.hegde



Thats what I am saying... If Neha was fine with Ranveer's financial status he wouldn't be bothered.. She wanted him to be well settled.. He doesn't mind for Sona coz he feels he can keep her happy and able to give her whatever she wants thats why he is not bothered abt her financial status. But whereas Ranveer can't do that for his sister.

Like they say only money can't keep you happy likewise only love is not enough to be happy. A balance of both is necessary to lead a happy life practically in today's life.


Super agree with what you say!!!! bingo!!

A balance of both is necessary to lead a happy life practically in today's life.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: aaliah3108



Sorry girls u r not getting the crux of the issue. What if he turns poor after being rich for sometime. What if dev loses his wealth... What do u do... Abandon the person??? . I'm just saying money is imp but if u love a person more u will still go ahead and choose to be with him despite financial issues... Why cannot Neha think of building a life with ranveer and be an equal contributor!!!! One cannot get the both of all world's.



neha is not well educated enough to get a job and looking at ranveer he doesnt seem like
the kind of person who would allow neha to work bcos even his bhabhi is not working.
actually they should have shown women in ranveers family also working to support the family
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: aaliah3108



Sorry girls u r not getting the crux of the issue. What if he turns poor after being rich for sometime. What if dev loses his wealth... What do u do... Abandon the person??? . I'm just saying money is imp but if u love a person more u will still go ahead and choose to be with him despite financial issues... Why cannot Neha think of building a life with ranveer and be an equal contributor!!!! One cannot get the both of all world's.



That is what Neha trying to do.. She is uneducated that doesn't mean she can't do any businesss or anything but as she is not earning she is taking her brother help she is trying to build her new life. Of course she accepted Ranveer even after knowing he is low middle class very poor but still she loves him wants to lead life with him but expects little better life. Yes if Dev loses money they will work hard n build their life again rather saying mein jhopadi mein khush hoon. This Ranveer doesn't want move ahead of his 2-3 students tution in his life.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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dev and neha has hurt ranveer's self respect...thats what both sona-ishwari trying to say...which is true...its not wrong to help but its wrong to set condition...ranveer maybe a lower middle class man...but he is not lazy...he has his own stable job...he will take care of his family by his own...its not his ego...its his self-respect and self-pride...there are people like that in the world...
for those who are saying ranveer is MCP...if he is a MCP...he would have treated neha like a crap...he would not have encourage neha to study...there is a difference b/w self-respecting man and MCP...

i don't support neha at all...just becos she suffered in her childhood...she wants a easy way in life with conditions...relationships are not based on conditions...if she was thinking so much at status and all that...she should not have confess her love and just concentrate on her studies and get marry to a rich man...didn't she refused to accept ranveer's love due to his middle class condition...than why confess her love...life is all abt struggle and ups and downs...with her support and love...ranveer will succeed in his life...there is no need to set conditions...

all ranveer wants...there is no interference in his lifestyle...any self-respecting man would want that...he can change anything for love but not his principles...there are some people in real world lives their life with principles...they can sacrifice anything but not their principles...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: diyah_us


i agree with u 100%. ranveer is just being a typical mcp. and sona is comparing herself
to ranveers. sonsa seems more like a upper middle class family where ranveers is a lower middle
class family. just see the comparison between ranveers house & sonas house. THERE IS A
HUGE DIFFERENCE. sona does not understand what neha has gone thru but dev can.
sona was never in the place neha was. having said that neha should not have accepted
ranveer in the first place knowing very well where he is coming from. but i guess she must
have thought that given an opportunity he might want to come up in life as she said in
todays episode.


Bang on..!! Sona or Ranveer has not lived what Dev & Neha has seen in a very young age...
So they are not able to place themselves in their shoes. And they are bringing out or rather venting out their inferiority complex layers and layers of it...from within...

Neha and Ranveer need to sort our their class differences, and if Ranveer isnt willing to take a few steps to Neha, and viceversa it is better they do not continue the relation, because they do not have selfless love which will sustain for a lifetime. They should learn to share their issues and wishes... with each other...and care for the other than their own...


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