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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: diyah_us



neha is not well educated enough to get a job and looking at ranveer he doesnt seem like
the kind of person who would allow neha to work bcos even his bhabhi is not working.
actually they should have shown women in ranveers family also working to support the family


i don't think so...if he encourages neha to study and when the time comes...he will encourage her to work...there might be a difference b/w ranveer's bro's thoughts and ranveer's thought...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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its better neha-ranveer break off their relationship and neha gets married to a rich man...neha definitely can't adjust with ranveer...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Mages

dev and neha has hurt ranveer's self respect...thats what both sona-ishwari trying to say...which is true...its not wrong to help but its wrong to set condition...ranveer maybe a lower middle class man...but he is not lazy...he has his own stable job...he will take care of his family by his own...its not his ego...its his self-respect and self-pride...there are people like that in the world...

for those who are saying ranveer is MCP...if he is a MCP...he would have treated neha like a crap...he would not have encourage neha to study...there is a difference b/w self-respecting man and MCP...

i don't support neha at all...just becos she suffered in her childhood...she wants a easy way in life with conditions...relationships are not based on conditions...if she was thinking so much at status and all that...she should not have confess her love and just concentrate on her studies and get marry to a rich man...didn't she refused to accept ranveer's love due to his middle class condition...than why confess her love...life is all abt struggle and ups and downs...with her support and love...ranveer will succeed in his life...there is no need to set conditions...

all ranveer wants...there is no interference in his lifestyle...any self-respecting man would want that...he can change anything for love but not his principles...there are some people in real world lives their life with principles...they can sacrifice anything but not their principles...


His point is valid only until the first time. He did not present it in a good way. He is a teacher right, so don't you think he could have dealt with this in a better and more patient way. It shows clearly, that although he understands Neha's requirements he dared to love her. How did he otherwise know Dev's interference? So he knows what Neha feels about his life. Point is we are not saying Neha's soch was right, in getting Dev involved, but Dev did understand and respect what his passion in life is... Teaching... and being the HOD, he can correct the corrupted system of teaching...which is what he could not bear before. In Finland, and all.. teachers are paid best. why, coz they value more than any other profession. So what is the harm in having a comfortable life. Not a rich tycoon. It is just an opportunity. He has to anyways prove. Forget it, he did not apply. Fair enough. He can discuss this with Neha and work on it a bit right? knowing that she wants him to grow more... tharakki karne se even his family will be happy only right...?
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: aaliah3108



Sorry girls u r not getting the crux of the issue. What if he turns poor after being rich for sometime. What if dev loses his wealth... What do u do... Abandon the person??? . I'm just saying money is imp but if u love a person more u will still go ahead and choose to be with him despite financial issues... Why cannot Neha think of building a life with ranveer and be an equal contributor!!!! One cannot get the both of all world's.


We all knows season change can make you sick still we try to save ourself right. season change can make you sick " ham a nahi kahate cholo bimar to hona hi ha to kuch vi kare".

when you know there is a road work going ahead you try to avoid that road. never think it can happen in any road so just take is one.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: sammy8182

but even neha had a choice to luv him ..she shld hv thought abt it...i thnk she shld hvve taken more time before decciding to marry him.. NOW whn she has decided she cant lay conditions..

Same goes for sona tomm if dev goes bankrupt u think she shld not marry him...she will right??

Its all about luv &trust on capability of person...
There is nothinng as pracctical..its all about ideal ..only when ideal life is led with conditions we gve it name of praccticality...

My pov😊





BANG ON DUDE! Would you ssay Sona should not marry Dev if HE becomes bankrupt? But one thing agreed, she shouldn't have taken it personally.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: sajinifaby


His point is valid only until the first time. He did not present it in a good way. He is a teacher right, so don't you think he could have dealt with this in a better and more patient way. It shows clearly, that although he understands Neha's requirements he dared to love her. How did he otherwise know Dev's interference? So he knows what Neha feels about his life. Point is we are not saying Neha's soch was right, in getting Dev involved, but Dev did understand and respect what his passion in life is... Teaching... and being the HOD, he can correct the corrupted system of teaching...which is what he could not bear before. In Finland, and all.. teachers are paid best. why, coz they value more than any other profession. So what is the harm in having a comfortable life. Not a rich tycoon. It is just an opportunity. He has to anyways prove. Forget it, he did not apply. Fair enough. He can discuss this with Neha and work on it a bit right? knowing that she wants him to grow more... tharakki karne se even his family will be happy only right...?


exactly yaar. its like he has decided that what life he is leading IS ONLY good. thats
where he is wrong. and devs second job offer is really good. nothing wrong with that.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: diyah_us


i agree with u 100%. ranveer is just being a typical mcp. and sona is comparing herself
to ranveers. sonsa seems more like a upper middle class family where ranveers is a lower middle
class family. just see the comparison between ranveers house & sonas house. THERE IS A
HUGE DIFFERENCE. sona does not understand what neha has gone thru but dev can.
sona was never in the place neha was. having said that neha should not have accepted
ranveer in the first place knowing very well where he is coming from. but i guess she must
have thought that given an opportunity he might want to come up in life as she said in
todays episode.


Manasa, diyah_us: I agree with both of you. Expectations come from both the sides. As you mentioned @bold: yes I too feel that neha believed in ranveer accepting new opportunities in future coming from his own capacity. She knew that he is well qualified so she might have had this opinion. That's why she accepted his proposal later after giving a second thought though she rejected him earlier.
What I don't understand is that why ranveer is not getting neha's pov.. agreed money is not everything in one's life but then you can't even disagree the importance of money. If in future any of ranveer's family falls seriously ill with some serious health issue then it's simple that ranveer cannot afford it. But neha has seen this kind of difficulties.. she is very well aware of such situations. Noted ranveer's status is not that bad but there's no harm in going for a even more good job from his own capabilities.
If you see your ideals are more important then you should choose someone who shares same views. I agree with neha coz if ranveer's love is also sachha then he can also take up a lucrative job of course without taking dev's help.
Coming sona. . Dev was talking about status keeping neha's life in his mind so it's stupid of sona to take it in a general view n applying it to her relationship with dev. One can kind of adjust in a luxurious lifestyle I.e sona in dev's household but for neha it's not easy to adjust in a lower middle class life.. added to her difficulty is her past experience which is a major obstacle. Yes agreed status shouldn't come in love but here neha's case is different. . Her's is a complicated life which makes different from others life I.e sona's life. Sometimes a generalised opinion doesn't hold good in some situations n in some lives.
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Posted: 9 years ago
#28
I don't watch any other show so cannot comment on your comparison...but here is what I replied on another thread...
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Regarding her taking things personally - it was a VERY human thing to show. Imagine you are a girl who has never been loved by a boyfriend, falls in love, breaks her heart because the guy doesn't even look at her that way - and then just a few days back he said he loved her. ANYBODY would be insecure - it's WAY too early in a relationship for her to be completely sure of Dev, and what he said just brought the insecurity to the fore.

What I like about this show is the realistic portrayal of human flaws...both in Dev & Sonakshi. Real life love is not like normal movies - it has insecurities, and trust issues and gradual understanding.
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Posted: 9 years ago
#29

Originally posted by: manasa.hegde

Sorry for the comparision... But sona talked too Mahan kind with Dev... Whats wrong in what Dev did.. He didnt insult that Ranveer he was helping him in a reapectful way. If Ranveer was so soecific about his lifestyle and money matters.. He should have chosen some girl from his Basti not a rich family girl.. And coming to Sona.. Both couple things are diff.. She may be middle class but Dev doesn't go and stay at her place as Ghar Jamayi instead ahe would come n stay in his place.. Simply she took it personalised..

And I find no wrong of Neha. She has seen so much since her childhood. And its not just Ranveer and his mom.. His brother, bhabhi, n two kids.. She just have to completly sacrifice all her life.


c if someone's ego is hurt dats most dangerous.dev did dat. its a common human behaviour. it may seem like dev was helping ranveer but he was not.

Now to sona-dev conversation.dev started da discussion about status and all keeping in mind ranveer and neha. but he did not realise sona is also from middle class family and dere is a huge class diff btw dem. so obviously sona would be hurt bcoz she was relating herself to dat situation.sometimes wen we say somethng we dont realise wt r we saying.dat happened with dev too
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Ok..not seen much of Ishita ..but I can guess about her character as she is lead protagonist of EK daily soap...I hope, wish that KRPKAB writers/CV carry on with the good work and keep the show as close to reality unlike EK shows which are puke-worthy...sorry for EK fans but that is the truth.. all her shows have same cliched story line and OTT melodrama...which is unbearable and irritating..

Anyways coming to today's sona's reaction ...I felt she over reacted but I agree to what she said rather what she meant..Dev constant saying that Neha cannot adjust or she has seen a lot so deserves happiness which only money can buy will irritate anyone who too belongs to same category like Ranveer and has self respect
More over from Sona's perspective ...Sona and Ranveer are on same boat financially.. just because neha is going to a middle class family and Sona will be coming from middle class family , doesn't make the situation different...so if Dev wants Ranveer to become rich so he is worth Neha , means even Sona should be rich to be worth Dev... that is what mami's logic was for which we hate her ...and hence sona getting hurt is natural because she loves Dev and excepts same from Dev but if that is what he thinks about Neha-Ranveer relation..he might think same about their...

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