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Posted: 9 years ago
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I dont think ranveer neha, sona dev cases are different. If ranveer has to uplift his standard of living to match neha than even sona has to do to match dev. Which is not right. Today dev is referring ranveer tomorrow he might do the same with saurav dada. Because he is also family right from sona's side. Will the bose family accept this? And sona? Its the same thing. Thats why the cvs are showing the two loves stories parallelly. Cause one will effect the other in one way or the other.

Dev's method of helping ranveeer was wrong what i think. He was like direct khana plate mai saja ke diya . He should have just given him the plate. I hope ranveer will take it as a push and work something on his own.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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What I feel why Sona got upset.When Dev said our situation is diff.Because Dev is a business man so he think he can afford whatever Sona ask.But Sona is not a girl who gives imp to money. If U guys remember in the party she was offered a big job with big package.She rejected it.So Sona is upset because Dev think he has more money so Sona will be happy with him. So what Sona said was right .The way she reacted was not wrong.Reg status topic.It's imp for their relation also.To make Dev understand money is not so imp n it cannot buy everything.There r certain things which only love can buy n not money.

Like Sammy said .If a bankruptcy track comes in the show it will be interesting. Dev can see when he has less money also.Sona will be happy with him.

Money is imp .But not at the cost of relation.

Money cannot buy everything.If it can .Dev would have been the happiest person in the world.Always smiling .Enjoying life.Have a peaceful sleep at nights.There was no need for sleeping pills for him.But no the money did not buy these things for him.It was Sona's love which bought him these things.

Pls don't compare Sona with Ishita.Sona is way better n a close to real character.She reacts like a normal human being.

Those who saying Ranveer is MCP pls watch some Gul Khan shows.

Ranveer is not MCP.If he is he would not have encouraged Neha to study. Neha wants a life without problem n struggle which is not possible at all.She need to realize it.

Some r satisfied with what they have.Ranveer is like that.For him his principles matter most. Neha knows it well.She thought she can change is principles.

In love both need to adjust.Instead of Neha asking Dev.She could have said to Ranveer to find a better job for their future.That would have been better than asking Dev to make him rich.

Edited by VIMAL.M - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
#33
You are totally wrong. People have their own self respect.
ACC. To ranveer dev and Neha just insulted him because he is not rich.
He has no problem with money but that money should be earned by his capabilities.
He is right, if he had applied for the same job he would have not been selected but just bcoz of dev's approach he got that job.
And what's the guarantee that tomorrow Neha will not demand anything else? Did ranveer tried to change Neha? No. Bcoz that is love. Accepting each other with their flaws.
And it's not in ranveer's control to love a basti vali girl or rich girl. And also he didn't forced Neha.

And about sonakshi, she is right too. At some point dev will have to listen from others that sona is middle class Nd he is. So she didn't behaved like Ishita.
I really don't understand why all are getting sona and Erica's acting bad. Like seriously.
Although I am also not a big fan of Erica but ya that's the truth that she is brilliant.

That's it from my side
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Posted: 9 years ago
#34
My take on the 4 characters -

Dev - Like Sona has said before, his intentions are right but his methods are not. It was okay till Dev offered a job to Ranveer and Ranveer rejected it. But Dev again went too far by getting him that university job without telling Ranveer abt it. He wants to change Ranveer's financial situation so badly for Neha's sake and he doesn't care if he is hurting Ranveer's self respect. Who wants to get a married in a family whr they will constantly remind u of the class difference. And am really surprised by Dev, this is the same Dev who rejected Natasha saying marriage and business should be seperate. Now he is again trying to make a deal for Neha. Ishwari and Sona wud make him realise the mistake in his thinking.

Sona - I 100% agree to how Sona reacted. It came as a shock to her that Dev believes marriage shud only be in barabar families when clearly Sona is from middle class. Sona believes love is good enuf for a marriage to be successful. She is right when she says love has to be without conditions. Rembr how bad we feel when RR continously taunts Sona abt the difference between Dev and her status. Imagine Sona's plight on hearing the same from the man she loves. Status comparison between the two couples had to happen and this is the jolt Dev needs to come to his senses. And many are saying Sona doesnt understand poverty seen by Neha or Sona is urban middle class, but rembr Sona is the sole bread winner for the family of 5. Her brother's job is always temporary. She understands the pain of compromising her self respect and joining a job at Dev's house as she needs money for her family.

Ranveer - Many are calling him MCP, egoist, selfish but when Ranveer proposed he made sure Neha knew abt his family conditions. Neha refused n he was ok with it. It was Neha who started whole marriage discussions. How wud we feel if we get insulted for being middle class, specially during marriage talks. Ranveer doesnt want to take Dev's help, he wants to progress on his own. Why do people believe that without Dev, Ranveer wudnt be able to succeed in life.

Neha - its very difficult to understand Neha. She liked Ranveer bcoz he loved her, not her brother's money. And now she wants Ranveer to take the same money for her sake and is okay to hurt his self repsect. why can't she have some faith in Ranveer's abilities. She can also start working now. And before asking Dev for help, she shud have first discussed with Ranveer. So many times Ranveer has told her why he loves his teaching job, abt his self respect. Neha can easily marry a rich guy who wud fulfill all her wishes, I dnt know why said yes to Ranveer.

And that basti comment, really uncalled for. Sound like RR. Love doesnt see class or status. If it did Dev wud have married Natasha instead of falling for middle class Sona. And rembr Ishwari used to work as maid, even Dev's mama was a normal clerk. Why wud a rich family have alliance with such a family if we go by the basti logic? Both Dev and Neha have to understand that love and marriage are not like business deals, they cannot buy love and happiness with their new found riches.

Bahut serious and lamba ho gaya discussion 😉

P.S. Dnt know who Ishita is.
Edited by randommusings - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
#35

Originally posted by: Mages



i don't think so...if he encourages neha to study and when the time comes...he will encourage her to work...there might be a difference b/w ranveer's bro's thoughts and ranveer's thought...


I am sorry, but wasn't Ranveer as a teacher who gets handsomely paid for his job is supposed to encourage a student anyways. He wasn't teaching n encouraging Neha for free. He sure was taking money from her.
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Posted: 9 years ago
#36
Just my two cents on this topic. I might be in the minority but I was actually surprised to see Sona walk off. I completely understand and agree with her reaction towards Dev offering Ranveer a job. I expected Dev to come to her for advice on what to do with the Ranveer/Neha situation. What I didn't expect was a really off reaction 😕 She left Dev hanging. I might be placing a lot of expectations on Sona because I adore what she brings to Dev's life, hence the slight disappointment. I just wish she could have talked it out with him in a more calmer way and let him think it through. Ishwari would have cemented Sona's views further and Dev would have got a kick up the backside like that. I'm hoping that both Dev and Sona realise their flaws and work through it. Who knows, after seeing Dev wait for her in the rain for 2 hours, Sona may come to realise that an abrupt and annoyed reaction is not the way to be with Dev *shrugs shoulders* Sona is already thinking about marriage with Dev, but before reaching that phase, she will have to tackle the obstacles that come with Dev which is his childhood hardships still continuing to affect his adult life. You've got to step into someone's shoes and understand their POV. At some point, Dev will have to move on from all that's happened to him as a child. Humans are so complicated 😆
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Posted: 9 years ago
#37
yep agree with you but that kind of argument happens as they think different and even Neha and Ranveer are also right in what they are standing for,Neha was very clear in telling himwhat she wants in life.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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To start, Neha was wrong to have asked Dev directly make Ranveer rich without discussing or even mentioning such a thing to Ranveer. Neha's concern of going back to the same life is justifiable. She has seen worst in life, a foster mother to two kids at the age of 9, is unimaginable to any girl. Single piece of cloth to wear, least to eat. Not even able to get a pencil from her mother, forget anything else. So commenting on what she shouldn't do is not alright. No one, not even Sona or Ranveer could ever imagine what that life could had been for Neha.

Ranveer has self-respect, agree, but for a person not want anything else in life and expect others to be the same is wrong again. Its not the question of getting a job offer from Dev, he just doesn't want to move, work for any better, not even on his own. Capable he is, but what's the use, If he chose to live and let his family live in such a situation. Kids fighting over cookies, seriously, Is that what a self-respecting men would do in this situation. I don't think so. He is insensitive towards his current family to not understand their needs, forget about Neha for a minute here. Does Neha truly loves Ranveer, does ranveer truly loves Neha. Its a question, since both need to understand each others point of view here. Its wrong for Ishwari to ask Neha to understand n adjust and not expect the same from Ranveer. Again the typical men's society, women adjusting like Neha duly pointed out. Neha had respect for Ranveer and has faith in his capability but what she is asking is not out of this world. She is asking it for everyone in his family. Even his mother and sister-in-law want the same. Finally If the two Neha and Ranveer If not come to a common point must not continue with their relationship.

Ishwari is such a double standard person. She wouldn't have worked so hard to make Dev study which eventually made her family rich If money was not important to her. Speaking big words now of what Neha should or shouldn't do is not ok coming from her. she is the main responsible person of what Neha is now. Neha's fear is a gift from her mother and lack of love from her.

Dev is stuck between what Neha wants and what Ranveer won't do ever not by others nor on his own. Dev's fault here was to say the two are not of equal status so the relation won't work. He is not wrong, to think Neha deserves a better life. Finally every brother wants the same for his sister. But he didn't realise what he said sona would take it wrongly.

Sona's reaction was normal for anyone under that situation. though she has no clue what Dev meant when he said, he and Neha have seen the worst in life, her reaction is understandable. She is thinking like any one would. For her middle class is like her family who eats well, don't have problems of buying small stuff every now and then. Ranveer's family status is in lower middle class. If Neha gets married she will have to sacrifice a lot, food, cloth, everything, being a woman in the house. Sona had not seen anything like that in her life. Her family mom-dad had been a support for her.

Lets see how things move from here.

Oh my that was long, he he, I definitely was thinking too much, need to stop now. Peace 😊
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Posted: 9 years ago
#39
Plz don't compare our seedhi saadhi normal Sona with that mahaan aatma ...


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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: randommusings



P.S. Dnt know who Ishita is.


She is the biggest Mahaan Aatma in this world

She knows everything , she can never be wrong and other person infront of her can never be right, she is the bhashan queen ...when time comes she can do deliveries , become a doctor , nurses won't be able to do deliveries but they wait for her ... Inshort there is nothing in this world which she can't do 😆

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