Bani - Is there any Logic Left to her? - Page 2

Originally posted by: mistletoe

I think Jai has more than endured for Bani......It is not a question of faith here...I had said this earlier and say it again, that if Jai goes and has a relationship with Pia or any other woman, it won't be Bani's fault at all, it will be Jai's weakness!

The whole point of what I wrote was of the "Logic" and "Necessity" behind Bani's action! I know that emotions and feelings have no Logic ect ect...But then, is this really a case of anyone's emotions???? Bani is doing all that she is doing for a Practical Purpose, to save Jai's Wealth...hence, if the whole point of her so-called sacrifice is in the end a materialistic and practical thing, then why not use the same means to acheive that end?

Why is Bani taking the aid of emotions to fulfill what is eventually a practical issue....That of saving Jai's wealth! The only reason she keeps giving to Massi and everyone else is that once Jai comes to know of the Truth, he will be very angry with Jigyasa and Ranveer and won't Divorce Bani...Hello??? So what is new then? He is always angry with Jigyasa and Ranveer and I dont' think he will be a bit hurt on knowing that they backstabbed him than he is now, when he is seeing Bani hurting and degrading him every moment!

The issue is not one bit of Faith......However cruel and nasty Bani might appear, that is deffo no reason for Jai to let go of his values and morals.....But the whole point is why should he endure just for the sake of enduring...Why should he still keep his trust in a woman who chooses to place her trust in the whole world, except him?

MT

awesome post MT, u said it all and so much more, very beautifully put. so agree with u, well bani's whole logic for hating jai after the PR incident was mostly becoz he hid such a big truth from her .......... won't jai be justified in doing the same to her once he gets to know the truth behind bani's so called logical behaviour. imagine she has told almost the whole world about it rashi, pushkar, masi and even jigyasa ......... didn't her lawyer tell her that no one should know the reason behind her asking for the alimony or else it will never happen ........... what made her change her mind ..............

and why does she find it so easy to confide in pushkar always, agreed he is her so called best friend, but this is mainly concerning jai and if anyone has the first and foremost right to know what is happening and why all the bad blood, then it should be jai and not anyone else ............. what right does she have in hiding such a big incident from him when he is gonna be the most affected by it. if she stresses that they never shared a true hubby and wife relationship, then with what right is she doing whatever she is ............. jai already knows that ranveer is upto no good always, he does not even talk to jigyasa properly anymore and jigyasa herself admitted to bani during their confrontation that her brother does not love and trust her anymore especially becoz of bani ...... all the more reason she needs to tell jai what the hell is happening and let him solve his own problems or then not tell anyone at all and continue with her self sacrificing act 🤢

Eggjactly, my point is the same! It wouldn't have been so bad if Bani had shown gone totally negative or the fact that all that she was doing was because she hated Jai for what he did to her Mother, yet was in love with him...But Bani has been made a complete caricature by the writers.....Normally this treatment is reserved for the Male Species in Balaji Soaps, but here, they are continuoulsy glorifying Jai Walia at the expense of Bani!

I still cannot understand how Bani ended up telling all this to Jigyasa, of all the people...So much for Mrs. Walia's great brains and the way she is trying to save her husband's millions!

In the end, all that the viewers can see is that Bani places her trust in a lot of people, but never on Jai....Till now, when is that one instant where Bani trusted Jai? Right from the beginning, Bani has never trusted Jai, when Jai expressed his desire to marry Pia, Bani deliberately kept the truth about Pia and Pushkar from him...When Pia ran away on her Wedding day, Bani instead of telling the truth to Jai, sat with him in the Wedding Mandap, Bani kept hiding the truth about Pia eloping with Pushkar from Jai, till he found out himself. She lied to him point blank on the Anu-pregnancy issue....She hid the fact about Rano and Saahil from Jai, despite his open support to her! Now she is again doing the same old thing......If this is love, then God save Jai from Bani's love! What is the basis of Love, if it doesn't have trust and faith in it? Jai might not have loved Bani the way she has, but he has always placed his trust in her, even when he wasn't sure of his feelings for her.....Why has only Bani let Jai down everytime, however noble her intentions might be?

If she could blurt out the truth to Jigyasa in a moment of Emotional Frenzy, how could she lie to Jai in the presence of God? Please someone explain this....

Btw, my son is much better now, Thanks everyone for the wishes! 😊

Love,

MT

Originally posted by: mistletoe

The most painful part is obviously that Bani loves Jai, loves him a lot…But all that love is only giving a lifetime of pain and hurt to Jai and nothing else! If Bani knew Jai even a little bit, she would have known, what he wanted more in life, his wealth and status or the love of the woman whom he wanted by his side! Of what point is such a love which only hurts someone else? Jai's love has only got happiness, security, warmth and joy in Bani's life, but can the same be said for Bani? Strangely enough, the best moments of Jai's life would have been the one when he couldn't stand the sight of Bani and she supported him, despite the fact that she didn't feel any love for him!

They understood and bonded with one another the best when there was no love between them!

Cheers,

MT

"They understood and bonded with one another the best when there was no love between them":

FEAR OF LOVE, for me always characterised Jai and Bani. It's why it took them so long to consumate and it's why their life is so confused after that one night. Their relation was so much easier before love entered in it.

Fear of love, was the reason why it took so long for Jai to confess his love (and till date never even used the word love for their relation) and for Bani only to express it indirectly to Jai.

Fear of love, because both lost their mother at a young and vulnerable age. Losing their mothers love, made them fearful of trusting in any future love. Better keep love out of your life, then risking to have to bear the pain of lost love once more.

Fear of love, not knowing how to accept love and how to live with love, might be part of the explanation of Bani's unexcusable behaviour. Expressing her love for Jai in the most confused way - running away from what it really takes to love some one and live with that beloved.

Yet I don't want to pardon her at all. What she is doing to Jai is monstruous. What a man to keep his believe in her upright so far! Seems he knows more about love than she!

I told you na about MCPs in one of my posts earlier. Ekta and team have landed them a golden gander in form of RK. ANd they have completely killed Bani 😡 SOmetimes i feel like killing them. 😡

Originally posted by: mistletoe

But Bani has been made a complete caricature by the writers.....Normally this treatment is reserved for the Male Species in Balaji Soaps, but here, they are continuoulsy glorifying Jai Walia at the expense of Bani!

MT

😆The story writers are all females MT, they can't but help glorifying Jai Walia... how could they not...they are in the same boat as us!...😉

Originally posted by: sangitadas

I told you na about MCPs in one of my posts earlier. Ekta and team have landed them a golden gander in form of RK. ANd they have completely killed Bani 😡 SOmetimes i feel like killing them. 😡

😆 😆 ...allow me to be ur partner in crime!😉

Originally posted by: TallyHo

😆The story writers are all females MT, they can't but help glorifying Jai Walia... how could they not...they are in the same boat as us!...😉

Agree Tally.....I think all the Writers are totally in love with Jai Walia, hence makes him a God, at the expense of poor Bani!😆

Yes Sangeeta, now I agree with what you had written a few days back and when Anu had disputed on that issue...Now I am sure, even she will agree with you! The attitude is surely MCP.....Or rather to show a woman who might have a golden heart, but is pretty empty in the upper echelons of her Head!😡

Bani's character is being spoilt majorly......and showing Jai weep and sulk continuously is not going to hold him in any good stead......

MT

Sangita, Tally Ho, MT:
you people seem to think Ekta is killing Bani's character to exploit Jai's immense popularity??!! 😕 🤢

How cynical they can get!

Now even I want to kill them! Can I join you guys?

Originally posted by: maria-n

Sangita, Tally Ho, MT:
you people seem to think Ekta is killing Bani's character to exploit Jai's immense popularity??!! 😕 🤢

How cynical they can get!

Now even I want to kill them! Can I join you guys?

Take your pick of the Weapon, Maria...and join us!😉

We can't help but get cynical....Cause the serial is less emotional and more clinical...Ok, now that was a terrible attempt to do a Tisha!😆

Cheers,

MT

😛 MT, I have saying it for quite a while that I am really very cynnical about this whole show - BUT STILL CAN@T KEEP AWAY FROM IT !