Bani - Is there any Logic Left to her? - Page 4

Originally posted by: mistletoe

Eggjactly, my point is the same! It wouldn't have been so bad if Bani had shown gone totally negative or the fact that all that she was doing was because she hated Jai for what he did to her Mother, yet was in love with him...But Bani has been made a complete caricature by the writers.....Normally this treatment is reserved for the Male Species in Balaji Soaps, but here, they are continuoulsy glorifying Jai Walia at the expense of Bani!

I still cannot understand how Bani ended up telling all this to Jigyasa, of all the people...So much for Mrs. Walia's great brains and the way she is trying to save her husband's millions!

In the end, all that the viewers can see is that Bani places her trust in a lot of people, but never on Jai....Till now, when is that one instant where Bani trusted Jai? Right from the beginning, Bani has never trusted Jai, when Jai expressed his desire to marry Pia, Bani deliberately kept the truth about Pia and Pushkar from him...When Pia ran away on her Wedding day, Bani instead of telling the truth to Jai, sat with him in the Wedding Mandap, Bani kept hiding the truth about Pia eloping with Pushkar from Jai, till he found out himself. She lied to him point blank on the Anu-pregnancy issue....She hid the fact about Rano and Saahil from Jai, despite his open support to her! Now she is again doing the same old thing......If this is love, then God save Jai from Bani's love! What is the basis of Love, if it doesn't have trust and faith in it? Jai might not have loved Bani the way she has, but he has always placed his trust in her, even when he wasn't sure of his feelings for her.....Why has only Bani let Jai down everytime, however noble her intentions might be?

If she could blurt out the truth to Jigyasa in a moment of Emotional Frenzy, how could she lie to Jai in the presence of God? Please someone explain this....

Btw, my son is much better now, Thanks everyone for the wishes! 😊

Love,

MT

Happy to hear your son is better, our love to him.

how could Bani ..how could she lie to Jai in the presence of God?... WHEN SHE WAS TOUCHING THE HANDS ON THE FEET OF IDOL, WHATEVER SHE TOLD HIM IS TRUE.... AND WHEN AFTER REALISING ON THE HUGGING POISITON WHATEVER SHE TOLD SUPPOSED TO BE LIES.... I am trying to think like the creatives, pls don't come with stick...

If there is no communication the love mostly ended up in existing in the two minds seperately without known to each other.... communication is very important.... words are exactly not as I love you... but communication in an effective way is necessary... now these two are nearing blocking their own way out to meet each other themselves... to show a love is so deep sacrifice can be understood but not to this extend... of insulting ... it leads to irrecoverable lost... but lol.. our creatives will praise Bani one day saying that..."you even sacrificed your love for this family...blah blah.." sorry... it is so much disgusting... what a beautiful story was it ... along with your fantastic updates MT😉 (it was like without salt the curries are waste) I don't forget other updaters also, thanks to all of you too. I think you understood Jai and Bani better than the multiple (😉😉😕) parents (script writers) of their.

Originally posted by: NUKUTTY

This present age in KASAMH SE puts you in a big confusion-who to defend? The dutiful, caring, sacrificing wife Bani, or the extremely hurt Jai?

Both of them have got their own reasons for their current behaviour-when one looks at it all from Bani's angle, it will make anybody pray to God to not let all this happen to anybody more. Her own husband loves her more than anybody else, she loves him more than anybody else, but he is the same person who has caused her grief all life long; the reason for her whole family's destruction.What sensible decision can somebody take in such a situation? REVENGE, OR LOVE HIM MORE?

Jai's condition is even more bad-he is now full of guilty feeling -he feels he is the one who is totally responsible for everything happening to him and Bani now.What can be worser than a gulity feeling haunting you day and night?

Couldn't agree less................... even I am confused now, who is right in behaving in the manner they are............... Bani or Jai? Who is more hurt, Bani or Jai? Who is hurting or has hurt the other more, Bani or Jai? Who is going to face the truth first, Bani or Jai? Who is going to confess his/her love first, Bani or Jai? And there are loads of other questions yaar!

Originally posted by: sirigina

MT<

It is actually a just war and in the cross fire - innocents do get hurt - she is fighting for justice for Jai - and for nothing else - actually the interesting point is - if Jai had known would he have given up his wealth - how would he have planned on fighting it - what would have been his means ? This might seem like convulted logic - but it is not she who gave much importance to the material over the substance - she never valued money over the man - but in this instance - it is Jai and he is the man she loves - and she is not able to accept that he had been deceived by his own people - either for his sake or for the sake of her love for him - she cannot see him lost and defeated - after all money is the reward of efforts - and it is this effort that she respects not the money.

I agree with you Sarah on this one. Bani is trying to save this man from losing his honor. she loves this man and cannot see him lost and defeated as you mentioned . She knows the wealth is his hard earned and the result of his years of hardwork and commitment.

She cannot see him lose what he has worked for all his life and also cheated by his kith and Kin.

Yes eventually Jai Walia would know what his sis and nephew were upto but atleast he wouldnt have lost his honor or his hard earned wealth.

I also feel Bani deep down realizes that jai would understand her actions , but her current focus is to save his wealth from the hands of his evil sister.

Jus my thoughts...

You know there is very good reason for Bani to behave the way she is -
Pregnancy is causing the mood hormones to play up and logic has flown out of the window 😉 😆

Seriously, money has never been important to Bani - so she says - and yet she has made it the most important part of Jai without his consent and without ever giving him a choice 😡

I think I said this once before that after all the hurt Bani is causing Jai, how can she be sure he will accept back the fruits of her great sacrifice 😒

Originally posted by: TallyHo

😆The story writers are all females MT, they can't but help glorifying Jai Walia... how could they not...they are in the same boat as us!...😉

😆...I agree...they just can't do anything bad to him...now can they...😉

ok back to the actual discussion...(which by the way is awsome👏...such a welcome.... going by the things happening lately...KS is getting on my nerves...😡)

Ok ...so here we go...Bani...the angel...the pujaaran of love...the epitome of love...the understanding partner...the sacrificing devi....now what can I say... she is such a darling I tell u... how can just how can u people question her actions...

what did she do...she's doing this to save her husband's money...his property...save him from the shock n pain of betrayal from his sister and bhanja... now what is wrong in that...so what if she's driving him crazy...so what if the great Jai Walia is brought down from the stature of a great business man..a strong personality to a sob story...a JAIDAS... so what if while saving his money..she breaks his heart...hurts him to the core... so what if she breaks his trust... to the extent that he stops trusting himself...so what if he's seperated from his child...a child he waited for his entire life... so what if he's seperated from the woman he loves... has supported...stood by ..is still standing by(pata nahi for how long though😕)...atleast HIS MONEY WILL BE SAFE......his earnings will be his...

how can u guys question her...😕

sense...logic... these words are not supposed to be used in sentences which have anything to do with the current Mrs. Walia. U can't do such a thing...its a crime...

U want ...expect logic from the lady.... now isn't it daydreaming...isn't it asking for way too much...

She's confided in Raashi, Pushy, Jigs.... bani sweetheart go ...go n tell Tony too... u would need his support too...

how can she tell Jai... he's been a successful business man...for lets say atleast 20 yrs...now that was a fluke...

My God...this lady doesn't even trust him to take care of his money... she thinks she'll handle it better than him... so much for the years he's worked... Mrs.Walia just why do u think he can't handle it... I agree he has a temper... but don't u think he has enough sense to save his own hard earned money...

U don't want him to go thru the pain of having been decieved by his sister and her kid who he treated as own...but what about his KID...his WIFE... is the pain he's going thru any less...if not more as to what u say...

U actually think he'll be better of with his money...his property than his child...his wife... u think he'd rather not be decieved by his sister but believe that the woman he loves...almost worships is decieving him....

chalo agar I agree with the stupidity of u're action ...then again... just tell me why n how will u explain the great feat u achieved yesterday... wasn't hurting the guy ... humilating his family... enough...now u want to play with his emotions... 😡... nahi nahi tell me...how can one explain this...

I agree Jai has been nasty to her...but is this any less... if what he did was wrong ...what would u call this...

she has forgiven his PR accident...i see her mentioning it only as a last resort...when she has nothing left to say...

He knows she loves him...she knows she loves him....he knows he loves her..she knows he loves her.... Yet there is sooooooooooooo much confusion....

Honestly I think its more of creatives bashing than any thing else... the charcter of Bani has taken such a turn...that I don't understand...I don't want to... they are twisting things way too much...

N Mr. Walia...I have a small complaint for u too.... we all know what u're angel wife is...😡...but my dear what are u doing... except crying ofcourse... u're a great business man...such a strong player... can't u even try n find out the reason behind the change of events...u know she must have a reason...its u're belief that u keep reinforcing every other episode...then why on earth do u not try n find out the reality... finding out the truth can be done in many ways other than one involving Pia...

try to kar yaar...she was more inquisitive about PR...than u are towards her truth...now i'm not suggesting u become a karamchand like her.... but do something...atleast.... something other than have a fling with that gold digger...😡

Ok ...now I feel much better.......

I've vented out a lot...thanx MT... u started this post just when I needed it the most....

Originally posted by: nikkitherealist

You know there is very good reason for Bani to behave the way she is -
Pregnancy is causing the mood hormones to play up and logic has flown out of the window 😉 😆

Seriously, money has never been important to Bani - so she says - and yet she has made it the most important part of Jai without his consent and without ever giving him a choice 😡

I think I said this once before that after all the hurt Bani is causing Jai, how can she be sure he will accept back the fruits of her great sacrifice 😒

I dont see why Jai would not understand once he gets to know Bani's intentions and accept the results. If he can trust her now when he is not clear about her exact , why wouldnt he when he gets to know the truth.

Like it was pointed out earlier , Jai has slowly and eventually started trusting Bani and now he trusts her more than anyone else and I dont see why he would lose that so easily. He would do anything to retain his faith , that in trusting Bani , he is right. It is a matter of also not losing his faith in himself. He has despite all odds stood by this one woman even when the entire family was against her, if this isnt trust , then what is ? He understands that what appears is not the entire truth, he is frustrated that his wife is not telling him the entire truth.

He sure knows that Bani wasnt lying when she confessed her feeling for him. He only is not able to gather the reason behind her coldness and I am sure after watching his interaction with Pia in yday episode , that he intends to give a nother shot at fidning out the rationale behind Bani's behavior and if Pia is the option to get that done, so be it..

Jus my thoughts...

The one thing that comes out is how much Munna trusts and understands Amma while so little does Amma understand Munna.

Munna has rightly figured out (at least till date) that Amma has got some hidden motive for her actions and that money means little for her. But Amma has yet to figure out that for Munna, his wife, kid and love are far more important than his wealth and that if she tells him the truth, Munna would let Amma take whatever course of action that she deems right.

Rgds

Priyanka

It was so painful to watch yesterdays episode. I agree with Payal that Bani's character has been messed up by the creatives. The serial currently seems to be directionless. Jai has said he will not fight her in the court, he will give her the property. Then why all this pointless hurtful behaviour on Bani's part? As many of you wrote, she told everybody what she plans, except Jai.
Yesterdays scene in front of the idol, the hug, I feel was a trick played on all of us. Raising our hopes to land us with a thud.
Lyani

This is what I thought. I mean come on, the guy is not stupid! He just knew when she said all that it was true. The moment she let her hands off the murti her nautanki started. Agreed everybody would be mad... But somewhere he still (wants 2) believes her...

Originally posted by: sareeta

He sure knows that Bani wasnt lying when she confessed her feeling for him. He only is not able to gather the reason behind her coldness and I am sure after watching his interaction with Pia in yday episode , that he intends to give a nother shot at fidning out the rationale behind Bani's behavior and if Pia is the option to get that done, so be it..

As far as Bani is concerned I don't know... Should I pitty on her or be damn mad!😡
The whole world knows except for Jai. Whats the harm in telling him?

Anyway looking at yesterday's epi I'm only waiting 2 see the old Jai Walia back in action!! 😃

Sareeta, you are right Jai has stood by Bani but won't he be more hurt when he does learn that she considered his money was more important to him then anything else including his child. 😕

The way I look at it, it is not a question of trust - it's more to protect oneself. Yes, Jai trusts Bani and will continue to trust her but there is a limit to what people will take before building walls around themselves to protect being hurt and Jai has reached that point.