Bani - Is there any Logic Left to her? - Page 3

My very sentiments exactly MT...u said it..
where is the sense and the sensibility in giving up the good opinion and feelings of the man she loves and trade it for wealth which is of far lesser worth to him compared to her and their unborn child.
Granted that Jai never made allowances for her when they got married nor did he pronounce his feelings clearly but his actions speak louder than his words.
The profound emotions with which he spoke to their child is enough for any one specially Bani to know how much the child means to him.
I am very dissappointed at the way the creatives have messed up her noble character just to stretch and add few episodes more..
To a point it seemed like a logical twist but its getting outta hand with her declaring her intentions to the rest of the world and keeping Jai in oblivion.Its a cruel character assassination... bringing Banis character to ridicule.

Originally posted by: mistletoe

Take your pick of the Weapon, Maria...and join us!😉

We can't help but get cynical....Cause the serial is less emotional and more clinical...Ok, now that was a terrible attempt to do a Tisha!😆

Cheers,

MT

ok MT i am coming with my choice of weapon.

I too feel that writers have spoiled the character Bani, esp after yesterday's episode. I would have appreciated if Bani had kept the whole reason for her behavior to herself and then left Jai quietly.

But this is like, the whole world know, except Jai and it seems like she wants the rest to know so that once she leaves, the so called rest could tell Jai abt Bani's mahanta act.

me 2 in ur bandwagon😉....sangeeta..told u v need to gag mayi....😡

Originally posted by: sangitadas

ok MT i am coming with my choice of weapon.

Originally posted by: mistletoe

<FONT face="Times New Roman, Times, serif" size=3>Eggjactly, my point is the same! It wouldn't have been so bad if Bani had shown gone totally negative or the fact that all that she was doing was because she hated Jai for what he did to her Mother, yet was in love with him...But Bani has been made a complete caricature by the writers.....Normally this treatment is reserved for the Male Species in Balaji Soaps, but here, they are continuoulsy glorifying Jai Walia at the expense of Bani! I still cannot understand how Bani ended up telling all this to Jigyasa, of all the people...So much for Mrs. Walia's great brains and the way she is trying to save her husband's millions!

<FONT face="Times New Roman, Times, serif" size=3>In the end, all that the viewers can see is that Bani places her trust in a lot of people, but never on Jai....Till now, when is that one instant where Bani trusted Jai? Right from the beginning, Bani has never trusted Jai, when Jai expressed his desire to marry Pia, Bani deliberately kept the truth about Pia and Pushkar from him...When Pia ran away on her Wedding day, Bani instead of telling the truth to Jai, sat with him in the Wedding Mandap, Bani kept hiding the truth about Pia eloping with Pushkar from Jai, till he found out himself. She lied to him point blank on the Anu-pregnancy issue....She hid the fact about Rano and Saahil from Jai, despite his open support to her! Now she is again doing the same old thing......If this is love, then God save Jai from Bani's love! What is the basis of Love, if it doesn't have trust and faith in it? Jai might not have loved Bani the way she has, but he has always placed his trust in her, even when he wasn't sure of his feelings for her.....Why has only Bani let Jai down everytime, however noble her intentions might be?If she could blurt out the truth to Jigyasa in a moment of Emotional Frenzy, how could she lie to Jai in the presence of God? Please someone explain this.... Btw, my son is much better now, Thanks everyone for the wishes! 😊 Love, MT

that's true.. bani's just the coldest person eva.. jai's gonna become being d way he was before.. cold and cold and rough tough no emotions watsoeva 😭

Originally posted by: nottygarfield

me 2 in ur bandwagon😉....sangeeta..told u v need to gag mayi....😡

We're gonna be quite a frightening bunch!

Looks like they'll have to listen to us, or else....

Btw what's a TISHA?

Originally posted by: mistletoe

Agree Tally.....I think all the Writers are totally in love with Jai Walia, hence makes him a God, at the expense of poor Bani!😆

Yes Sangeeta, now I agree with what you had written a few days back and when Anu had disputed on that issue...Now I am sure, even she will agree with you! The attitude is surely MCP.....Or rather to show a woman who might have a golden heart, but is pretty empty in the upper echelons of her Head!😡

Bani's character is being spoilt majorly......and showing Jai weep and sulk continuously is not going to hold him in any good stead......

MT

Are you all seriously thinking these creatives are really making Jai Walia a God.. I wish let them make him the original Jai Walia who scream, shout or even occassionally give a slap.. Oh... God this is ... even for love... is a pathetic state.... sorry if someone gets hurt... with a hurting pride how some man can live.... even for love...

Originally posted by: maria-n

We're gonna be quite a frightening bunch!

Looks like they'll have to listen to us, or else....

Btw what's a TISHA?

Tisha was the resident poetess of our Forum (And a really good one at that.......Will send you a link to her lovely poems....They are good enough to be published! That good....) till she became fed up with our Jai-worshipping and Bani-bashing and hence left the Forum...She comes on and off to Jai-bash a little bit....She is a sweetheart, though quite a fire-brand feminist!😆

Love,

MT

This present age in KASAMH SE puts you in a big confusion-who to defend? The dutiful, caring, sacrificing wife Bani, or the extremely hurt Jai?

Both of them have got their own reasons for their current behaviour-when one looks at it all from Bani's angle, it will make anybody pray to God to not let all this happen to anybody more. Her own husband loves her more than anybody else, she loves him more than anybody else, but he is the same person who has caused her grief all life long; the reason for her whole family's destruction.What sensible decision can somebody take in such a situation? REVENGE, OR LOVE HIM MORE?

Jai's condition is even more bad-he is now full of guilty feeling -he feels he is the one who is totally responsible for everything happening to him and Bani now.What can be worser than a gulity feeling haunting you day and night?