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Posted: 10 years ago
#41
Gosh!!! People expect others stop talking something logical because they have written a paragraph against it😆😆 And do not even try to comprehend what others have written before coming up with the statements which are universal truth according to them😆😆
Edited by LovesToBeLoved - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
#42
Dear Manan fans,

Firstly I want to clear that I am not against your trend at all. It's a persons individual choice and love for the actor. My problem lies with the cause. Just curious to know if it is really the love for two fictional characters?? I am a big mananfan but am not trending and and I am watching ky2s2. Does that make me a manan hater really??

May be your love is more pure I can't bash anyone without knowing the truth for definite. Now I want to know if the so called source and his allegations are all false and the actor himself confirms it at some point, will you guys accept the truth??
If the actor tells you that, it's he who has quit and wanted to move on,
1. Will you guys hold him responsible for destroying your Manan for you.
2. Will you guys trend against him and force him to come back to give you Manan HEA
If yes then '''... You truly are a Manan fan .
If not then whatever you are doing is not for Manan it's only for the actor. Or you are just PaNi shipper who can't see their ship sinking . Just think about it.

If you can respect his decision for quitting and don't want to bother him the why can't you respect other's decision for continuing and mtv's decision to bring season 2. If the actor has every right to quit a show , the PH has the every right to replace an actor if they have any issue. Why is that so unacceptable? They are not mad that they will fire the lead who according to you is the sole reason behind the show 's success. There must be some reason.
Don't you think after so much effort from the fans the actor should come out clean and give some statement. At least Ayaz did that and I respect him for that.

People trending day and night not thinking abt anything . The time and energy you are putting will not come back. Don't waste it. You have your life ahead. Concentrate on it.
Things are going out of control. It's so chaotic that it's irritating to come to Insta or Twitter. It's not your friends who has changed colors. They believed in what they saw... It's you guys who tried to convince people not to watch season 2, bashed rest of the cast, made a chaos for every statement or picture Niti posted. Only then others fought to protect her and support her. That doesnot make them manan hater...
I know it's difficult to see Nandini with anyone else. They are not showing that either. Whoever can't accept just quit. Don't watch. No need to use such language for such senior people.
I saw some people tweeting that mtv and PH are answerable to them. On what basis?? There is no contract between viewers and channel. They can only express their views and displeasure.

And lastly every love story even the truest ones doesn't have a happy ending. Look at all historical great lovers. They never get to live happily ever after. Lovers may die.. Love doesn't.

Why I chose to make such a long post. When it all started I thought people are hurt because they miss Manan. They will get over it soon . But I realized there is no end. Friends started to become foes. Today I came across some posts of the fcs I am following. They all were very proud of themselves for reaching 2M tweets and appreciating each other for doing so. Wow what an achievement '' Has anybody of you ever tweeted for any injustice to any real person or any rape victim. You are applauding yourself for spending day and night for tweeting for some reel love story ? I felt very ashamed to be a part of this fandom. How much time I have wasted following them reading their comments tweets enjoying them. It's making me feel guilty.
I will watch the show but will never get involved in any offscreen drama '
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Posted: 10 years ago
#43
I agree, if u don't like stop watching, if Parth comes back u will know, then watch... now don't bash anyone.
Its hard for Yuvraj who just came and getting bashed without any reason.

I heard even Charlie et al getting bashed, they all r doing hard work.

Special mention Niti... she knows howmuch fans love Manan, she is 50% of Manan... she is still in KYY and does her job honestly... we better support her... if we can't just leave her, no bashing
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Posted: 10 years ago
#44
*claps claps* Yes, please. Show how you think that belittling & degradation towards someone to ' defend your favorite' is not wrong.
The real issue is the self entitlement and superiority complex thrown in others faces.
'I don't want to stop being abusive & verbally assault people who are coming in the way of what I want so I will just point out all the mistakes these people have done in past and keep being abusive and patronizing'.
Again, take a bow.That is some highly complex logic understood by the likes of you only.
No one is ever going to forget how this trend was build into a mountain by rocks made of highly degrading, unreasonable and completely idiotic reasonings that were used to abuse the old and new cast alike who are doing their job-- All of THAT in the name of something as beautiful as MaNan.
You might as well abuse & patronize people who dared to stay back and continue being paid for doing their job when Parth left openly and explicitly. You know, instead of hiding behind a trend which was to show support and passion for MaNan. Being shitty and verbally assaulting and name calling doesn't become right if you have a 'cause' to hide behind.
Being passionate and speaking up is not equal to being verbally disrespectful and throwing stupid abusive names and being hateful in the name of being passionate.
I am a MaNan loyalist too.I wont watch the show without it.That's me being loyal and radical, yeah. Me being a shitty name calling, dehumanizing , abusive 'fan' in the name of MaNan or my favorite actor is me being just that, pathetic. That's not being loyal and passionate.
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Posted: 10 years ago
#45
Even if Parth comes back, MaNan will always be tainted now.We got something back by demoralizing, dehumanising and abusing the shit out of people Parth has to work with and has worked in the past.
This will be another sexist fandom with internalised misogyny rampant in extremist fanatics in sections equivalent to Radical feminists in feminism and religious extremist fanatics of any religion.
Congratulations!
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Posted: 10 years ago
#46
I don't think calling the trend stupid and asking people to focus on "save the world" is right its rather hypocrisy cause last time I checked doing something and taking an initiative for your own happiness is not wrong its a basic human trait! And more over the trend really din't harm anyone so I don't find anything unhealthy or wrong in it! If you're doing something for your happiness and if it doesn't harm others then you have nothing to be 'ashamed' of. Coming to bashing yes there were some bashing I'm not to gonna downright deny that but the entire trend was not channeled towards bashing a few did which cannot be avoided cause every movement will have its own set of weak links but branding the entire trend as bashing is so wrong cause they were simply trending to save their OTP which they all have come to love so dearly!
Edited by swetha4avzm - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
#47
A few? More like thousands of tweets.I will take screen shots of as much as I can so that we never forget what went down in the name of saving the OTP.
A few bad apples is understandable, but here it was more like a few good apples in the ocean of not very good ones.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Medha.S

A few? More like thousands of tweets.I will take screen shots of as much as I can so that we never forget what went down in the name of saving the OTP.
A few bad apples is understandable, but here it was more like a few good apples in the ocean of not very good ones.



"More like thousands of tweets" in 2 million tweets is the proportion which stands for "a few" mate. Do the math!
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Posted: 10 years ago
#49
@MS- I won't have bothered to comment in this hypocritical forum, had it not been for your post.

You know what is funny, people who are so called custodians of feminism , wasted no time ripping apart other females who were not even related to this show on public forums , just because they had a personal equation with the cast members.

Heck, they have no problems calling members who trend as jobless, delusionals and fools . Mock them online.

I hate when the heat is on Niti or Parth. But I have also tweets directed towards Parth - insulting him . He has been called Princess Parth for god knows how long .

So Pardon me, if I cannot believe the hypocrisy of some people out there who conveiently use Niti's excuse and justify whatever crap they diss out .

Everything either of them do has to be viewed in a Parth vs Niti scale.

I recently checked twitter and it amuses me greatly how everyone is so vile . There are extreme fanatics on both sides.

Every cast member has been bullied , heck I can direct you to the comments by some of the most learned members about their body shape, personalities , personal life .

I didn't want to watch S2 for obvious reasons but you know what prompted me- hate PMs because apparently I am suhagaan who never cared for Nandini and I am black mark on my gender for not supporting Niti and her show. I have screen shots of it too, but I had fun - clearly the person wanted me to see it and guess what i did. And when I posted my comments on Nandini- independent of Parth, Manik..guess who draws up the conclusion that it's because of the latter element I am hating on Nandini,

This correlation sucks- Let Parth and Niti be.

I don't care for the sources, cast bytes etc because that has no impact on my viewing whatsoever.

Funny is criticism of S2 is seen as some sort of disgrace to Niti or something.

Parth's iv gets dissected and mocked but Niti's iv - we see the female card thrown around so easily.

Pray tell me , if feminism doesn't mean equality of genders.

I had a Nandini/Niti bias but dare I say anything or disagree with either of them.

As much as I do understand this side is part of a celeb's life and they are also humans , lets try to evaluate our own actions- have we not mocked a fellow human on a social media for his/her different opinion/preference etc.

The hypocritical behaviour of some has made me apathetic to the entire cast, crew of this show. But it will never harm my viewing of MaNan.


Edited by charminggenie - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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The thousands of tweets were used to take it to that 2 million mark.By thousands of fans who were going at it almost 24/7, not millions. You might feel it ain't a big deal and you are welcome to gloss over it if you wish, I ain't forcing you to accept my perception ... mate! :)

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