Was It Really Uncalled For????? - Page 5

I agree at some point.Manik didn't forgive aaliya but forgave Nandini for the same reason of "Trust"..because Nandini made him believe in love,she forgave him when he didn't trust her.MaNan almost had breakup,but that was love who kept them together.and that's what was missing in Alia Manik's case.Manik didn't love her at all,and in Wh merger episode we saw how Aliya was in love with Manik.so Manik was with her just for name,yes they were physically close.but by their heart,they were too far.and to be true,Aliya was also obessed with Manik like Soha,just a difference of being Physco.that's true Manik was worst than all of them in the beginning.but he completely changed,but I believe Aliya and Dhruv didn't change,rather Dhruv became worst.always taunting Manik and Nandini for any problem.friends are always there for each other,but in Fab5 case only Manik and Cabir bothers about other's problems,sometimes Mukti also.except Mangalore time,still they think they were doing some favour on Manik,like Dhruv mentioned before what he did for Manik.I agree at this that Manik isn't connected with Aliya that much.but that isn't Manik's fault only.Aliya can't stay away from boyfriend for a moment.first Manik,then Dhruv within some days,Aryaman came and flirted with her and she got attracted towards him also.it's Aliya who moves on with the flow of time.but that was true,Manik could give her a second chance,but he was not in love,he is a teenager,he and Alia had a relation on age 12,when people hardly know about love.it was a name sake relation.so better to move on.Manik made Aliya understand this also 2 time maybe.she understood,now again blaming Manik.no Manik not sucks,but rocks as a boyfriend,but love is needed to a relationship .which MaNan have,AliaMan didn't have.and as a friend,Aliya never shared her feelings ever with Manik like Cabir does,she doesn't trust Manik now also. Still I feel bad for Aliya,she deserves a true love.hope she finds one

i think dis post was jst to explain aliya position in all dis mess...we as a viewers have a 360 degree view on d everything so in all d forum bashing her dis one was to jst bring frwrd her point of view too.
i agree blaming manik and nandini was uncalled for but for jst a moment try to put urself in her position...she was getting blows one after another, her world was completly spinning and she felt dat der is no one fr her, aryaman thing was jst hanging onto some hope frm her side dat maybe someone do want her...she was seeing all of her frnds moving on in life, manik has nandini...mukti met abhi and felt wat a real love is like, and cabir was also taking responsibility and living wid navya...bt she had no one jst a person like harshad fr a brother! dere was no way fr her to go!!
people are saying ki cabir mukti manik have all grown up...bt wat made dem so sensible?? dey all went through some major relationship trauma and stuff and dat wat made dem be a mature evolved person...bt abhi tak fr alya der have nly been disappointments and all...cabir was also in a serious and taboo relationship himself at d time manik was attracted towards nandini and dat wat made him realise manik's condition too...so der life incidents have changed dem fr d bettr but alya ke sath aisa nahin hua cause uski like me aisa koi ositive person or incident aaya hi ni...ek ke baad ek sirf let down hi mila hai usee...
n abt blaming nandini taking priority fr manik...understand guys she is in a vry vry vry vulnerable position abi...her head is all messed up...when she had a mature conversations with manik she knows in her heart ki it was d situation at those times and manik is nt at fault fr d break up bt abhi she is not in a position to jst sit fr a minute and clear her head...abi its like a dam is broken and everything jst comes rushing out...abhi she is pinpointing on nandini cause fr her everything in her world changed, went fr a spin when nandini came into their lives...and dat is d sole reason. uske liye that is d starting of everything wen her world completly changed.
so jst fr a minute we all should also take a step back and rather than jst bashing aliya fr her accusations jst try to grasp..look at d situation frm her side.

Originally posted by: Arshalicious

I agree with many of your points. There have been so many posts regarding Manik and his inner turmoil that it's refreshing to read something from Alia's point of view once in a while.

Just like Manik, Alia has been through too much in a short span of time. The only difference is that while Manik had Nandini by him through these tough times, Alia was all alone. She lost her love, not once but two times. Manik and Dhruv had been two of the most important people in her life since practically forever and so getting over them must have been hell. She lost trust in her brother. Plus she was suffering from an eating disorder and the only one who noticed was Aaryaman. A stranger noticed what her own best friends couldn't.

Every single one of Fab5 has been the centre of attention at some point or the other. They have always kept aside their problems to support that one person. Be it Dhruv during his emotional breakdown or Cabir when he discovered he was gay or Mukti when Abhimanyu died or Harshad dumped her and of course countless times for Manik and Nandini...But not once did anyone ask Aalia how she felt when Manik broke up with her...Even after Dhruv's outburst, everyone was more focused on Dhruv than Alia who had also been through the equal amount of pain but wasn't getting noticed bcoz unlike Dhruv she hadn't created a scene

So if an outburst is what it takes for Fab5 to notice their friends' problems so be it...It's high time someone payed attention to Alia too

Originally posted by: Arshalicious

I agree with many of your points. There have been so many posts regarding Manik and his inner turmoil that it's refreshing to read something from Alia's point of view once in a while.

Just like Manik, Alia has been through too much in a short span of time. The only difference is that while Manik had Nandini by him through these tough times, Alia was all alone. She lost her love, not once but two times. Manik and Dhruv had been two of the most important people in her life since practically forever and so getting over them must have been hell. She lost trust in her brother. Plus she was suffering from an eating disorder and the only one who noticed was Aaryaman. A stranger noticed what her own best friends couldn't.

Every single one of Fab5 has been the centre of attention at some point or the other. They have always kept aside their problems to support that one person. Be it Dhruv during his emotional breakdown or Cabir when he discovered he was gay or Mukti when Abhimanyu died or Harshad dumped her and of course countless times for Manik and Nandini...But not once did anyone ask Aalia how she felt when Manik broke up with her...Even after Dhruv's outburst, everyone was more focused on Dhruv than Alia who had also been through the equal amount of pain but wasn't getting noticed bcoz unlike Dhruv she hadn't created a scene

So if an outburst is what it takes for Fab5 to notice their friends' problems so be it...It's high time someone payed attention to Alia too

Originally posted by: ishitaa22

i think dis post was jst to explain aliya position in all dis mess...we as a viewers have a 360 degree view on d everything so in all d forum bashing her dis one was to jst bring frwrd her point of view too.
i agree blaming manik and nandini was uncalled for but for jst a moment try to put urself in her position...she was getting blows one after another, her world was completly spinning and she felt dat der is no one fr her, aryaman thing was jst hanging onto some hope frm her side dat maybe someone do want her...she was seeing all of her frnds moving on in life, manik has nandini...mukti met abhi and felt wat a real love is like, and cabir was also taking responsibility and living wid navya...bt she had no one jst a person like harshad fr a brother! dere was no way fr her to go!!
people are saying ki cabir mukti manik have all grown up...bt wat made dem so sensible?? dey all went through some major relationship trauma and stuff and dat wat made dem be a mature evolved person...bt abhi tak fr alya der have nly been disappointments and all...cabir was also in a serious and taboo relationship himself at d time manik was attracted towards nandini and dat wat made him realise manik's condition too...so der life incidents have changed dem fr d bettr but alya ke sath aisa nahin hua cause uski like me aisa koi ositive person or incident aaya hi ni...ek ke baad ek sirf let down hi mila hai usee...
n abt blaming nandini taking priority fr manik...understand guys she is in a vry vry vry vulnerable position abi...her head is all messed up...when she had a mature conversations with manik she knows in her heart ki it was d situation at those times and manik is nt at fault fr d break up bt abhi she is not in a position to jst sit fr a minute and clear her head...abi its like a dam is broken and everything jst comes rushing out...abhi she is pinpointing on nandini cause fr her everything in her world changed, went fr a spin when nandini came into their lives...and dat is d sole reason. uske liye that is d starting of everything wen her world completly changed.
so jst fr a minute we all should also take a step back and rather than jst bashing aliya fr her accusations jst try to grasp..look at d situation frm her side.

Originally posted by: LovesToBeLoved

@Bold I think this is not the first time she did this.. She has been doing this since forever.. before it was only Nandini and now it's both Manik and Nandini.. She is blaming MaNan for the third the time I guess..

Originally posted by: ishitaa22

the first time she did dat was when manik was going far frm her n navya at that time was putting things in her mind...d second time was when dey lost d record deal n dat time also she was having issues wid dhruv, n dis is the third time. bich me whenever manik and alya had honest conversations she understood his point of view. so u can see frm her track, nly when things get too much fr u lash out!

Originally posted by: LovesToBeLoved

When will she realise her own mistakes then.. Keep blaming others and no remorse for her own mistakes?? Not even for once?? Everytime she fails to see things beyong herself.. Because of her insecurity she sent goons for Nandini.. After all the things Nandini did for them, no appology or no regret at all.. ??

Every one will have one or the other issues at any given point of time.. Even now, all of them have so many things going on in their life.. That doesn't mean u ll keep on blaming others for every wrong thing in ur life every next day..

She was also at fault when Manik broke up with her..

She was the one who fuelled Dhruv's insecurities..

She was the one who brought up Manik's name in every second scene and made Dhruv feel inferiour..

She was the one who wanted to hide her relationship which is where Dhruv's ass behaviour started..

Dhruv is no saint and has done horrible things.. agreed.. But what has she done??

She blamed Manik when Nandini almost died.. and even when Nandini was kidnapped(Soha time) and Manik was searching for her like a mad person, all she could think of is herself and she was playing blame game. Where does all this leave her???

Originally posted by: ishitaa22

@Bold...till that time nandini had not done anything fr dem.
and yaar maybe jo bhi kaho...even aftr d breakup...its hard to be der and be normal n all. u need some time to sort out ur feelings n see were u stand. bt she didnt get anytime fr herself...ek ke baad ek incidents happnd in deir lives n her feelings in all dese were suppresed inside of her...n dat are coming out nw. agr ek chiz ku tum itne time tak band krke rakhoge to kbi na kbi to bandh tutega na!!
n see dis is d time...dis is her track...her time to realise ki manik and nandini were nt wrong.
mukti also accepted nandini aftr abhi incident...so this is her time. she will realise and will grow up aftr dis...but before dat we shuld not blame her or bash her na! dats all we were trying to say!