Trying to understand Sona - Page 3

Originally posted by: mthiru

Hi nice analysis on Sona's traits. Agree with most.

After watching today's episode there are too many discrepancies in the characters that no one looked Scott free.

But can you explain why Sona finds to easier to share things with everyone other than Rohit? I was insulted second hand on behalf of Rohit when she confided everything to Sumith that happened today at SM and police station?? Come on how can you do that? Is indirectly says sona is presenting poor me and everyone MU me..

It was distasteful to see her discussing Rohit with Sumit. She lost me there!! Pls don't call this a friendship.. Could somewhat accept if it was Nethra.. Why the makers never show Rohit discussing about Sona and their problem with anyone? Maybe than what sona did would have looked normal.

Don't know why I find it offensive that time and again she Involved Sumit(others too) in their life decisions.. Job quitting, help with blackmailer, murder suspicion and what happened at her home..

Sona today was way outside of her character. She was neither the poor girl nor the strong woman...

Why the hell is she going after Rohit after that blasting she gave Rohit? Where is her self respect? The guy asking her to stay out of his life.. This is not love it's controlling and wishing everyone to fall accordingly

Does Sona every understand the meaning of giving space to people? What is the need to go after Rohit at the park? Also why ask him question like don't you really believe me...

In their fight sona uses all the manipulating emotional tricks in the book (the dialogue asking rohit to let her fall down the cliff!!!) to make him understand her POV is correct... Is it always about her? What about his pain?

Her dialouges with YK is the worst scene of KHKT for me?? Again she presents the poor MU girl?? How can she say according to Rohit she hurt him??? So still she doesn't get it that her decisions to lie/hide what hurt him the most and funny thing here told her also. But she continues to believe she is not wrong!!

Whatever her faults were Sona was never insensitive to others pain. So what happened to her sense of fairness when it comes to her husband???

As for Rohit his anger, to him love has always been about him &Sona.. Nobody else mattered. For him it began and end with sona. So he is angry with her for signing a document which primarily focus on him without giving him a chance to decide.

Sona still does that.. Making decision for what Rohit can handle and when, how hurt her will be...

On the show front it has lost its grip on the content. Personally it's only for Rohit character still watching this stupid show. Pls don't assume this is because of any favoritism no on the contrary he still is very much relatable. I am sure this will change soon enough.. Just like YK..

Sad if the spoiler are to believed (I think highly possible) they are going to destroy the bond between YK and Rohit. One more loss for Rohit.. Felt they started it today with that scene with sona, YK!!!

Nothing to look forward to in this show anyone . Just going along out of habit..

Exactly for Sona it's all about controlling .relationship with hubby is never US taking decisions together .it's always HER taking decisions and expecting him to understand her when things go wrong

Originally posted by: togepe30

Fair point.

But here Sonakshi is taking shit from the whole family. If it was just Rohit then you could say it was for love.

When Ajit says dnt compromise ur marriage coz of me, she says no my marriage is not that weak. R u for real? He is saying he doesnt need you to stick ur neck for him, then let him be. What is this forcefully helping others?

Also purane time me ppl used to keep quiet coz of the stigma of being a divorcee. Tina married into Ambani family n she found other things to do. Asin ka husband was very clear from Day 1 that he didnt want her to act. Also these actresses chose to do that, they were not arm twisted into it. Even Madhuri chose to quit after her marriage. Now we can argue we dont know why they really quit. But that is jst speculation.

Suman ne pehle hi bola tha she wud permit this shaadi only if Rohit lets her work after marriage.

Even Rati Agnihotri tolerated abuse. For her son. To there was a child involved.

Also Sonakshi is still in denial abt her quitting her job. Kal she said 'I earn my own money, I dont need anything'. Does she realize she has quit her job n is on notice?

😆 I thought so too ....

Ok guys, good discussion!

Lemme go do the thing that gets the paycheck😆

Office me baithke m discussing why CVs are not doing their work. Without realizing that even I am not🤣

I dnt have 80% of Sippy property, so I need my job😆

Bye!

Originally posted by: togepe30

Exactly.

Rohit said to her pehle hi. Ki you cannot keep 11 ppl happy.

I dunno what the CVs are smoking while writing this crappy script.

I would love to hit that pot if I could find out what eactly the cvs smoke. There was so much potential with this show. It could have been so much more than what we are seeing now but jai ho CVs ki.

She actually does not looks close to Rohit atall. I believe that true love shove to kuch hota nahi hai par companionship hoti hai. I know that women need to hide a lot of things from their husbands and at a lot of times they do it out of habit but here she had a perfect friend and companion in Rohit. Unfortunately his character us ruined too and is edging towards being abusive physically and emotionally.

Originally posted by: togepe30

Ok guys, good discussion!

Lemme go do the thing that gets the paycheck😆

Office me baithke m discussing why CVs are not doing their work. Without realizing that even I am not🤣

I dnt have 80% of Sippy property, so I need my job😆

Bye!

See you was fun talkining mera din abshuru ho raha hai but I am resigned to bed most of the time. I am expecting my second child and am on bedrest all the time. So I have all the time to talk......lol

Originally posted by: mytinypaintings

You are connecting financial independence with emotional independence. Both these things are not interdependent. For example Zeenat Aman was a far better accomplished actor that Mazhar Khan but she endured domestic violence and abuse for a long time why? There are ample examples of such behaviours from women in all walks of life. Aishwarya Rai was an entity when she had to face the Salman Khan mess. Women when are accomplished they try to make their marriages work even at a far greater personal cost than women who are unaccomplished financially. It is a known fact. Emotional independence and stability is a trait that largely depends on one's life experiences not on finances.

I don't think zeenat encountered domestic abuse from.mazhar .I saw mazhar interview in cineblitz April 1998 edition .me fan of zeenat .so I remember it

In that he swore on his kids that he never raised even his little finger on her he beat many people FOR her but he never beat her .i don't think he lied .. and he never took.a single rupee from her ever and he has no weakness of alcohol.or women like many.men in industry .

In sime agarwal interview two years after death of mazhar zeenat never told that mazhar abused her physically .what zeenat said was she married in haste bcos she wanted kids and after one year she realised he and her were not compatible and by that time a kid was born and she decided to.make her marriage work bcos she did not want her kids not have a dad like zeenat suffered .zeenat parents divorced when she was very young

Why zeenat divorced her hubby it's not bcos of abuse it's bcos he fell sick and for complete 4 years he was bed ridden it was such an emotional turmoil in her she was drained .please see her interview with sime agarwal

Regarding Aishwarya she left Salman the moment he started abusing her and rest is all about Salman not digesting it and harassing her to be with him

Originally posted by: mthiru

Hi nice analysis on Sona's traits. Agree with most.

After watching today's episode there are too many discrepancies in the characters that no one looked Scott free.

But can you explain why Sona finds to easier to share things with everyone other than Rohit? I was insulted second hand on behalf of Rohit when she confided everything to Sumith that happened today at SM and police station?? Come on how can you do that? Is indirectly says sona is presenting poor me and everyone MU me..

It was distasteful to see her discussing Rohit with Sumit. She lost me there!! Pls don't call this a friendship.. Could somewhat accept if it was Nethra.. Why the makers never show Rohit discussing about Sona and their problem with anyone? Maybe than what sona did would have looked normal.

Don't know why I find it offensive that time and again she Involved Sumit(others too) in their life decisions.. Job quitting, help with blackmailer, murder suspicion and what happened at her home..

Sona today was way outside of her character. She was neither the poor girl nor the strong woman...

Why the hell is she going after Rohit after that blasting she gave Rohit? Where is her self respect? The guy asking her to stay out of his life.. This is not love it's controlling and wishing everyone to fall accordingly

Does Sona every understand the meaning of giving space to people? What is the need to go after Rohit at the park? Also why ask him question like don't you really believe me...

In their fight sona uses all the manipulating emotional tricks in the book (the dialogue asking rohit to let her fall down the cliff!!!) to make him understand her POV is correct... Is it always about her? What about his pain?

Her dialouges with YK is the worst scene of KHKT for me?? Again she presents the poor MU girl?? How can she say according to Rohit she hurt him??? So still she doesn't get it that her decisions to lie/hide what hurt him the most and funny thing here told her also. But she continues to believe she is not wrong!!

Whatever her faults were Sona was never insensitive to others pain. So what happened to her sense of fairness when it comes to her husband???

As for Rohit his anger, to him love has always been about him &Sona.. Nobody else mattered. For him it began and end with sona. So he is angry with her for signing a document which primarily focus on him without giving him a chance to decide.

Sona still does that.. Making decision for what Rohit can handle and when, how hurt her will be...

On the show front it has lost its grip on the content. Personally it's only for Rohit character still watching this stupid show. Pls don't assume this is because of any favoritism no on the contrary he still is very much relatable. I am sure this will change soon enough.. Just like YK..

Sad if the spoiler are to believed (I think highly possible) they are going to destroy the bond between YK and Rohit. One more loss for Rohit.. Felt they started it today with that scene with sona, YK!!!

Nothing to look forward to in this show anyone . Just going along out of habit..

Sonakshi confiding in Sumit abt sippy house personal matters is a Wtf moment for me too. Since when did this man, who used to make life hell for her on set, suddenly become her closest confidante? And he is giving her advice that she should share the police suspicions with Rohit? Like, she STILL doesnt get how badly her habit of hiding things has affected her relationship?

If I were Rohit I would be very offended if my partner kept sharing problems with some third person all the time. Sonakshi really needs to introspect why she is comfortable time and again sharing things with sumit but not her own husband.

Giving space to people - no she does not understand it. This is the same woman who banged on the bathroom door till Rohit came out when she wanted to talk to him and who literally forced him to say good morning to his father as if he was a badly behaved boy for not doing so 😆without knowing anything abt the background history of father-son relationship. She just can't leave people alone to sort out their personal matters on their own.

And I personally hate her direct talks to the camera because they are designed to gain sympathy for her.

Originally posted by: mytinypaintings

See you was fun talkining mera din abshuru ho raha hai but I am resigned to bed most of the time. I am expecting my second child and am on bedrest all the time. So I have all the time to talk......lol

Take care..I was on complete bedrest from 3rd to 9th month for my son and I know how irritating and difficult it is to be stuck in one place! Let's keep the discussions going 😊Hope all good with your health.

Originally posted by: kar08

Sonakshi confiding in Sumit abt sippy house personal matters is a Wtf moment for me too. Since when did this man, who used to make life hell for her on set, suddenly become her closest confidante? And he is giving her advice that she should share the police suspicions with Rohit? Like, she STILL doesnt get how badly her habit of hiding things has affected her relationship?

If I were Rohit I would be very offended if my partner kept sharing problems with some third person all the time. Sonakshi really needs to introspect why she is comfortable time and again sharing things with sumit but not her own husband.

Giving space to people - no she does not understand it. This is the same woman who banged on the bathroom door till Rohit came out when she wanted to talk to him and who literally forced him to say good morning to his father as if he was a badly behaved boy for not doing so 😆without knowing anything abt the background history of father-son relationship. She just can't leave people alone to sort out their personal matters on their own.

And I personally hate her direct talks to the camera because they are designed to gain sympathy for her.

Rohit did get deeply offended that Sona shared their lack of intimacy with her mom and still thinks she told about Naren's affair to Suman.

Will love to see Sona's character grow ... now that they have a flawed FL, hope that they don't whitewash all her acts, particularly confiding to Sumit and the naari morcha ... saying her intent was right.

That reminds me of an animation movie called Bolt ... the dog's revelation that he was a normal dog but still succeeding in saving his friend ... hope something similar happens with Sona.

Originally posted by: mytinypaintings

See you was fun talkining mera din abshuru ho raha hai but I am resigned to bed most of the time. I am expecting my second child and am on bedrest all the time. So I have all the time to talk......lol

Don't even think of the smoke pot now ... 😊