Originally posted by: sun29
the fact that jodha stood in silence and gulped in everything jalal said and yet stood by him without a word of defence or a thought of self pity ...does that not show she understood where he is coming from and right now for her ..his pain is more than her own wounds... people say she has no option but to suffer..really??? this is the girl who chose to end ehr life than be unwanted...this is the girl who walked out of Agra and Amer when asked to and her character questioned..this is the girl who inspite of being pregnant still decided to walk out of Agra when her husband decided to divorce her in papita track...so if she had felt her self respect hurt would she have stayed back trying to reach out??
a relationship is not a bed of roses and perfect actions and morally correct reactions...a relationship is made up of ups and downs ,wrongs and rights ,black and white ,yes and no ...that makes it real...if jalal and jodha were so in sync with each other then that would have been unreal...and jalal jodha are not unreal they are as real as you and me...and so is their good and bad...he is hurting and she is hurting ...he lashes out and she stays silent...they both lost,they both broke and they both suffer...one cannot be more than other...and if they do not stumble and err ,they would never learn and instill in them a faith so strong that faces and resists the strongest of the misfortune..and their lives were filled with them ..hence let them fail,let them fall so that they can rise and find the path to each other and to their faith in the God who brought them together...let jalal lash out ...because he has to fall down before his Almighty as there in lies his answers ...he ahs to find the way back into jodha's arms so that she can take him in her embrace and cocoon her against all pain ...coz there in lies his peace and love...
as i had said in atifa track...that if atifa had seen the real jalal she would have run miles away as fast as she could...coz only a jodha can love the Jalal and only a Jalal can love the jodha...
there was a beautiful line from the show dhoop kinare...when the protagonist started hating the heroine and his friend another ruqaiyya taunted her about it...she told her with firmness that ...if she had kept his love with all respect in her heart then she will ensure that she treats his hatred with the same amount of respect ...(it sounds much better in urdu)
hence be patient and support them in their dire times ...a love story cannot be epic if it is not beaten bruised and bled yet it has the courage to walk on towards the destination ...
i actually liked the episode and am enjoying this phase of angst...all relationships go through constant test of fire and only the truth prevails in the ned rest all burn down ...
as for whether leap occured or not ..why banging our heads..we would know about it in show itself..given BB's daughter should be around 4 if 3 year leap occurred..and javida's child should be around 2-3 yr old...
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