Originally posted by: sweet_diksha
Very good take, Mansi... and superb positivity as usual...
yest, when we talked abt it and u told me there is nothing in soul talks that shows leap of three years... and now as that zee man told u that it's just few weeks leap, then be sure zee ppl r lying again... it may not be 3 yrs leap, but it's surely a leap of few months or one year... coz if u remember before that 4 months leap, there was a scene where TM is sent to talk to Udaysing and MP not to give shelter to Jalal's enemies and that Jalal would like to have a word with them as for him war will be last option...
this msg from Jalal was ard the time of MA death , and so if considered the leap and then kids birth and death, and now Jalal's talk of 3 years wasted in giving time to MP and co, then we can say leap is of one and half to 2 years...
now there is one very interesting thing u seem to have missed... there was a pic from zee... and somebody has posted it even on forum... the pic was of AkDha in same frame, but the words were something that made me think for a while... it said, that, a woman may not be able to change a man when she starts loving him, but , a man definitely changes himself when he starts loving somebody... this line explains future track... and that track is Jalal - Jo 's old equation of relationship back in this phase of their life... hate-hate and hate-love...
yest's episode made sure that both love eachother deeply... but while Jo has herself completely in control, Jalal is exactly opposite... both of them hold themselves responsible for twins death, but Jo is ready to take that responsibility openly and this shows the extreme strength she posses.. whereas Jalal's behavior was completely unexpected... it felt like he was finding the first chance to throw the guilt he felt for kids death, to somebody else's shoulders... and so when Jo didn't reply him for the accusation he put on her, he grabbed that moment to put that blame on her...
he very conveniently banned her from his life... somebody said that his behavior was out of fear of losing her... that he fears that he loses everybody whom he loves... and he doesn't want to lose Jo, so he felt it's better to keep her away from him, and so he banned her from his life... but i felt it differently...it's not fear, that made him push her away from him... it was his even bigger guilt that he is being coward in putting blame on her shoulders when the both were equal partners in whatever happened... that was his hatred towards himself, that when she needs him the most, when she needs his strength, it's actually opposite and that it's her who is showing the extreme strength, and not him... it's his shame for being weak , by running away from the responsibility and blaming Jo conveniently , that has raised his anger even more... and that guilt, that shame and that anger is making him push her to such extent , that will be her testing of her strength... coz right now if she breaks , he will be shattered...
he very well knows, now when she loves him, then she will never hate him like before... and he even knows, that when he will finally get rid of his anger, and guilt, there can be more shame on his name and hatred from everybody else, that will surely break him down... and if anybody can become his strength then, then it can be only Jo... i felt he was testing that strength of her... coz just a slight weakness shown from Jo, and it won't take a moment longer for Jalal to break right there...
what an understanding of eachother's heart... they proved it again... the one u hate more is the one u love more... only that person can ever rule ur heart coz they don't stay closest to ur heart but they stay right in ur heart... and so let them hate eachother , their love will never let them get totally seperated from eachother...
and if like i said above (the line in bold), then after the cruelty of this war, Jo will surely start giving Jalal cold shoulder after his return, and may be for some time we may get to see old Jodha and her famous 'Ghrina' mode back, and that will again mark the need for Jalal to change from Jallad to Akbar to win his ladylove back forever... so let's wait for this to happen..
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