FOOD FOR THOUGHT.....are we hypocrites??? - Page 4

LOL JS, the ss fan club was an april fool's day joke 😆 ..how could you, even in the remotest of sense think that me and moni were serious 😕 ...yes, we confused everyone, so much so that even moni was confused 😆 .....couldnt you make that out.......

and i never said mona is a bad girl 😛😕 .....All I'm saying is she's not alllllllllllll that good either....she's just human, like you and me so why are we placing her on a pedestal and make every other person look belittled in front of her 😕..Why do we absolve her of all her mistakes when we aren't ready to do the same when it comes to shilpa 😃

LOL madhu di, i am NOTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT(for God's sake) saying that ss is a pleasant girl.........everyone knows, i have been warned 7 times, everytime for bashing SS..believe me.......i am not saying that she's sweet to fans as all she does when someone approaches her most goodlooking FH is to draggggggggggggggggggggggggg him and flee the place 😕 ..........

boy oh boy !!!!! what a thread...buffie, u come back and start all this heavy dicussion. infact, it is very healthy and it is making us sit and think.

We all know that we are in love with JJKN and the characters and the pair playing those characters - Armaan and Jassi. In my opinion (i might be wrong), when we talk about Mona or Apoorva - intentionally or unintentionally our mind and heart drift to Armaan and Jassi and we start saying things based on that. This is case with me.
I don't think so any of us personally know anything about Mona or Apoorva or Shilpa.. we make up our minds based on either interviews, gossips , rumours or from the newspapers etc etc etc... There is a huge possibility that these people are infact very different from what they show to outside world.
To me Mona is a very diplomatic girl. She knows what she wants, what she says , how she says but SS does not have this quality. She is open... She is childish (she still has that child like behaviour in her even though she is an adult), acts very immature. To me she feels insecure because in some corner of her heart she knows that lot of girls love AA and that is why she keeps chipkofying.. In this I would say AA is to blamed also. He is the one who has to make SS secure..
And how to dress or not is one's choice but because they are now public figure so we expect them to always be well-dressed, well-groomed... Arey yaar give them a break. Before a celebrity they are a human being..But I would agree on one point - repeating clothes..that is not good..
As I said in the beginning, we all love (most of us) Armaan and Jassi and so we think that we love Apoorva and Mona. And so we do not pay attention to their mistakes. No one is perfect. We just give blind-eye to our loved ones mistakes, blunders, bloopers...

These are my views..Sorry if I hurt anybody.

Originally posted by: anju di

To me Mona is a very diplomatic girl. She knows what she wants, what she says , how she says but SS does not have this quality. She is open... She is childish (she still has that child like behaviour in her even though she is an adult), acts very immature. To me she feels insecure because in some corner of her heart she knows that lot of girls love AA and that is why she keeps chipkofying.. In this I would say AA is to blamed also. He is the one who has to make SS secure..

awwwwwwwww anju di 😃 , finally someone says it 👏 ....you have explained it the best till now...SO since ss is open, and mona is not, we tend to label mona as awesome,when her real intentions are known to none

( and i'm not saying that her real intentions are bad or anythign in those negative lines)

SS is extremely childish and now, more than annoyance, i harbour pity for her.........SS is rustic and very crude...mona is more polished from the outside and KNOWS how to talk, when to talk and what to talk most of the times, that's untill she decides to open her trap and spew out her real intentions ......something like crude oil and refined oil.....


mona tries to always be politically correct, ss does not

and perhaps mona wouldnt have expected that there are caricatures who dig up old interviews and tear her apart if she ever goes wrong(price to pay if one is a celeb)

BOTTOMLINE is....both moan and ss have their foibles, quirks, idiosyncrasies,but we chose to ignore and overlook mona's faults as we like her but we tear ss into shreds as we are nto all that fond of her

Personally, i never liked or disliked SS to start with. When i saw her as Ganga in Kyunki i was put off, more by the character than the actor. Infact i didn't even know her real name and had this vague impression that offscreen she must be pretty simple and subdued (appearances sure are deceptive! 😆 😆 😆 ), like her onscreen character.

When i came to know she had married AA, well, i admit i got a nasty shock becoz i had been dreaming of MANDA almost since JJKN started.(go through my thread on this Buffie....but you'll have to search for it yourself since i am just too tired today; it reads, "I first got on manda's trail in..")
But, contrary to what you may think, that DID NOT make me dislike SS. in fact i tried my best to like her for Apu's sake. Even when my manda suspicions got reawakened post-makeover, i did not dislike SS...in fact i felt sorry for her were what i was thinking turned out to be true.

it was only after witnessing her obonoxious behaviour at award functions, NB, several accounts of her snubbing fans, and finally the last straw--her forced entry into JJKN< that i really started detesting her.

As regards Mona, well, i don't say she is perfect, but because to me she has always come across as warm and genuine, i love her and will continue defending her.

And mind you, i do not love Mona simply because she plays Jassi. I did not even care for Mona Singh earlier; i loved only Jassi; but after the makeover as Mona's persona came out into the open, i grew to like and fianlly love her.

Now in the context of MANDA--if AA had married someone charming like gauri or RK, i might have still sighed over MANDA, but would still have appreciated the sweet pair AA and his wife made. However, there have been too many incidents where i felt AA is not comfortable around SS. Moreover, isn't SS's affection rather stifling? I wonder that he doesn't feel cramped, the way she doesn't let him hang out with his freinds much (as he himself said in the Agnihotris' lunch episode of Popkorn) and doesn't let him speak much.
So many ppl commented after JJK that they looked a mismatch couple; i didn't even say it.

If AA is really happy with SS, all the best to them. ALL i have been arguing is, IF MandA love each other, we manda mongers at least have the right to dream of them together and wish for a miracle. I do NOT want AA to cheat on SS; i may joke about it but i would not want it for EITHER of the 3's sakes. I don't want SS to be ditched, and i do not want manda to live with a guilty conscience all their lives.

Originally posted by: blyton

it was only after witnessing her obonoxious behaviour at award functions, NB, several accounts of her snubbing fans, and finally the last straw--her forced entry into JJKN< that i really started detesting her.

As regards Mona, well, i don't say she is perfect, but because to me she has always come across as warm and genuine, i love her and will continue defending her.

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This type of behaviour comes only when a person is insecure. She loves her hubby too much and too much love is causing insecurity, problem in her life. She knows that AA is very good-looking and after the popularity of JJKN, AA has a good fan-base. And so she has insecurity that AA might leave her. Thus she displays her affection publicly and kind of reminds AA that she is there, that she is his wife.Insecure people can go to any extremes.. I Hope she just stays with this type of showing and does not go to other extremes...

Personally, i never liked or disliked SS to start with. When i saw her as Ganga in Kyunki i was put off, more by the character than the actor.--i know..ganga is so ewwwww too..i mean she's married to salil..aka saahil🤢..she even chipkoofies of him😕

Infact i didn't even know her real name and had this vague impression that offscreen she must be pretty simple and subdued --EXACTLY..coming to buffie and mine's porcelain doll discussion😛..ss CAN look beautiful whenever she wants..as shes got the "honest eyes"........perfect doll features😕

When i came to know she had married AA, well, i admit i got a nasty shock becoz i had been dreaming of MANDA almost since JJKN started.--ME too blyti..me too😳..thats why we are the mandamongerz😃..heck, Manda suit..sanda dont🤢

Now in the context of MANDA--if AA had married someone charming like gauri or RK, i might have still sighed over MANDA, but would still have appreciated the sweet pair AA and his wife made. However, there have been too many incidents where i felt AA is not comfortable around SS. Moreover, isn't SS's affection rather stifling? I wonder that he doesn't feel cramped, the way she doesn't let him hang out with his freinds much (as he himself said in the Agnihotris' lunch episode of Popkorn) and doesn't let him speak much.
So many ppl commented after JJK that they looked a mismatch couple; i didn't even say it.

👏👏👏..TOTALLY agree anjie😃..i would've still seen khwab of manda(lolz, how weird does that sound..manda dreams..lolz, sanda only has sanda dreams..where mona is the babysitter😭)..heck, aa cant even breathe when he is with ss😕🤢..lolz, she brings out the worst in him..he really becomes an extrovert when with mona...like in the holi janda short scene..when aa was chasing ms with the pichkari...he seemed alll boyish and carefree..espesh. in that weird arm dance he did at the end..sort of like trying to impress ms, in a teenagerish way😃..anyways, it looked really cute..and i dont blame ms for having a crush on aa..when he acts allll "cute", "carefree" n "boyish"😆 around her..she can't resist sometimes and squeezes his cheeks,😳 like in the jjkn finale..b'cos AA WAS flirting..and was in that boyish mood😕😆.in the last scene when MS says shes pregnant..aa was fooling around and being "cute" to ms😕..s0 when ms said "aur tum papa banae wala hai"..and grabs the cheeks😳..see, ms found it adorable and probably HARD to resist NOT showing affection back😳..so she grabbed the cheeks😃, as a way of saying "I love you..yes you!😃"...to sum up, aa has a charm to him, which ms can't resist..that why they frivolous flirt😕..aa has a boyish charm😆..thats how he pulled ss😆..boyfriend and girlfriend😆

If AA is really happy with SS, all the best to them.DITTO!😃..as i said, i will have to shutup and bear as it has nothing to do with me whatsoever.😕

ALL i have been arguing is, IF MandA love each other, we manda mongers at least have the right to dream of them together and wish for a miracle.OMGSH..couldn't have said it better myself..after all, we want whats best for everyone😃..but ss will be deeply heartbroken..there's always one person who loses in love..i will feel bad for her..but as they say "all is fair in true love and war" aka "pyar aur jaang mein sab kuch jaise".

I do NOT want AA to cheat on SS; i may joke about it but i would not want it for EITHER of the 3's sakes.Me neither...sanda forever it is then.

I don't want SS to be ditched, --that would be plain evil🤢..breaking the heart of a girl..ss is living her childhood dream..that she will grow up and have a loving hubby, nice home and cute family😛..that her knight in shining armour would whisk her away, and would sweep her off her feet😕😳..and this dream of hers has turned into a reality for her..and i'm happy for her😃..i think she is so 'in love' because she has everything she has ever wanted..that she doesn't realize how much she is bragging and PDAing🤢..remember, one is blind when in love😕..maybe, she isn't aware of her actions b'cos she is young and wrapped up in her dream😕😕😕

and i do not want manda to live with a guilty conscience all their lives.SAME..that would be horrile

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No i haven't..buffie, i was just commenting on MandA..as i am a mandamonger..i dont love aa and ms personally 😕..i still think ms is overhyped and we ignore everything wrong ms does and bash ss for breathing 😕

moni, have i ever bashed you 😉 ..just wondering 😆 ...tell me, have i ever 😉

lolz nugushie..i think you haven't, have you?! 😕 😆 ..have i ever bashed you? 😉