FOOD FOR THOUGHT.....are we hypocrites??? - Page 5

Originally posted by: moondust

NO MONI, you have never bashed me...lol, i was not goign to bash you...just asked 😳

Btw buffie, the title was copied from my December thread..on what food to feed AA, because ss doesn't feed him(but dear, you could eat yourself 😕 ..i thought you liked all things girly, and cooking as a feminine activity 😆 )

😆 😆 hansini u replied to my entire post ,only the last para was addressed to u,coz u thought ss was bashed too much . i feel ,now this is my opinion, that shilpa saklanis statement on dark babies deserved to be criticised in every way possible,and i also admitted in the first para,this was the only one reason i got angry with her, rest i never bothered .
and about the interview, i am tired telling ever since i joined about it, but i stand by what i say, and if u want to give benefit of doubt to ss also,cool but here we were angry with her for a television telecast which was neither fabricated or made up, 😡

and now i will say only this much- till i get a genuine reason to dislike some one i wont, ss gave a reason to hate her ,mona till date has behaved in a dignified and decent manner,so i remain a faithful tree hugger 🤗
in future if she lets me down , i will be the first one to criticise her 😊
so kya thum ek tree hugger banoge 😳

Originally posted by: jassisuri

😆 😆 hansini u replied to my entire post ,only the last para was addressed to u,coz u thought ss was bashed too much . i feel ,now this is my opinion, that shilpa saklanis statement on dark babies deserved to be criticised in every way possible,and i also admitted in the first para,this was the only one reason i got angry with her, rest i never bothered .
and about the interview, i am tired telling ever since i joined about it, but i stand by what i say, and if u want to give benefit of doubt to ss also,cool but here we were angry with her for a television telecast which was neither fabricated or made up, 😡

and now i will say only this much- till i get a genuine reason to dislike some one i wont, ss gave a reason to hate her ,mona till date has behaved in a dignified and decent manner,so i remain a faithful tree hugger 🤗
in future if she lets me down , i will be the first one to criticise her 😊
so kya thum ek tree hugger banoge 😳

JS, as i said when we quote somebody, we are just not answering only to them....i answered to piyu but most of it was not a reply to her post....so i guess when hansini answered to you, she was not pointing fingers at you but at everyone..as i said, we are ALL guilty somewhere or the other

and i dont believe in groups..yes, we made the armaan defense committee etc but that was fiction ...i cannot become an apu defender or a tree huggie for life as if they do something aberrant, i cannot turn a blind eye......liking mona is another thing from defending her ALWAYSSSS even if she's wrong!!similarly hating SS and bashing her ALWAYS is also not right...the comment on dark babies was unnecessary, and SS rightfully came in for flak and ridicule there......but bashing ss when she calls herself shilpa agnihotri, bashing her for being bubbly on a game show like JKK etc is a bit too much...but the cornflakes anecdote was unbelieveably funny 😆😆😆

i'm digressing now, read my siggy.....bipasha basu looks drop dead gorgeous and bipasha is very dark...bips is not even wheatish, she downright dark.....but that doesnt take away even a trifle of her gorgeousness from her.....shilpa is not drop dead pretty..she's just fine for tellywood, and there can be absolutely no comparisons made between ss and bipasha just like how its ludicrous to compare abhi and apu ......its plain simple, even the entertainment industry , where appearances matter the most, doesnt care about skin tone....bipasha, rani, rimi , riya, raima, sushmita sen, diana hayden, lara dutta, none of these are fair........so ss was just plaim dumb to say that abhi's kids would be dark....and we all know that ss is dumb,

Originally posted by: moondust

Btw buffie, the title was copied from my December thread..on what food to feed AA, because ss doesn't feed him(but dear, you could eat yourself 😕 ..i thought you liked all things girly, and cooking as a feminine activity 😆 )

dude, what about the role i suggested for apu😉😆

Originally posted by: Hansini

and u maynot,but many people dislike her for repeating clothes.......actually i consider it a good quality to be economical ...havent we learned from jassi that clothes shud not be given much importance and a person shud not be judged by the clothes she wears

hansu, repeating occassionally is fine....every telly actor does that 😃 ....but do you agree, those white pants and apu's capris are freaky as they are ALWAYS in it...i mean, ss has been clicked in those white pants atleast 12 times till date...who does that now 😆

Originally posted by: Hansini

mona cant be blamed for ss insecurities ........and neither i believe that ss is insecure......its just our imagination based on the clinging act of ss which as i said is actually a habit with her...........joing jjkn could have been a simple desire to work with her husband which was interpreted as insecurity act and blown out of proportion...........

now dont you think you are being biased to ss 😉 , just like how most of the tree-huggies are blind to mona's faults.......people have even earlier said that ss drags apu away when approached for autographs and stuff...now that needs to be condemned right 😉 ...similarly, bragging also cannot be accepted...agreed she is naive and immature, but doesnt she at all feel embarrassed to brag.....both have their faults...mona is not perfect, ss is worse than her...but we defend mona's faults,which is hypocrisy...we rightfully bash ss' mistakes like her comment on dark babies, her bragging and her insecurities but we also slam some of her non-controversial comments..................

I never said that bashing ss for her controversial comments is hypocrisy........but defending mona for her controversial statements and bashing ss for her non-controversial comments is hypocrisy.....

and hansu, you defend even the controversial comments of ss..so what do we call you 😉

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Originally posted by: fan no 1 jjkn

Well Buffie so a thread again started. I am afraid to make honest comment b'coz its may be banned by Modz. No one here is Hypocrite. All of us opened out our own feeling and choices and to justify sometime we become a little bit rude.

in my opinion, everyone here is a hypocrite, including me

I like MONA and only MONA. I think only about MandA.

mandamongerz😃

I don't find any reason to compare MONA with SS.

no, i'm not comparing mona with ss...i'm juxtaposing the treatment meted out to mona and that to ss...i am discussing about our double standards, not comparing mona and ss

Is it for that SS is Apu's wife? MONA has been established her as the most successful actress in Indian Television with her arduous effort. Where SS is yet to prove herself. Still she is a side actress like Ganga.

sorry, mona is a fantastic actress...but ss too is not bad....this is precisely what i'm talking about.....ss may be not be as good as mona, but why dismiss her as a crassy actress....and ss has done more shows than mona..ss has attempted every genre....positive as in kuynki, negative vamp as in swathi of kkusum, comical as in shanoo ki shaadi, grave and despondent as in vidhi....SS too is a reknown actress in her own right, and she's NOT hogging the limelight only because she;'s mrs.apu......hell, ss has a job now, apu doesnt...ok, that doesnt make her a better actress than mona but just to prove that she's an actor in her own right👏...i'm not defending ss but you know, such prejudiced remarks are not correct and that's precisely what's known as hypocrisy..even i have slammed ss earlier, i was and to some extent yet continue to be a hypocrite😭

Yes SS learnt some thing from Mona i.e. good and sober dressing sense nowadays. Earlier when I saw her in Nach Baliye, Award Ceremony I was about to faint. What she was wearing??? Though I should not talk about her personal dressing style.

why are you now comparing mona and ss????ss' dressing is bad and everyone knows that.....but even there, i feel that we have developed an attitude where we say that anything and everything ss wears is bad...and anythign and everythign mona wears is good....please, had mona donned the ensemble ss donned at SPA or at JKK, we wouldnt have batted an eyelid.....now mona's saree at the indian telly awards looked so cheap and simple, like a polyester saree one gets everywhere...there was nothign special about that orange saree with huge turquoise flowers.....has ss worn it, we would have mocked....many of the salwars that mona wore on JJKn were just too ordinary....

I sincerely refrain myself making any comments about SS as I am not at interested. But when it linked with Mona I can't stop my mouth. So far interviews of Mona I find her very matured, intelligent. I don't know neither seen her making bad comments or throw bad remarks. But some time she has to be diplomatic. Just compare that here in IF we Members are scared to make true comments or open out our feeling b'coz our topic or thread may be CLOSED or BANNED. Whereas they are (Actors) are giving view before the whole world so it's justified that some times they have to be diplomat to keep their own weight and profile intact. That is their profession and earnings. I 100% support MONA all the way she is nice. I think RUMOR is the most precious gift to all successful people which they willingly or unwilling have to carry through out their careers and the courtesy goes to Media people. I personally don't believe media comments or article unless it happens. I just read it as information (may be lie or may be true).

even ss hasnt said anything bad about anybody😕fine, i agree all that's said above,but then we must be equally partial to ss...if mona's diplomacy can be accepted, KNOWING THAT SHE'S BEING DIPLOMATIC, then ss' kiddish behaviour should also be accepted....and no one bashed moan for being diplomatic😕...we bashed mona for being downright ARROGANT...so when the mona fans can shroud the arrogance, calling it diplomacy, why shouldnt we also shroud ss' immatuity, calling it childishness.....that's why i'm calling ourselves hypocrites...and i surely dont see any intelligence in mona....if she was all that smart, she would have debated well at the ndtv debate when it was asked if its important to be beautiful....she stood there grinning, sorry, i cant buy that mona's intelligent..all her earlier interviews seem to be parroted .she just said what sony told her to say...and thus"i identify with jassi, i am like her, its not a trouble playign jassi" etc etc....and then when sony lost interest in jjkn, when she no more had to p-arrot stuff, she made a fool of herself by TOTALLY CONTRADICTING what she earlier said, not even thinking twice before opening her trap😕

So for MandA - it no doubt they are made for each other. I believed it b'coz I witnessed their every action in JJKN, AJK, KKH#43 all award ceremony. I always find Apu very jolly, happy and fulfilled when he is with MONA let it be off-screen or on-screen. Whenever I see him with SS he is like a robot. MandA the dream couple are very exceptional in all the ways. They have been the support pillar to each other to establish the their foot step in this Platform.

well such di, what about SPA....i bet you, if it had been ss whom apu had (pretended) to smooch on KKD, we would have shunned it...now when apu pretended to smooch mona on kkd, we ,loved it, but when he pretended to smooch ss at spa, ss being his lawfully wedded wife, we freaked out(including me..i too am accused of harboring double standards)...you see di, when apu is happy with mona, we love it..but if he ever seems to be happy with ss, we bash him....dont you agree...if he coochikoos with ss, wee bash him..but if he coochicoos with mona, we love him.....hell, i feel ashamed of myself for having been such a bloody hypocrite😡😡😡

Mona looks very dignified, elegant and self created lady full of confidence and I respect her sincere devotion to the work, which make her DESH KI DHADKAN JASSI.

oh no...PUHLEASEEEEEEEEEEEEE, mona is NOT the desh ki dhadkan...we, the jjkn aficionados hated it, but the truth is that everyone wanted jjkn to end...people had stopped watching it, it always came in for criticism, it was always panned.......it was always out of the frying pan, into the fire situation....jjkn had lost its charm long back, and tnd couldnt salvage it(but nevertheless, it was better than many other soaps)....and mona singh is overhyped....she did strike a chord with the audience as the plain ugly jassi, but the moment she metamorphosed internally as well as externally, people stopped watching it......we refused to accept it, again because of our hypocrisy....

I have no personal grievance for SS. Its our personal choices whom to like or to not. But for SS always sticking on her husband saying I am AA's wife etc. etc. is just becoming a laughing stuff. Not only that it shows her feeling of insecurity.

yes, she is rightfully castigated for that....

We had a lot of discussion about this but truth is MONA JAISE KOI NAHI

well, mona jaisi har koi...this is the problem yaar, we again and again come back to square one..we prefer to be stuck in a rut......we very well know that mona is just a normal girl, has her flaws and has her foibles...yet we chose to defend her, turn a blind eye to her errors all because we like her...and thus we are just partial, prejudiced hypocrites.....dont take anything to heart di, but just give it thought...sorry if i have unknowingly offended you😭

Originally posted by: Buffie

dude, what about the role i suggested for apu😉😆

PERFECT buffie PERFECT !!😆...no other role can do him any other justice😆