FOOD FOR THOUGHT.....are we hypocrites??? - Page 3

i like mona cuz she is very nice person but i notce SS is talking so much and i dont like oversmart pls cuz she thinks her self over smart 🤢 and clever and i dont like such ppls
and mona is very nice oerson cuz she is not talking much and cute personalty and when she is with apu she looking more cute and apu too 😳

first i must say, i have never felt anyone is being hypocrites here, most of us here r mature enough to understand that sanda marriage is for keeps, and that whatever we say on manda front will remain or has to remain in the fanfictions,how many fanfiction are written on so many leading pairs ,does that mean fans want it to be true, 😕

i never had anything to tell on ss,her clothes or makeup was her personal choice ,i never commented,i reacted only to her dark babies comment which cannot be written off has immature or slip of the tongue, this comment cannot be compared in anyway to monas comment - in addition to what all said in support of mona i wish to add something which many must not be aware of ,many months before archana puran singh had given an interview where in when she was questioned how she would react if she found parmeet sethi was going around with some one ,she had given a similar and even naughtier reply , perhaps mona was remembering that. 😉

and regarding the mumbai mirror interview i have already told and repeat , i dont believe all that is written in it, i even told u to refer to indiatimes tv guide section which is missing now, where she had told the reporter apologised to her,we can give benefit of doubt in a press interview to the interviewee,but what ss said was in a television telecast.what is there to be fair in it, 😡

when ss clings we get annoyed because she is overdoing it, it is as though she keeps doing and telling apu is good looking and she loves him, to convince herself or send a message to arjun,and anyway i never liked display of spouses or lovers affection in public, there is a time and place for everything.(once again this i let this pass coz its their life,maybe i am being too conservative) 🤢

mona yells at award functions 😕 ,nothing abnormal ,is it? and comparing it with ss shrieks 😲 , and if u feel ss is denied her share of compliments,surprising, what u feel she has said or done that deserves it,when she supported some cause we applauded her,did not we, 😊
mona gruffly manly voice - now that is way too much, u have yet to hear many voices of women , rougher than monas, ss screeches and in ways i have yet to see from any other actors. 😆

if manda had married, and mona behaved in similar fashion like ss, i dont think ss bashers would have spared mona either, 😳

till date mona has acted in a very dignified manner,if u r talking of touching apu while talking i have noticed she used to behave the same way while she was interviewed with samir in sbs, with karan in popkorn and with gaurav.maybe it is a habit, i got it too, 😳

and what about being overhyped, anyone who would have played her character would have been, sony was trying to bank in on their one serial which pushed them to the top(all other roles which so called actresses played is all similar,hyping or over hyping would not have helped either),
when she says apu compliments her - what is the harm, i have also seen that interview of hers where she expressed relief people liked her post makeover, doesnot that mean she was not having any wrong notions of her beauty, 😊

ss insecurity is justified when her own husband tells men keep falling in love always ,but why blame mona,what did she do ,she rather goes around telling her idea of ideal husband is everything which aa is not(tall, dark,punjabi munda to match her physique)and she has told aa loves ss , what more should she do or not do 😕

now that is ss and mona comparisons
mona is still much more better if u were to compare her with kripa(size matters comment),or prerna(comparing her costar to a dog),or tulsi(rekha modi),or some e khan(virgin comment)or that actress who leaves her bf in dead night coz he cant 🤬 ,rakshanda(speech wherein she said kekta serials does not advocate adultery or something like that)or so many stars who can tell anything to be in kektas good books(rohit roy),apurva (spa episode)
i can go on,
so if u still feel monas faults r overlooked coz she is a fav here, it is not true,bring out the faults 😃
i personally dont think she is smart also,i noticed that many a times ,she is just trying her level best to be good, i have even noticed she has started bringing in humor in her talks(perhaps rks influence)that is what i like in her, that vulnerability(i am not getting the right word) ,and her willingness to learn and make a place for herself.


hansini dear, we dont have to prove ss is mean, she proved it herself with the dark babies comment,and if anyone thinks this opinion of hers if being blown out of proportion, check that thread where so many people out of india used her comments to generalise us as racist. 😡

and if anyone can convince me i am not right in my opinions , please do, i am willing to listen with a very open mind, 😃
mona has imperfections ,who does not have, but it should be worthy of criticism.

u r right jassi di...i m agree with u what u said 😳

thanks, zoor, now i am waiting for the other cross examiners and analysers and tree huggers and non tree huggers reply 😃

man, this is tiring as i' m the only one arguing on this side..everyone's on the side side of the fence..miss moni as she's my only friend who thinks that mona's faults are ignored... my other friends a ka piggie, khush etc will only bash me in this context

Originally posted by: jassisuri

first i must say, i have never felt anyone is being hypocrites here, most of us here r mature enough to understand that sanda marriage is for keeps, and that whatever we say on manda front will remain or has to remain in the fanfictions,how many fanfiction are written on so many leading pairs ,does that mean fans want it to be true, 😕

well, i find myself guilty and i DO find many others guilty too(i'm just not taking names as people's sentiments would be bruised).....well, fanfictions are chalked up, but they limit themselves to imagine about the characters or unmarried actors(like eijaz-anita)......the angad and kripa fans dont come up with a neha bamb, iqbal khan fanfic....this thread was not intended to accuse and pinpoint at the mandamongerz.....it was just a juxtaposition of the treatment meted out to mona andthe treatment meted out to shilpa, in similar situations..we tend to ignore all of mona's faults😕

Originally posted by: JS

to tell on ss,her clothes or makeup was her personal choice ,i never commented,i reacted only to her dark babies comment which cannot be written off has immature or slip of the tongue, this comment cannot be compared in anyway to monas comment - in addition to what all said in support of mona i wish to add something which many must not be aware of ,many months before archana puran singh had given an interview where in when she was questioned how she would react if she found parmeet sethi was going around with some one ,she had given a similar and even naughtier reply , perhaps mona was remembering that. 😉

i had made myself clear that THAT IS IMPARDONABLE.....read my siggy😃........but that was not what the core aim if this discussion is..

Originally posted by: JS

and regarding the mumbai mirror interview i have already told and repeat , i dont believe all that is written in it, i even told u to refer to indiatimes tv guide section which is missing now, where she had told the reporter apologised to her,we can give benefit of doubt in a press interview to the interviewee,but what ss said was in a television telecast.what is there to be fair in it, 😡

for heavens sake, that interviewer was subhash jha, someone who interviews people of The Big B's league..why would he want to defame mona singh, a mere television actor...i am sure that no one is insecure of mona in tellywood itself and people could care less about her as she's no aishwarya rai , about whom everyone on earth wants to know.... and what is he going to get by showcasing mona in bad light😕..when everyother point in that interview made sense, its but natural that even this point came out of her very own mouth....now, mid day and mirror are at constant loggerheads....mirror now said that IQ was getting married to dinky the very next month...mid day slammed mirror and said that that was fake....now similarly, mirror has published about salman khan gettign offended but mid day rubbished it.....now, why would mona go and resent all these calumnies in indiatimes, which in iteself is a sister cncern of mirror...TOI, indiatimes, mumbai mirror etc are all affiliates of the bennet and coleman(spelling) gruop.....mid day doesnt belong to that wing...so if mona had to get back, she would have dont so via mid day.......now after having digressed , coming back to topic...whether that was right or wrong is not the question.....the question is, why do we chose not to believe it.......just because we cannot accept that mona can ever say/do anythign wrong..she's human,will make mistakes.....lets accept that...i'm not saying we musnt love mona.....but instead of claiming that she is perfect, why not love the imperfect mona😃

Originally posted by: JS

when ss clings we get annoyed because she is overdoing it, it is as though she keeps doing and telling apu is good looking and she loves him, to convince herself or send a message to arjun,and anyway i never liked display of spouses or lovers affection in public, there is a time and place for everything.(once again this i let this pass coz its their life,maybe i am being too conservative) 🤢

OMG, everyone's sounding as though i said that all the above is right😕...NO, its not right and that never came into the picture....PDA is wrong, they look like buffoons , escaped form the circus jumping all around😆....but i'm talking about our overkill...dont we always go overboard when it comes to SS....a simple statement, when she calls herself shilpa agnihotri, we bash her.....ridiculous, aint it..we mudsling even for that harmless comment.....i'm talking about such incidents.......we unanimously slam the bragging, clinging, shrieking etc...i'm not accusing you JS, i'm just accusing all of us including me

Originally posted by: JS

mona yells at award functions 😕 ,nothing abnormal ,is it? and comparing it with ss shrieks 😲 , and if u feel ss is denied her share of compliments,surprising, what u feel she has said or done that deserves it,when she supported some cause we applauded her,did not we, 😊
mona gruffly manly voice - now that is way too much, u have yet to hear many voices of women , rougher than monas, ss screeches and in ways i have yet to see from any other actors. 😆

this is exactly what i was questioning....so if mona's voice can be accepted saying that many other women have manlier voices(true), then why just ceaselessly comment on ss' voice....she has a nasal banshee voice, but many have worse voices than hers....archana puran singh's voice is also not sweet, rani mukherjee's voice is not sweet but people accept that....the point is, we never agree that anything about mona is inferior...that's what i'm trying to say

Originally posted by: JS

if manda had married, and mona behaved in similar fashion like ss, i dont think ss bashers would have spared mona either, 😳

no....we would have loved mona.......gauri pradhan clings on to hiten tejwani, do people ever talk about that😉...no...why????...because pratham and gauri were just like jassi and armaan......just how many here want manda to get married, many of the kutumb fans wanted gauri to marry hiten...and when they did, everyone loved it....and gauri pradhan clings, no one has a problem......when someone says that gauri comes across as a tad bit rude, people defend her saying that she's an introvert so its ok....DITTO as to what happens here......bet you, if manda had married and if mona had clinged, no one would have said anything......

Originally posted by: JS

till date mona has acted in a very dignified manner,if u r talking of touching apu while talking i have noticed she used to behave the same way while she was interviewed with samir in sbs, with karan in popkorn and with gaurav.maybe it is a habit, i got it too, 😳

NOOOOOOOOOO...SHE NEVER TOUCHED SAMIR😕....and mind you, samir is single.....now if apu too was single, i can understand......he's married to the most annoying female ......she WAS dating karan(ok, why dont youll guys believe that😛..why do youll people get so enraged when mona is linked to MM on KF????...karan and mona ate from the same plate, and have ben very friendly offscreen....so when we decide to link up manda just based on simple observations, why dont we accept the mona-MM fling, when even newspapers have gone on to substantiate that....that MM mona choo liya hai was as romantic as the armaan jassi choo liya hai....we said that with mm in choo liya hai, mona was only smiling but with apu she was blushing...no...actually her expressions were the same with both..... ....when mid day, mirror, hell, every random tabloid had it that mona was seeing karan, we didnt believe it.....we chose to believe what mona said).........so arent we too partial to mona....we always believe what she says....now why dont we do the same for SS......SS bragged on television as well as in her interviews..but why shouldnt we believe that ss is misquoted and that she didnt brag at all😕(NOW I am totally confused..why am i defending ss😕..i dont know what i'm saying...hope it makes sense😕)...in short, when it comes to mona, we just side her...we chose to believe that she could have never said any nasty thing to Mr.Jha, we chose to believe that mona and karan arent in love.............hey, ps..you have given me fodder for another thread...moabn is eqully friendly to MM as she is with apu..but why do we say that she likes apu, but not MM.....and we have strong mona MM rumours too.....

Originally posted by: JS

and what about being overhyped, anyone who would have played her character would have been, sony was trying to bank in on their one serial which pushed them to the top(all other roles which so called actresses played is all similar,hyping or over hyping would not have helped either),

SO YOU AGREE SHE'S OVERHYPED😛😛...THAT'S IT......i never blamed mona for her getting hyped.....i just said that she's overhyped when she aint all that

Originally posted by: JS

when she says apu compliments her - what is the harm, i have also seen that interview of hers where she expressed relief people liked her post makeover, doesnot that mean she was not having any wrong notions of her beauty, 😊

what''s the harm when ss compliments her husband about his looks...AA does look good.........so what's the harm there...so that means, mona can brag and compliment herself, SS cant.......there you are..........yes, ss overdoes it....mona doesnt.....but we condemn bragging of any sort......so how can we call mona humble when she brags(in her own way)

Originally posted by: JS

ss insecurity is justified when her own husband tells men keep falling in love always ,but why blame mona,what did she do ,she rather goes around telling her idea of ideal husband is everything which aa is not(tall, dark,punjabi munda to match her physique)and she has told aa loves ss , what more should she do or not do 😕

WHEN DID I SAY THAT ALL THE ABOVE IS WRONG😕......ok, so when we believe that KHUD APU NE KAHA KI HUM JEEVANBHAR LADKIYON KE PYAAR MEIN PHASTHE REHENGE, why musnt we believe that mona said all that in her interview.....i mean, apu could have never said that HUM JEEVANBHAR LADKIYON KE PYAAR MEIN PHASTHE REHENGE,...he could have been misquoted, that reporter would have apologized to him later...why dont we believe all that.....so that means, all that apu says is 100% true, all that ss says is 100% true..but when it comes to mona, she's the bechari who always gets misquoted, and always suffers....why do we believe so....... because of the hypocrisy lurking beneath our shroud of straight forwardness

Originally posted by: JS

now that is ss and mona comparisons
mona is still much more better if u were to compare her with kripa(size matters comment),or prerna(comparing her costar to a dog),or tulsi(rekha modi),or some e khan(virgin comment)or that actress who leaves her bf in dead night coz he cant 🤬 ,rakshanda(speech wherein she said kekta serials does not advocate adultery or something like that)or so many stars who can tell anything to be in kektas good books(rohit roy),apurva (spa episode)
i can go on,

NEVER said that mona is worse than all those......why are we digressing again and again.....so we are again doign what we are accused of,....i'e' glorifying mona at all costs..........KF is a da**** show.....i can never imagine watchign that with my mom as i would be skinned alive..the point is, when we knwo that KF is a controversial show, and mona has made a subtle controversial statement, we yet chose not to pan her......we even glorify that saying she was too smart...now tell me JS, if ss has said the same thing, would we have spared her......honestly ....we would have probably said" so what if apu brings a girl home..must ss also do the same..then what's the difference..where's the dignity....the continence...."...tell me, wouldnt we all have said this.......

Originally posted by: JS

so if u still feel monas faults r overlooked coz she is a fav here, it is not true,bring out the faults 😃

so you want me to come again??????...uuggh, no, read page 1😃

Originally posted by: JS

i personally dont think she is smart also,i noticed that many a times ,she is just trying her level best to be good, i have even noticed she has started bringing in humor in her talks(perhaps rks influence)that is what i like in her, that vulnerability(i am not getting the right word) ,and her willingness to learn and make a place for herself.

my personal opinion...can be right or wrong but personally i feel (I'M not saying this at the spur of the moment but )RK annoys me....she ALWAYS has crooked answers........always whining, always giving crooked answers....its just me, i know, but i get annoyed at people who always never give straight answers....someone asked RK at the premiere of MoS, which spice do you think you are like...her answer" its for you to say"....now how is the interviewer supposed to know about RK's moods, her nature and her foibles that he can answer that question.....reva, when quizzed the same, named a spice......maybe people find it fun, not me.....

Originally posted by: JS

hansini dear, we dont have to prove ss is mean, she proved it herself with the dark babies comment,and if anyone thinks this opinion of hers if being blown out of proportion, check that thread where so many people out of india used her comments to generalise us as racist. 😡

SS was wrong...but we arent ready to forgive SS for that(and we shouldnt)...but tell me JS, have we never bashed ss before that...so was that comment the one which triggered off the ss dispising ....NO!!....so are you telling me that our ss dislike started because she made that comment.....NO!!!....even earlier we have disliked ss......the point is, ss is never forgiven even for her screeching, but moan can be forgiven for her arrogance.....i'm NOT saying that i forgive ss for screeching as i do admit that me is no mahatma, me is a hypocrite...but you say that we are not hypocrites, then defend mona's snootiness saying that she never said all that, and then bash ss for screeching.....trust me, snootiness and screeching stand on same pedestal......so if snootiness can be forgiven, so can screechiness(but me not going to forgive both as i'm no mahaan )....so when people can forgive snootiness, why cant they forgive shriekiness.......ok, it would be too much to ask if we are asked to forgive ss' racist comments.....but cant we forgive her for screeching, when we can actually forgive mona for her arrogance😉

wow what a debate after JJKN has ended.Mona would be holidaying in kerala and apu in his house and we here are discussing whether we are hypocrites and showing partiality to them 😉

see I repeat,it finally comes down to the opinion u form on the basis of whjat u see of them onscreen and some may like mona and some may prefer SS .

Some may like how SS behaves and some may dislike it.Some may like mona;s behaviour,some may not.Its very simple.

As for MandA,I have never said that they should get together or apu should divorce SS or stuff.I am only saying and still do that they flirt with each other and do not behave like normal friends do and thats my honest opinion from what i saw on screen .Its plain simple ,it has nothing to do with SS or apu's married status or their life together.I comment on what i saw and felt .

The same goes with mona's inetrviews and SS's interviews.We talk about SS because she is connected to apurva who happens to play arman suri of our fav serial and we comment on mona on the same basis.

I honestly feel that mona is a very intelligent gal and a softhearted person and remember i have seen her directly when she came to newjersey for the independence day parade with nandu .She came across as a very warm and normal human being ,same goes for nandu.

I havent seen SS in real life directly but from what i have seen onscreen in her various appearance and even apurva,I am least impresed with them as a couple and as individuals.

Maybe I would change my opinion if I meet them in person or I may not .

as for now,these are my opinions on them and my liking or disliking them are based on what i have seen of them till now

"I havent seen SS in real life directly but from what i have seen onscreen in her various appearance and even apurva,I am least impresed with them as a couple and as individuals.

Maybe I would change my opinion if I meet them in person or I may not . " Tina

Trust me you won't change your opinion of SS. There have been many SS sightings... and most of them individual experiences come to the same conclusion.
In case of SS is One See what One gets.
She is exactly the same as she appears to us at various occassions.

She is ONE OF A KIND... 😉

oh dear buffie, let me make this clear, i never ever commented on ss- anything else neither her clothes or her chipkooness or her screeching sounds, coz to tell the truth i never bothered to pay attention,
ok if all press interviews are forgiven, then what other point of mona u really did not like,lets us not comment on aspects like voice coz that is not within our control, but behaviour is,what behaviour of hers offended you ,
now if ss had said the same thing like ms , i really dont think we would have blasted her, coz the statement is a humorous one,
and if ur talking of why we love manda and not ko and mona, i will only say that manda is a leading pair whom we kept seeing as janda we make fantasies around them, not wanting in the least it to be true,
and about samir, i was talking of the sbs episode, when both samir and mona was interviewed regarding the court case and mona said hema malini would be the lawyer, samir expressing surprise and mona says yes or something like that, 😕

and since i have observed u keep analysing ur own thoughts, even went on to open ss fan club and quit it with equal speed, how about joining the tree hugger club, when we do get a good reason to believe mona singh is not a good girl, we all can quit it . 😃 what say, wont u join our club 😳 😃