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Posted: 12 years ago
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Alright there! I said it!
In lieu of all the positive and happy posts going around today, I wanted to point out that it is ONLY because of Arnav's behavior that we are so delirious.
See? He has us in a tizzy, without even trying!!!!!!!!
All he has to do is give some attention to his newly-wedded wife, Kushi and show her that he loves her. (Although he is not doing enough - for her to feel even the slightest bit insecure.)
WE know he loves her. WE know he can't live without her. WE know he would die without her. But the way he has been behaving (so unlike ASR) and almost to the point of ignoring her, she feels he does not love her anymore. (Well, do you blame her? Many factors at play here, but the most important being he has not done enough to waylay her fears and make her confident in his love for her.)
And now, just a little bit of attention and we forgive him for everything. If this episode had him showering attention on Sheetal the way he has been for the past week, and ignoring Kushi the way he has been doing, we would be singing a very different tune.
But hey! I, just as much as anyone else, prefer singing the Rabba Ve tune. ALL the way! To Heaven!
**Sigh**

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Posted: 12 years ago
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arnav was against bringing sheetal in so how is it his fault and when did he shower atten on sheetal
which women would want to bring a ex home selflessness to an extent is good khushi did not learn from her mistakes with shyam she did it again and again which women would bring a kidnpr hm who almost killed her love of life so i disagree that arnav paid attn to sheetal or arnav is at fault if he did talk to her its was normal she lived in his house ignoring her would be accepting that some thing is there also khushi made him mad with dna report she could hv maaofied with just 2 of them she invited the whole family just like the movie thing where she did it for anji but sat with nk!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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above all he made his promise..hamesha sambhal rahunga...
ASR never breaks his promises...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: raman987

arnav was against bringing sheetal in so how is it his fault and when did he shower atten on sheetal
which women would want to bring a ex home selflessness to an extent is good khushi did not learn from her mistakes with shyam she did it again and again which women would bring a kidnpr hm who almost killed her love of life so i disagree that arnav paid attn to sheetal or arnav is at fault if he did talk to her its was normal she lived in his house ignoring her would be accepting that some thing is there also khushi made him mad with dna report she could hv maaofied with just 2 of them she invited the whole family just like the movie thing where she did it for anji but sat with nk!

Kushi's character and personality is like that - because she would never do anything wrong to hurt people she thinks everyone is like her. She wants everyone to be happy and will try to do everything she can to help make that come true, to the extent of hurting herself - as we have seen as you point out with Shyam.
Arnav talked more than normally to Sheetal. He did not even bother to ask his wife if she was hurt when she fell (whereas before he would have run to her and in spite of knowing she had done that on purpose, he would have picked her up and carried her off and fig the game!) He ignored her and didn't even realize she was gone from the court. As well, when he won, he did not even bother to turn around to look for her. Wouldn't a newly-wed husband want to celebrate his win with his wife?? In fact, as we have seen, he was spending more time with Sheetal and Aarav than Kushi. Heck, he was even thinking of Aarav at the office! W*F! He should have been thinking of his newly wedded wife. Bas! And I am not saying he should ignore her. But reminiscing about good old days when you were "girl friend/boyfriend" in front of your wife especially when you know she is insecure...
And yeah! I agree about the DNA. She shouldn't have done that. Although I totally understand why she did. The movie thing - I don't know what to say, again her personality and clueless RM zoo in play here. They all know she is newly wed, nah? And if Akash and Payal can sit together? Also NK was a bit dense. But I think this fiasco happened because CVs wanted to show Kushi in a bad light.
She was only helping someone who needed a place to stay, it just turned out that she was his ex. She certainly did not invite Sheetal to stay so he can start flirting with his ex or ignore his wife!

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Posted: 12 years ago
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GOOD POST YA WE FORGET HIM FOR EVERYTHING ONLY IF HE CONTINUES TO BE LIKE THIS FOREVER
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: adithyan

above all he made his promise..hamesha sambhal rahunga...

ASR never breaks his promises...

Yes! That was very profound. Kind of sealed how he feels for her.
Although he also made a promise not to give her any tears, but yeah, he is clueless about how she feels. Which is surprising, because he used to know what is in her heart and mind.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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yeh, agree , when he has his eyes on her, it's just enough 😉
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Posted: 12 years ago
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i agree with you khushi deserves someone better
poor khushi i feel bad for her
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: kantamistry

GOOD POST YA WE FORGET HIM FOR EVERYTHING ONLY IF HE CONTINUES TO BE LIKE THIS FOREVER

Yes! If only he continues to be like this forever, we would forgive him for EVERYTHING! I know. He was the tops today! Nobody can resist him when he is like this!!😃 Mmm...!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Safi123

i agree with you khushi deserves someone better
poor khushi i feel bad for her

Ummm... I don't know if she would be happy with anyone else! He really is her one and only love. He feels the same, except he's been around. But the bottom line is they cannot be without each other. They are two halves that make a whole. And yes, the way the story has been told, she always seems to get the short end of the stick, because he is always hurting her one way or another. But the beauty of the story is, I think, that in so doing, he is hurting himself more, because his conscious seems to eat him up (although you wouldn't think so from the 3 sec apology she got from him for being a monster!)
It almost seems like a Laila-Majnu in the Twenty-First Century. It's like a modern day Beauty and the Beast!

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