Distrust vs Distrust - Page 6

Originally posted by: riti4u

No one comparing their deeds..but one is wrong that doesnt make other person right...you criticised arnav when he was wrong so why cant ppl criticise when khushi is wrong and if arnav was wrong at that time when he MU her then why khushi is not wrong here when supposedly they showed trust on each other during whole remarriage stuff show..where is belief that khushi had on arnav at that time that he will come... I have said arnav was wrong when he was wrong so why cnt ppl accept that khushi is wrong now...

Agreed here also KHushi had the option of not falling in love with Arnav after the hate track but she did..she cld have not fallen in love !!!!!! that was her choice and if a woman falls in love with a guy and is happy then the guy has something in him...well what she did yesterday was really not nice and wrong just like the his bday episode...The cvs are to be blamed I HATE THEM abd their ideas...

Originally posted by: riti4u

No one comparing their deeds..but one is wrong that doesnt make other person right...you criticised arnav when he was wrong so why cant ppl criticise when khushi is wrong and if arnav was wrong at that time when he MU her then why khushi is not wrong here when supposedly they showed trust on each other during whole remarriage stuff show..where is belief that khushi had on arnav at that time that he will come... I have said arnav was wrong when he was wrong so why cnt ppl accept that khushi is wrong now...

tats the problem with these people!!!!!!
when arnav is wrong we never justified his actions but when it comes to kushi they cant accept her stupidity!!!!

Originally posted by: simim

@Tia I doubt the feelings they had at that time were anywhere close to what they have been projected to having now...after telepathy, and his repeated projection of love for her...

At that time KKG didnt even realize she was in love...ASR was starting to believe that he was in love, and he let his past which said that the middleclass woman is the home breaker overcome his feelings and he did whatever he did.

But then he realized what he felt for KKG, and overcame the past, and the fact tht Khushis mom was in fact the woman responsible for his moms death, and he married her since he meant so much to him...Khushi knew that and waited saying that he loves me and will come...and he did

If this track had come before all this, then her doubts would have made sense...now it doesnt...it looks forced...as if it is being done for the sake of the track...

Even the track is fine..its the execution which is appalling...why are they writing all these crappy scenes? chaprasi disguise etc...I guess thats what is putting people off

This is exactly what I am trying to say too... why are you justifying writing at this time...at this point of their marriage when they already passed so much tests and hurdles for their love...

Originally posted by: sampin

I don't understand one thing...Why should comparisons come in the first place??!!

Then..what ASR did was horribly wrong..He saw Khushi in Shyam's arms..yet never bothered to see the real picture..whatever his reasons might be..

But then the same man let go off his past baggage entirely to marry Khushi..The same man believed Khushi without a single proof...

Again Khushi ...is wrong today...Her husband specifically points out he had nothing with Sheetal...yet she she cannot bring herself to trust him completely..Whatever might be her reasons..

A wrong is a wrong...Whoever does it..But the circumstances are a little different..Why should we compare??

i agree wid ur post...

Rima, I dont want to bring the comparison between Arnav what he did in past and Khushi but I can definitely say this is not the Khushi we all loved and used to feel her every emotion.
Im stil not out of the disaster of yesterday's episode. The Khushi we all know believes every person has some goodness in them and she had shown during lavanya track. The Khushi we all know trusted Shyam again and again inspite of being at fault and a criminal(after terrrace scene when he comes to know about anjali's pregnancy and during miscarriage). The Khushi we all know trusted in goodness of everyone(during Payash engagement Arnav's dialogues to Khushi when NK was staring at her back). The Khushi we all know trusted in Arnav and his love hence pre marital sex at farm house and also she waited for him at the altar inspite of everyone saying he wont turn up. The Khushi we all know used to come different get ups like mami(to cheer payal), in nananji(to cheer nani). in modern dresses(to cheer Arnav) but never stooped this low like yesterday by dressing like a peon. The Khushi we all know is lost now that is all I can say.

@Tia On the dating bit...he was angry she got the DNA tested, and in that context he said that we were only dating, and uske aage kuch nahin tha or something like that...and then said go ahead and open it.

Originally posted by: sarunfan4ever

Rima, I dont want to bring the comparison between Arnav what he did in past and Khushi but I can definitely say this is not the Khushi we all loved and used to feel her every emotion.
Im stil not out of the disaster of yesterday's episode. The Khushi we all know believes every person has some goodness in them and she had shown during lavanya track. The Khushi we all know trusted Shyam again and again inspite of being at fault and a criminal(after terrrace scene when he comes to know about anjali's pregnancy and during miscarriage). The Khushi we all know trusted in goodness of everyone(during Payash engagement Arnav's dialogues to Khushi when NK was staring at her back). The Khushi we all know trusted in Arnav and his love hence pre marital sex at farm house and also she waited for him at the altar inspite of everyone saying he wont turn up. The Khushi we all know used to come different get ups like mami(to cheer payal), in nananji(to cheer nani). in modern dresses(to cheer Arnav) but never stooped this low like yesterday by dressing like a peon. The Khushi we all know is lost now that is all I can say.

They have lost the essence of both char.

So no comparison dat too based on past is justified.

Originally posted by: sarunfan4ever

Rima, I dont want to bring the comparison between Arnav what he did in past and Khushi but I can definitely say this is not the Khushi we all loved and used to feel her every emotion.
Im stil not out of the disaster of yesterday's episode. The Khushi we all know believes every person has some goodness in them and she had shown during lavanya track. The Khushi we all know trusted Shyam again and again inspite of being at fault and a criminal(after terrrace scene when he comes to know about anjali's pregnancy and during miscarriage). The Khushi we all know trusted in goodness of everyone(during Payash engagement Arnav's dialogues to Khushi when NK was staring at her back). The Khushi we all know trusted in Arnav and his love hence pre marital sex at farm house and also she waited for him at the altar inspite of everyone saying he wont turn up. The Khushi we all know used to come different get ups like mami(to cheer payal), in nananji(to cheer nani). in modern dresses(to cheer Arnav) but never stooped this low like yesterday by dressing like a peon. The Khushi we all know is lost now that is all I can say.

swaps this is not about that

Originally posted by: riti4u

No one comparing their deeds..but one is wrong that doesnt make other person right...you criticised arnav when he was wrong so why cant ppl criticise when khushi is wrong and if arnav was wrong at that time when he MU her then why khushi is not wrong here when supposedly they showed trust on each other during whole remarriage stuff show..where is belief that khushi had on arnav at that time that he will come... I have said arnav was wrong when he was wrong so why cnt ppl accept that khushi is wrong now...

because her wrong never hurts others or hates arnav

Originally posted by: riti4u

Indeed she made sacrifices and thats why we expect she shows that trust in her husband which she showed at mandap saying that Arnav will come...but here she is not confronting him directly instead making him believe that she trusts him and going on investigation behind his back...

sure she disbelieves him