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Posted: 12 years ago
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Actually the phase this serial is going through I am not keen on writing any post

Nor do I feel like defending any character as both are killed

But then when it is an issue of right versus wrong, it goes beyond the serial for me

People are on Khushi's case

How can she distrust her husband

How can she investigate?

How can she stoop so low?

And then comparisons with ASR's actions are coming up

Was he wrong?

Why was he crucified then?

Why not Khushi now?

My answers

Khushi distrusts true

But what does she do?

She investigates to find the truth

What did Arnav do?

He nailed her then and there

Arnav told the truth

She disbelieves

What does she do?

She makes herself miserable

Arnav called her characterless and pulled in her dead parents

Khushi adopts unfair means to do the investigation

She stoops low enough to read diaries of others

And sneak into an office

Wrong

Very wrong

But not for a moment did she take out her jealousy or anger on Arnav

What did Arnav do?

Blamed her without a benefit of doubt

Dragged her to the temple

Married her

And subjected her to months of torture without telling her the reason

So, I conclude Khushi is wrong in distrusting

But the wrong is only hurting her and she makes mistakes that harm no one only morality. With a child who looks and act like her husband, with a husband who confessed to a fling, she has reasons.

Arnav only believed on the basis of a hug and what he heard/. She has so much more reasons for distrust

She is at least trying to find the truth

Arnav was wrong in distrusting her

But his wrong resulted in hurt, pain and humiliation for Khushi

And he never even made the efforts to try and find the truth

Nor did he ask her for clarifications

Neither did he believe her when she begged himShe had to give the proof of her love by even trying to die for him

Arnav just gave her explanations and reassurance and finally anger

So, you see

Where is the comparison?

Khushi's mistakes cannot be compared at all

Both their mistakes are different

But if there is a comparison, Arnav loses hands down

PS: If you ask me the past is over. But when people are comparing Khushi's deeds and crucifying her
the past has to come back
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I'M THE FIRST, MY LUCKY DAY AFTER A DAY OF DISTRESS...

CONSEQUENCES OF DISTRUST FROM BOTH:
LET'S WEIGH THE BRUNT OF CONSEQUENCES DUE TO DISTRUSTING EACH OTHER, THOUGH THEY ARE SOUL MATES.

ARNAV'S DISTRUST AND ITS CONSEQUENCES:

Forced her into a Blackmail Marriage, which still not sure was Legal.
Used Physical Force to show his Distrust and Hatred.
Treated her worse than a Dog and made her sleep by the Pool.
Due to his Decision, she faced the Brunt if the whole Family from both Sides.
Due to his hasty Decision, she landed in RM and had to bear Shyam's lecherous advances.
She got slapped a few times because of him .
She lost trust of her Family .
She had no one on her side except herself until the kidnap track, NK was a blessing in disguise later.
She endured and worked with Shyam, which no woman has to endure to find Arnav.
She begged him to believe literally at his feet, but had to bear his hatred.
She had to deal with his sister's distrust also , because of Shyam and Arnav.

KHUSHI'S DISTRUST AND ITS CONSEQUENCES.
Arnav had to see the DNA Report, was unaware of it.
Arnav got to see more Sanak from Sanka Devi because of the Report.

He did not answer to anyone , anytime or anywhere to his Family about his decisions, this is a good thing for him . He now gets to flirt and do eye locks with his Ex and play me daddy, you sonny with the kid, and relive the past with the Ex.
And maybe a Rain Sequence from the movie they are now aping.

SO I CONCLUDE , HE ALMOST GOT AWAY WITH A, ALMOST BLOODY MURDER.







Edited by prabba - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I don't understand one thing...Why should comparisons come in the first place??!!

Then..what ASR did was horribly wrong..He saw Khushi in Shyam's arms..yet never bothered to see the real picture..whatever his reasons might be..

But then the same man let go off his past baggage entirely to marry Khushi..The same man believed Khushi without a single proof...

Again Khushi ...is wrong today...Her husband specifically points out he had nothing with Sheetal...yet she she cannot bring herself to trust him completely..Whatever might be her reasons..

A wrong is a wrong...Whoever does it..But the circumstances are a little different..Why should we compare??
Edited by sampin - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Damn straight. Someone needed to make this post and you did.
Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: sampin

I don't understand one thing...Why should comparisons come in the first place??!!


Then..what ASR did was horribly wrong..He saw Khushi in Shyam's arms..yet never bothered to see the real picture..whatever his reasons might be..

But then the same man let go off his past baggage entirely to marry Khushi..The same man believed Khushi without a single proof...

Again Khushi ...is wrong today...Her husband specifically points out he had nothing with Sheetal...yet she she cannot bring herself to trust her completely..Whatever might be her reasons..

A wrong is a wrong...Whoever does it..But the circumstances are a little different..Why should we compare??


Exactly! The circumstances were different then and now. 👍🏼
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Nice post...Tfs...
What i really don't understand is ,why another RM family member seem don't care to see the similarity between arnav and aarav...

Edited by Naz_nisar - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Rima Di - My take



Comparison is not possible in the case of IPKKND.



We can't compare these two characters at all..



Be it their way of leaving
Be it their way of thinking
Be it their way of dealing with Problems
Be it their way of dealing with Love/Hate




Comaprision will not prove anything concrete at all...




and these so called sadist writers suffers from Selective Amnesia..




They hardly remembers the PAST...




All this is HISTORY now...




They don't give a damn about it...




The only funda works with IPKKND these days -



Watch IPKKND without any sense..
Watch IPKKND as a single episode..
Watch IPKKND as a Comedy show..



Don't connect Episodes or Tracks or Past for the Justification of characters..



Edited by Ni1234 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Earlier their love was weak with no trust in it, now they love has become a rock and cemnted with the strongest element trust, so its very difficult at this stage for any kind of suspicion entering in either of their minds. Even if she finds any thing fishy, i feel she should have confided in Arnav, and they together could investigated the matter.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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i feel sorry for arnav ..for ..khushi...!!!!!but i feel more sorry for us...who loved a daily show more than our life!!!!feel really low after yesterday epi...
Edited by sanja_here - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I think, this is way too serious thing...if Khushi has doubt abt Arnav & Arav ARSHI should talk abt this openly...infact, I think Khushi should ask Arnav directly & demand for proofs abt this rather than investigating what is true, wht is not...She should have open the envelope bcoz she has every right to find out abt the truth...but I just don't like the way she is doing this...

Yes, Khushi is an angel compare to Arnav...Khushi always thinks abt other ppl happiness(including ASR), she sacrifices a lot bcoz of other ppl...she always does everything with a gud intention but it doesn't mean that those gud works had a gud ending...most of them was not...
what I understood...6months marriage was on ASR's hand...he emotionally blackmailed her & forced her to do that...but ending of that marriage was on Khushi's hand which she didn't even try...
Edited by outland_123 - 12 years ago

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