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Posted: 12 years ago
#61

Originally posted by: rima

sure she disbelieves him

she still does not have answers for why arnav is caring so much for sheetal
or for the fact that aarav behaves just like ASR
He is her husband
her world
she is scared


when did arnav started caring for sheethal??
if i remember correctly its kushi who got sheethal in to the house😕
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Posted: 12 years ago
#62

Originally posted by: neenaLUVarnav


when did arnav started caring for sheethal??
if i remember correctly its kushi who got sheethal in to the house😕

he is not wrong to care
she is a friend
but right now since she knows she is his ex
every word from him hurts
the nut allergy thing
the basket ball banter
everything
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Posted: 12 years ago
#63

Originally posted by: rima

because her wrong never hurts others or hates arnav

his wrong hurt and wounded her
that is why it is unacceptable for me
her wrong hurts her alone
and his wrong hurts her
that is the difference
it is about right vs wrong

why her wrong hurts her alone? she did DNA test without revealing to her husband about her insecurities, wont that husband be tormented to find out that her wife who trusted him or used to trust him actually is trying to still find truth even inspite of his declaring that he is not in any such relationship..he will be hurt 1000 times more...after all this is one girl who means world to him and whom he actually thought will understand him... and if his wrong hurts her...then he was more hurt than her for doing it ...it is about right vs wrong then apply this to both characters...
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Posted: 12 years ago
#64

Originally posted by: rima

he is not wrong to care

she is a friend
but right now since she knows she is his ex
every word from him hurts
the nut allergy thing
the basket ball banter
everything


Khushi is not such a weak charecter that words like nut allergy and some concern from Arnav makes her feel that he had a physical relation.
Edited by ipkkndfan21 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#65

Originally posted by: riti4u

why her wrong hurts her alone? she did DNA test without revealing to her husband about her insecurities, wont that husband be tormented to find out that her wife who trusted him or used to trust him actually is trying to still find truth even inspite of his declaring that he is not in any such relationship..he will be hurt 1000 times more...after all this is one girl who means world to him and whom he actually thought will understand him... and if his wrong hurts her...then he was more hurt than her for doing it ...it is about right vs wrong then apply this to both characters...

did she fight with him
did she insult him
she got it done to eliminate her dounts
any wife would considering
a woman turns up with a kid who talks and walks and acts like her husband
and the woman is an ex flame
heck any other woman would have opened the envelope
khushi did not
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Posted: 12 years ago
#66

Originally posted by: ipkkndfan21


Khushi is not such a weak charecter that words like nut allergy and some concern from Arnav makes her feel that he had a physical relation.

khushi is strong when it comes to problems
weak when it comes to bonds
everytime she breaks down
is when some relationship fails or hurts her
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Posted: 12 years ago
#67

Originally posted by: tia.o


Correction. He never told her that he never slept with Sheetal or anyone. He said that he and Sheetal were just dating. Now dating is a very vague term that doesn't indicate anything. Some people sleep together on a date, some people consider just going out is the end of dating. It all depends on people's perspective and their belief system.

Now Arnav was always a very liberal guy for whom live together or dating wasn't a big deal whereas Khushi was a very simple, old fashioned girl who never went on a date before marriage.

So how would she know what dating really means unless clearly explained? Granted, she should have asked what is the true meaning of date as per Arnav. But this doesn't take away the fact that knowing Khushi's background, Arnav should have explained clearly.


I apologize ... I did not hear that dialogue properly i guess...But even if Arnav said he never slept with Sheetal, will Khushi trust him??? I think No...Because still Khushi is haunted by Aarav's behaviour... For her that is more important than her trust in ASR...That is how it is being portrayed fron past few days...

After going in to the store room and picking up the photo, Khushi did say something like Maybe Arnav forgot being with Sheetal ..Something of that sort...And then the diary reading thing ...

For me, this track has so much more potential...I am only irked by the comedy ... Is it necessary to show comedy every time??? Was Khushi so sanki when it came to revealing Shyam??? That was her SIL's husband...Now this is about an ex -GF...Cant they show some the same investigation things in a nicer way??? In a more acceptable way>??Dressing up as peon and serving tea to teachers...All this is over my head...

And mind you, i am not bashing Khushi...I am only frustrated with the writers for portraying her like this...
Edited by chennaigirl - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#68
Wonderful post Rima!! Couldn't agree with you more! 👏 There can be no comparisons to what Khushi's doing now and what Arnav did then because if we did then Arnav would lose hands down like you said.
That's the reason most of us outraged with what Arnav did then and though we might disapprove what Khushi's doing now we're still not realy angry with her.
As for me, I can only reminisce the ASR and Khushi of 'once upon a time'. Nothing more than that because both the characters have been ruined. Bas.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#69

Originally posted by: rima

he is not wrong to care

she is a friend
but right now since she knows she is his ex
every word from him hurts
the nut allergy thing
the basket ball banter
everything


kushi is just overacting nothing more than that di!!!!!
she has the habit of assuming things and take decisions for others ...
and still now i am waiting for one scene where arnav words hurt her soo much or make her insecure(sheethal matter)
and nut allergy thing seriously?
i dont think there is nothing serious about it!!
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Posted: 12 years ago
#70
BTW I'm loving Tia's and your arguments over here Rima! Completely agree! 😃

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