Distrust vs Distrust - Page 8

Originally posted by: rima

khushi is strong when it comes to problems

weak when it comes to bonds

everytime she breaks down

is when some relationship fails or hurts her

it abt trusting arnav above all things, Arnav has made it very clear that she was jst a GF, so why she chooses to distrust him? and believe in some random things like, diary and snaps. their relationship has not failed nither is arnav betraying her, he is jst concerned abt sheetal that's it. Khushi is the one who understands arnav even without words. and now that they are husband and wife they should share their anxiety, pain, joy, happiness with each other rather than do things behind the back

Originally posted by: rima

did she fight with him

did she insult him

she got it done to eliminate her dounts

any wife would considering

a woman turns up with a kid who talks and walks and acts like her husband

and the woman is an ex flame

heck any other woman would have opened the envelope

khushi did not

I disagree .. when he asks her about report - she could have told him clearly about her fears but instead she says "bas aise hi" and it is true she teared those reports...I wud have loved if she wud have kept the faith in arnav after that but again going further on investigation..and no wife will behave in such manner..if faced with such things..Getting DNA test without any information of both parties concerned is not that common rima...I know you have soft spot fr khushi as I have for arnav thus I understand ur sympathy with her..but dont be so partial in ur views that u cnt even accept the fact that khushi's character has been messed up by writers this time

absolutely spot in naz. i think the cvs shud have anjali and naani question asr direct and acknowledge khushis pain. so fa naani has been shown to have sense

Originally posted by: riti4u

I disagree .. when he asks her about report - she could have told him clearly about her fears but instead she says "bas aise hi" and it is true she teared those reports...I wud have loved if she wud have kept the faith in arnav after that but again going further on investigation..and no wife will behave in such manner..if faced with such things..Getting DNA test without any information of both parties concerned is not that common rima...I know you have soft spot fr khushi as I have for arnav thus I understand ur sympathy with her..but dont be so partial in ur views that u cnt even accept the fact that khushi's character has been messed up by writers this time

superb ritu!!!
even if we imagine we are in kushi place(tough but still) i will ask him directly and if the reports are in my hand i will open it and clear the things!!!
i wont tell him i trust u and go behind his back!!!!

comparison is baseless here

Originally posted by: riti4u

I disagree .. when he asks her about report - she could have told him clearly about her fears but instead she says "bas aise hi" and it is true she teared those reports...I wud have loved if she wud have kept the faith in arnav after that but again going further on investigation..and no wife will behave in such manner..if faced with such things..Getting DNA test without any information of both parties concerned is not that common rima...I know you have soft spot fr khushi as I have for arnav thus I understand ur sympathy with her..but dont be so partial in ur views that u cnt even accept the fact that khushi's character has been messed up by writers this time

Originally posted by: sampin

I don't understand one thing...Why should comparisons come in the first place??!!

Then..what ASR did was horribly wrong..He saw Khushi in Shyam's arms..yet never bothered to see the real picture..whatever his reasons might be..

But then the same man let go off his past baggage entirely to marry Khushi..The same man believed Khushi without a single proof...

Again Khushi ...is wrong today...Her husband specifically points out he had nothing with Sheetal...yet she she cannot bring herself to trust him completely..Whatever might be her reasons..

A wrong is a wrong...Whoever does it..But the circumstances are a little different..Why should we compare??

Originally posted by: riti4u

why her wrong hurts her alone? she did DNA test without revealing to her husband about her insecurities, wont that husband be tormented to find out that her wife who trusted him or used to trust him actually is trying to still find truth even inspite of his declaring that he is not in any such relationship..he will be hurt 1000 times more...after all this is one girl who means world to him and whom he actually thought will understand him... and if his wrong hurts her...then he was more hurt than her for doing it ...it is about right vs wrong then apply this to both characters...

Originally posted by: ASR4eva

Hi Ritu..None of us told that Khushi's character hasn't been ruined. Actually most of us agree that we don't see the fiery Khushi her because she would have been better.

And as for Arnav, I disagree with you. Yes, it's true that Khushi should have asked him more straight-forward. But it happens with all of us sometimes doesn't it? We're just not able to ask the person what we want to because we feel it would hurt them. And that's why she tried everything in her hand to find out about this thing without anyone actually getting to know of her true intentions.

Also, when she asked Arnav, I feel any person would have realized what she wanted to ask but Arnav didn't. I mean when a wife asks about your past fling with soo much interest and keeps asking you what all you used to do with her then there would be a reason behind it and the reason is quite clear in my opinion. So Khushi being a SP Bahu couldn't state the word so clearly but Arnav being a very liberal guy and not caring about these things should have understood.

On top of that even his characterization has been ruined. We were all told that he never believed in love before he met Khushi but what did he tell her? 'We dated but then realized it wasn't love so we parted'. Now what do we think of that? Even us as viewers would be doubtful and Khushi is his wife. I feel she has all the right to be suspicious given such mixed signals. 😊

See one thing I agree is yes arnav's characterisation is ruined and that is bcoz he is shown to mellowed down these days but as far as sheetal thing is concerned,you have to admit this is poor execution of track. You know interestingly I might be biased Arnav fan for you but last week I enjoyed khushi's antics as that was harmless and indeed thats who she is ...but last night..this is same woman who have always stood for right and justice,isnt it..if she distrusts arnav,then why not confront and clarify..what bothers most of us and you see so many posts on the same, is her saying in front of arnav that she trusts him but again going on investigation after that...it is understandable to have doubt dear and get possesive of ur husband..I will be hell lot jealous..but making this whole thing as fun and not taking this as serious thing is hampering seriousness of issue..She has every right to be suspicious but it is how she is dealing with that suspicion is cause of concern...Anyways.. it is poor writing that we are arguing on...so will rest my case..hope we get some sense back in tracks to come...

Originally posted by: sunitas123

I think here I need to butt in and say yes comparison is required. Why do people keep harping on the fact that arnav beleived khushi without proof? Well, did he? He mistrusted her for 6 months, he saw how she behaved around sham, she was always oblivious to him othe rthan the medicine incident! he saw what her upbringing was in GH, there too he saw a wrapper and did not for one minute think if sham's name on a wrapper is in GH, that means buaji and all may know sham! then whe went about manhandling her. then after the kidnapping when she nearly died for him, what more proof is required??/

dont u think there is difference between arnav n kushi and that time and this time??
are they in love that time??
no
and now the situation is different...
and about the kidnapping i can also say that he is KIDNAPPED becoz of kushi..if she dint take his signatures than he wouldn't be in that situation and NEARLY dead!!!!