Why girls defend ASR (ASR not BS).. - Page 2

Originally posted by: love_arhi

SAD THEY WILL NEVER UNDERSTAND THE WORDS BETWEEN REEL AND REAL🥱

BTW nice post , it was REALLY needed

Originally posted by: LadyLaLa

A very good post Sonapari.. They have jaded eye sight which makes it difficult for them to differentiate between fact and fiction.. Phati mentality is how I would term it 😆

Any girl worth her salt could see Khushi's pain... When I joint this forum I too was surprised to see members who were old enough to be my mother drooling over an actor and openly bashing those supporting Khushi or daring to voice their opinion against ASR.. one such member was Anu.. poor girl was bashed left, right and cente

Derogatory names were used on Khushi Yet, those who were doing the wonderful job of moderating this forum decided to turn a blind eye to then.. It was pure dictatorship till a few of us started posting in favour of Khushi...

I am glad people like Anu (god bless her soul), Rima, Swathi, Tia, Vibha, Priyank and many more stood up to the challenge to write against the sadistic behaviour of ASR..

Leave alone the teenagers, even ASR's mom would not be pleased to see what his son was up to.. if she was alive, she would have disowned him... She would have told him that he was no better than his father which is what Naani told him one day..

Originally posted by: aviation-ca

OK, don't bash me please.. I am not defending ASR..but a serious attempt to explain this

ASR is a type of male personality.. if you think this personality does not exist, you are mistaken.. they like to be in control, usually like things happening in their way, think their viewpoint is final & get upset if events deviate out of control...have a huge pride...

Then there is Barun.. (again, I don't know him obviously) garnished from interviews etc... he is very relaxed, jovial, gets along with everyone.. almost dead opposite..

A while back there was a thread about who you want as your husband, ASR or Barun.. my take was,..

if you want ASR, be prepared to be the one to comprise, more flexible.. be prepared to make him #1 in your life.. not your family, not your friends... he has to be your priority.. if this is not you, don't wish for it..

if you want a hubby who is sociable... who can accept not being your only priority... who can occasinaly take a back seat.. let you drive (figuratively) where your family, friends become his family & friends.. wish for Barun..

Now the question.. why does the forum love ASR even while he is mistreating Khushi??? Simple reason.. in spite of all his faults.. Khushi loves him.. she sees some redeeming value.. his whole family loves him.. she didn't fall for him, she fell despite him... she saw his gentelness and love for his sister, for the little girl.. for herself whenever she was in trouble.. she was the only one who saw through the facade of ASR into the soul of Arnav..

and all of us women, at some corner of our heart love to heal a broken spirit.. we want to make it all better...

So do you not think he is worth having after Khushi broke through his barriers... because once ASR type of personality loves, they love with the uncomparable intensity..

Please don't get me wrong.. I am sure Barun loves his real wife very much.. but in their relationship.. (again this is just speculation.. since I dont' know either.. just what I have read/heard)... she will have a driver seat... he is just along for a ride..

Originally posted by: sonapari

Thanks yaar...

But i didn't get answer ...no one has told me qualities which impress them so much that khushi's pain is invisible to them...

Mind you I am talking about ASR & not BS...

May be looks,sunglasses,style are enough to make a guy hot or cool...

I so wish noone gets in a relationship with an abusive guy...

Originally posted by: love_arhi

Welll i just wish tht they think like u n u now they will not open a post against ASR 😳

Originally posted by: sonapari

So according to you...khushi loves him so that's why girls defend him too...😲

But dear khushi is a fictional character...girls in this forum are real human beings...

So are you saying that girls will fall for ruthless,abusive,heartless guy...

I AM SO GLAD I AM NOT ONE OF THEM...

Then if khushi love him despite him being ASR ...who should all girls defend then?

IF a girl like khushi can love a guy like ASR ...then all girls in this world should fall for khushi..😉.

BS is a sweet guy...he himself says "asr khadoos hai"...

But if we say the same thing...we are called bashers by BS fans...😆