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Posted: 13 years ago
#91

Originally posted by: bong.girl



DKS, firstly I love your user id. It is awesome! 😆
Secondly, you would be amazed to see the figures. There are many women in India who tolerate much worse than what is being portrayed in the show. They tolerate it day in and day out. They do it for years. Without complain. The figures are astounding. And it is not just in rural India, but it is more so in the urban cities. the middle Class women who are educated. the pressure of the society is such, the stigma all this often becomes too much and they end up living a life worse than death .In fact, Death would have been more welcome.

India has a male dominated society. Here might is right. So the men are always right.

Loved the underlined words
and if anyone dares question the right then they will be squashed
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Posted: 13 years ago
#92
amazing post! I completely agree. What's wrong with wanting some justice and acknowledgement for Arnav's actions? Being able to say sorry and have a real conversation, especially when it is a difficult thing to do is redemption. Arnav is capable of it and Khushi deserves it.
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Posted: 13 years ago
#93

Originally posted by: Rockerchic

As it's often said Chocolate says "I'm sorry" so much better than words.

I see I'm sorry- When he stands up for her.
I see I'm sorry When he holds her hand when he sleeps.
I see I'm sorry- When he goes out of the way from his hi-fi life and gets her what she likes
I see I'm sorry- When he told her she can do what she wants
I see I'm sorry- When says he wants to see her smile.
I see I'm sorry- When he shares his dark past with no one except her.

It's perspective. We can agree to disagree. 😊

this is for the present
we are talking about the past...when the past is there it casts a shadow...just like asr's past is casting on him
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Posted: 13 years ago
#94
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Posted: 13 years ago
#95
Might is always right. For example, in the forum itself, if you try to sail against the tide, you end up being labelled as a "basher" and they would even go as far as getting your thread closed. Why? Because you dared to speak against the might of the majority.

I quoted few lines from Elizabeth Browning's sonnet, "How Do i Love Thee?" My favourite is "Porphyria's Lover".

The madness, the obsession... leaves me gasping every time I read it.
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Posted: 13 years ago
#96

Originally posted by: Rockerchic

As it's often said Chocolate says "I'm sorry" so much better than words.

I see I'm sorry- When he stands up for her.
I see I'm sorry When he holds her hand when he sleeps.
I see I'm sorry- When he goes out of the way from his hi-fi life and gets her what she likes
I see I'm sorry- When he told her she can do what she wants
I see I'm sorry- When says he wants to see her smile.
I see I'm sorry- When he shares his dark past with no one except her.

It's perspective. We can agree to disagree. 😊


Then what about when he called her a home Wrecker. Can i know what u saw there friend
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Posted: 13 years ago
#97

Originally posted by: bong.girl



DKS, firstly I love your user id. It is awesome! 😆
Secondly, you would be amazed to see the figures. There are many women in India who tolerate much worse than what is being portrayed in the show. They tolerate it day in and day out. They do it for years. Without complain. The figures are astounding. And it is not just in rural India, but it is more so in the urban cities. the middle Class women who are educated. the pressure of the society is such, the stigma all this often becomes too much and they end up living a life worse than death .In fact, Death would have been more welcome.

India has a male dominated society. Here might is right. So the men are always right.

Hey thanx for the compliment.

Yes I keep myself updated with the facts and figures, I know what women go through. It can be so scary at times to even hear what they have gone through and this is the sole reason I want Arnav to say at least a few meaningful and emotional words to seek forgiveness.

I am mad at the PH as they are sending the wrong message that one can be tortured in the name of love.

In india the women feel that husband is God, hence whatever he does is right. It is one of the major reasons why there are very few complaints relating to domestic abuse.

Why i get the same feeling when seeing the show?
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Posted: 13 years ago
#98

Originally posted by: bong.girl

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Might is always right. For example, in the forum itself, if you try to sail against the tide, you end up being labelled as a "basher" and they would even go as far as getting your thread closed. Why? Because you dared to speak against the might of the majority.

I quoted few lines from Elizabeth Browning's sonnet, "How Do i Love Thee?" My favourite is "Porphyria's Lover".

The madness, the obsession... leaves me gasping every time I read it.


Heyaaa I am Basher then 🥳
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Posted: 13 years ago
#99

Originally posted by: rima

this is for the present
we are talking about the past...when the past is there it casts a shadow...just like asr's past is casting on him



I don't understand. Please do elaborate.

see I'm sorry- When he stands up for her. (For all the times he's siad 'koi ameyat nahi)
I see I'm sorry When he holds her hand when he sleeps. (For all the times he's pushe her away)
I see I'm sorry- When he goes out of the way from his hi-fi life and gets her what she likes. (For all the times he's insulted her about her lower economic status.)
I see I'm sorry- When he told her she can do what she wants. (For all the time he's asked her to Get Out!)
I see I'm sorry- When says he wants to see her smile. (For all time he made her cry.)
I see I'm sorry- When he shares his dark past with no one except her. (For all the times he he spoke harshly to her.


RC LOVES a debate.


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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: JohnySolomonRaj

Di sorry for disturbing the serious discussion 😆, do visit Sanaya's birthday preparation thread, sorry for advertising here



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