Today's Episode Was Right On So Many Levels - Page 15

Originally posted by: memyselfandrshi

Whatever his intentions, he is taking husband wife issues beyond the bedroom. What did he expect, he created opportunity for her public humiliation. I don't think good intentions can justify that.

Nonetheless ur analysis is good, I commented on it wen u posted on Rima post, its very well written conveys ur pov completely.

Originally posted by: serialjunkie

Khushi is a dimwit ditzy floozie

ASR's figured it out and making her jump like a langoor.

And he has bought everyone into the plan to treat khushi like langoor because guess what everybody knows KHUSHI IS A LANGOOR

Aur langoor keeps jumping around, Bol Jamooray, Dumrooo baja!!

wow, love story ho tho aisi.

Originally posted by: tangam

in responce to your request and putting my self in her shoes (ermmm not an excercise i like to indulge in...yet for arguments sake)...i cannot remove certain parts of me be it feminist or not...so me whole woman that i am...am totally inlove with mr man (i dont know why...cos i see nothin endearing...but keepin with story and the age ol adege that love is blind)...

he and me have had this torrid relationship of rubbing each other the woring way..connecting on some really personla experieinces...our world view different...our ways of life...dispite it all we find each other only to be broken apart by a third person and a flimsy reason where he tortures me...without giving me a reason..throws my relationships in my face forces me to marry him ...throwing what makes me in my face...is inhumane to me and breaks my all...then even in the face of a confession...he does not believe me...then the man goes missing and my humaneness and my love dispite all only sees that it is life and death and i fight tooth and nail to get hime back...he has declared his luv which i did not fully buy...but we make it through a horrendous period bonding us further...then in the face of a total collapse he there and i am there for him...but again he falls back to the old anger and taunts me...the taunts tho laced witht he reality so i choose to distance myself for the good of both of us and his family...

He and me need to talk...u mention the gazebo where he apologised...one of my best scenes to date..subtle and yet hits home...his understanding of his worng and his emotions so well played...and then they were mere humans and barely aquainted...yet that was touching..now the need is even more for he love her and is married her and she stands at crossroads he created for her...

True every relationship needs a lighter side...that what endears us to each other...that usually happens in the falling in love , courting days...the small fights the one upmanship...that is what keeps the relationship going as well...

that is a leisure enjoyed by those secure in a relationship...where u are playfull in the knowledge that the other is there for you and that u dont carry the wight of unknown...dangers...of daggers...

this would be great if thier past was sorted out...they now return to woo each other...

i would have enjoyed this if thiers was a normal marriage...then of a nonsensical tiff Khushi goes home and now he is wooing (albeit his defintion) her back...

Originally posted by: tamannausa

Wow!!! so far the best explanation. wonderfully described the emotions and place them accordingly. I agree with you almost 99%. (except the inclusion of romance which they could put anytime and make things more "chewey") Thanks for the elaboration of mind and thought process. Please write more. COOL!!!

Originally posted by: rima

eeps maverick look at the response you are getting i am proud of you! i am taking a peek at it to see what the responses are. the mother syndrome aint going away

Originally posted by: tiya229

I think all of this stuff is building "friendship" between the two -- they are now playing with each other, taunting, challenging, pulling each other's leg etc etc. This is building that fundamental relationship -- remember, wife and husband relationship is not just about "warm cuddly" moments -- a man will DIE if all he can do with his wife is "warm cuddly" stuff with constant attention to be paid to "real sensitivity" -- He should be allowed to be himself because the WIFE needs to understand that MEN are not all CUDDLY all the time. He is establishing a mode of communication with her. YEP he knows that he screwed up -- before you yell at me, you know I watch the show for Khushi. But Khushi is now learning to be with a man who wants that playful fun relationship with his wife that he got accustomed to. She needs to trust in their love and play along -- that LOVE is what is being established now.

the problem is that there is no balance of power between them. all things said and done, Khushi in her WILDEST dreams cant hit ASR where it hurts, whereas he can, in phone call, make her homeless.

so, trusting this man, is out of the question. Loving him a distant dream.

@underline: Khushi ruined his night's sleep. Big f**k! But the next day, he wants her to pay up another 24000 or come to RM. No equality there. All the taunting is done by him, and the curveballs are thrown at her.

The "Nok jhok" of this calibre would be more enjoyable and funny, if they were atleast on the same footing.

Originally posted by: .Ghausia.

I agree with certain aspects of your post and disagree with others. That sounds like such a cop-out; I don't sit on the fence often, honest!
With the comedy, I'm just getting a bit of a laugh out of it. I'm not actually looking at it from the perspective that Arnav is using it to 'woo' her. Yes, the gift wrapping thing was funny but I found it irritating too. I couldn't help but want to stick that mug where the sun don't shine when Arnav presented it to her. But it's not too bad. Although I wasn't a fan of the whole office encounter. So hopefully that sort of describes my mixed feelings!