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"In battle, in the forest, at the precipice in the mountains, On the dark great sea, in the midst of javelins and arrows, In sleep, in confusion, in the depths of shame, The good deeds a man has done before defend him"



"A man's own self is his friend. A man's own self is his foe."


"The faith of each is in accordance with one's own nature."


We have been told, O Krishna, that people whose family traditions are destroyed necessarily dwell in hell for a long time.


"Hypocrisy, arrogance, pride, anger, harshness, and ignorance; these are the marks of those who are born with demonic qualities, O Arjuna."

Bhagavad Gita



My feelings regarding the characters when I saw them today !!



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Two are better than one,

if one falls down one can lift up another.
On Friday I had written my heart felt with Anjali bcz in matter of hrs, her beautiful picture perfect world has crashed and anywife in her position even who is practical will also not believe without proofs so a wife like Anjali how will she accept it.
Her whole world lies on the illusion of a loving marriage & loving husband, she hides from ugly realities of her past and she will not let that illusion slip from her hands that easily.
The episode today started with Arnav throwing Shyam out and confirming the facts which khushi has said earlier and for Anjali that was the final hammer on her glass world, bcz until Arnav had not uttered & acted on Khushi words, she had a option on denying them, rejecting them but with Arnav, the finality came that somewhere all that was being told had truth to it and she crumbled.
Anjali when she wakes up the family surrounds her and all worried for her well being, Arnav the brother wants to console her but nani questions him and he agrees to quell all the doubts, he lies down in her lap and tells her abt the reaction and the need, he is like a child who feels guilty after commiting the errors, Brilliant FB's of happy days for Anjali with interseped with the reality, a cold dash of reality cutting thru her.

I have had four happy days in my life,
and three of them turned out to be illusions.
Taylor Caldwell
for her she had wanted a ideal world , a dotting brother and a loving husband, both following her wishes to the word and tonite all went awash, the brother for whom her words were like gods word is standing apart from her and the husband is crook, all her illusions hv sharp edges which are poking her, hurting her tonite, how can she let go all in one go...
Khushi has been sitting outside the room of Anjali, soaked in guilt, she has always wanted to avoid such aftermath, she had escaped this ugliness and sacrificed herself for this, she had nvr wanted to bring out shaym's truth like that, she witnessed today the pain of Chotte,,, to Arnav, the journey filled with pain.
What a contrast between two ladies, one khushi an orphan who escapes the ugliness and keeps spreading smiles and when the Ugliness of truth hurts her world she fights, Other Anjali who is again a orphan like khushi, who has the world at her feet with a d0tting brother, when ugly truth hurts world, she crumbles.
An illusioned Anjali needs time to recover and she puts Arnav out her thoughts and she pulls and sends him out, once again we see mami the surrogate mother for Anjali, when she shuts the world out and closes the door, mami who has witnessed the slow crumbling world in phases and is worried like a mother she keeps asking her wellbeing and anji keeps shutting.
Anjali standing by the potrait and crying, Unable & unwanting to accept the truth
" Hum Aapke bina jee nahi payenge"
There are only two mistakes one can make along the road to truth;
not going all the way, and not starting.
Buddha

Payal and Akash hv been bound together by love and a marriage but their relation is getting strain and the biggest blow has come tonite for not saying the truth when the realtion started or shyam's truth came out and today we see both Khushi & Payal facing the brunt one khushi bcz she has started with the truth but had stopped in midway, her emotions coming in way and Payal who never started with Truth on Shyam, A truth which has rocked the foundations of RM tonite.
NK the silent specatator of Khushi's crusade and the aftermath it has left, hope the Krishna by the Khushi will hv more to do, he will be there to mend the broken bridges & rebuild the realtions, Poignant.
Loved ,mami and nani supporting each other and shouldering the burden of pain together, they two hv never been cordial/warm relationship but hv been there for each other and tonite when their child in pain they stand united. Once before we had got a glimpse of this bond during payal akash realtionship when nani had said, mami has a golden heart..
Loved Payal talking to Akash abt the truth and he rejects, she is shattered yet she wipes her tears and hugs a crumbling, scared Khushi, SI was brilliant in this here where she is scared, guilty unsure.
When payal hugged her it felt like she found her lighthouse in the strom... loved it.

A loving heart is the truest wisdom.
Charles Dickens
Arnav when he reaches his room crushed, he had nvr imagined such a a aftermath & such pain for his Di, but somewhere he knows the rightness of his action tonite bcz he knows he still has saved his sister and her baby from the worst, he cannnot trurt a man like shyam again, he has witnessed the depth of negativity of shyam in combined efforts of Khushi.
and I loved abslty the next scene my personal moment,
Later at night when Khushi comes from the bathroom, her eyes search for Arnav, they go left, they go right and she doesnt find him, for a moment her hearbeat stops, she is scared, she keeps the towel and moves and finds Arnav by the pool side

All my life, my heart has yearned for a thing I cannot name.
Andre Breton
She stands behind him, seeing him fighting his own battles, she knows the cost of those battles n she remembers Arnav standing by her, her emotions overflow her heart and her face carrying the rainbow of emotions here, the servant gets the tea, and a hesistant unsure Khushi moves towards Arnav, the doubt, the guilt, the overwhelming emotions, Arnav feels her presence, gulps collects himself and waits for her, her trembling hands bear testimony to the chaos in her, he knows he has to be with her, collect her, tonite he understands her for not coming with truth intially, he looks to her picks the tea and unsure she turns, he takes the step, holds her, unsure she moves towards him, looks into the eyes and this love, this trust, accepatance what she has yearned all her life, unconditional & absolute breaks all the boundaries for her, she hugs hims with all her might, lost in the despair of the moment he is the soothing lamp. Arnav is surprised with the force of her, unsure a lot of emotions pass throught him, the guilt in doubting her, not standing by her, protecting her all in all and when he hugs her with the promise of protecting her cherishing her, he then cups her face, removes the hair and look into hereyes building assurance, building promise, I would hv abslty loved it had he placed a kiss on forehead, seal the assurance and then he carries her, tucks her in and moves and she holds his hand, khushi has willingly caught hold of him, binding her and Arnav with trust, love force, promise need everything, notice the small expression here gives, he is agn shocked for himself Khushi Reaching out for him, he sits by her assures her and placea loving hand by her , he removes the hair and looks into her eyes. they hv truly accepted each other, left the past behind with flaws & A Promise, A Assurance and Finally she sleeps. Truly soulmates.
A poetry tonite for romance takers, abslty beautiful no words no writings justify what we saw toady 6.5 mins of beauty conveyed beautiful through Eyes
👏👏👏👏 Team IPK for a wonderful episode.
BS & SI⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
Lovely Mami & Nani..😃
A relief for our eyes, A groomed decent looking Arnav😉
Dedication to Khushi & Arnav Singh Raizada
Relationship is not about finding the right person but creating the right relationship... Its not how much we CARE in the beginning but how much we CARE till the very END
A beautiful Journey ...
Edited by Jhalak29 - 13 years ago
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No pointers for today's episode!!
I loved the episode.. as CVs did nt fast forward the Friday story..

They are showing the effect that SHAYAM has over the family!!

All members are broken... the trust, faith, love they had for Shyam is suddenly under serious charges and questions!!

Even Arnav's decision is not accepted whole heartedly by the family members.

I loved Arnav's dialogue..."I trust khushi"... I so loved that dialogue!!😳

Naani being a reasonable person...has her doubts over both Shyam and Arnav but is not able to decide until Arnav talks.. hopefully that wll happen as per precap!!

Akash... well I am loving this track! Payal has to face the heat now!!

NK, another charecter I loved... he is feeling so helpless in the situation!!.. poor baby!! bekaar mein phaas gaya😆

Maami... she too is hell broken...I felt very emotional when she broke down in Naani's lap... Its not because of Shyam entirely, it was because of Anji, whom she loves as her own daughter and can not see her hurt!!

Now comes Arnav-Anji-Khushi!!

[All triangle lovers must have noticed the triangle in y-day episode...Anji sitting...arnav below her.. khushi was above Anji but sits, so comes to level with Arnav...and traingle forms...Anji at apex...showing the deciding factor... and Arnav-Khushi becomes the base...rest triangle lovers decide😆.]

I loved the scene when Arnav was searching console/solace in Anji, after the stream of events and his major decision!! But unfortunately could not find that!!😭
I also liked how Anji is slowly moving towards greyer shade.she only remembers the loss she had.. and not the pain Arnav was going thru...maami wll probably work towards putting ghee in the aaag😕

Arnav found the same console/solace with Khushi later.
He trusted her... and even though Khushi too was emotionally drained with the stream of events... she had in her mind, that Arnav might get angry with her.. due to the sudden change of equation between Anji and Arnav... but that did not happened.. these two understood each other perfectly, Arnav, did not / could not let Khushi go... he stopped her ! Both became each other's support in this difficult situation!!
I loved the silence between them... no talks, no dialogues.. just acceptance!!
Acceptance of trust/faith/love/need for each other!! One of the best rabba ve.. for me



Enjoy the two song pick!!

The BG score of episode

[YOUTUBE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Je6CPJ8wkWc[/YOUTUBE]


My choice of Song pick for the episode

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For the entire Raizada Clan:

"If you say you can trust someone then you are admitting to something even greater than love. Trust involves all your thoughts and emotions to be given to someone so they can have. Trusting someone is knowing that you can be hurt so bad that none can even know. This is why trust is a word of great power."


Today the trust of many were broken.. And one was formed... The above quote is valid for both situations...

SHYAM MANOHAR JHA was an epitome of trust.. A person who was respected and trusted above all by everyone.. A person believed to be fair, loving, mature, sensible. Trust-worthy, selfless.. A person treated by all like GOD.. A person who could do no wrong.. A person who was always looked upon.. A person who was called upon to diffuse the ticking time bombs in Raizada family.. A person who could convince ASR when needed.. A person who could make you believe every word that comes out of his mouth because he had such a sweet and convincing voice.. Because he did and showed exactly what you wanted to see and believe..

Today what they saw shook everyone to their cores.. A person who never spoke a word out of line to anyone.. A person who NEVER EVER thought ill of others.. A person who was not vicious at all..

Today he was accused of 2 hideous crimes..

1. Kidnapping and attempting to kill their SON..Arnav Singh Raizada

2. Adultery.. cheating on his wife.. Anjali Jha

His character was put under question by the very girl who is so truthful, who has no clue how to deceive others.. The accusations were mountainous.. There were no proofs.. Only the volley of words between them.. On one hand we have Shyam Manohar jha who has the ability to convince everyone that NIGHT IS DAY' and the Other hand we have Khuhsi Kumari Gupta Singh Raizada who has proven time and again her love and respect for this family and its members.. Who has won their hearts again and again with her brilliance of character, and purity of heart in such a short time..

Who is to be believed?? How can they accept that their LOVING damaad was capable of such deeds' At the same time, How can they accept that a person with such moral values like Khushi can stoop so low as to actually try to trap a married man, when all of them are aware how much she loves Arnav..

They saw a very DIFFERENT side to him.. They saw him ill mouthing a girl whom everyone appreciated for the depth of her rock solid values.. A girl whose purity, innocence, maturity, big heart has not been missed by anyone.. A person who was always persistent in her efforts to make others happy.. A girl who valued relations and wellbeing of others above herself.. A girl who wanted everyone to be happy..

They waited with baited breaths when that girl appealed to her husband to trust her.. And TRUST HER, He did.. He threw the accused out of the house..

And told Everyone..

" I trust Khushi.. I have full faith that whatever she is saying is all true"

"If you say you can trust someone then you are admitting to something even greater than love.Trust involves all your thoughts and emotions to be given to someone so they can have. Trusting someone is knowing that you can be hurt so bad that none can even know. This is why trust is a word of great power."


One journey of trust began.. Arnav's and Khushi's
One journey of trust ended.. Shyam's and the Raizada's excluding Anjali
One journey of trust is trying to sustain.. Anjali's and Shyam's..

Arnav and Khushi
They found love when there was ONLY hatred.. They FOUND TRUST in midst of all the MISTRUST.. They learned that they could rely on each other.. They protected, shielded and safe guarded each other..
Arnav protected Khushi from Shyam's advances.. Khushi protected Arnav from Shyam's plan to harm him.. They depended on the other to save them..
And their TRUST in each other in believing that the other will always be there shines like a STAR..⭐️⭐️

Shyam and Family
Their son stood with his wife today and told that he believes whatever she said is true.. For them his words are a confirmation of their worst fears since the fingers were pointed at Shyam..
They believed in their DAMAAD.. But they have much more faith in their son.. They know that he will NEVER hurt his family like this.. NEVER hurt his DI like this..
Each member of the family broke down completely after learning the TRUTH of SHYAM MANOHAR JHA.. The foundations of their trust were shaken..

A person who resided in their hearts.. who ruled their lives.. In reality had such monstrous ambitions.. He brought SORROWS to the most important people of the family and possibly a third one too...

He broke Anjali's heart, Tried to kill Arnav and misbehaved with Khushi.. They saw today, what he was capable of.. How much he can lie.. How much he can manipulate. how much he can twist the words of other..

Anjali and Shyam
He was the SUN of her UNIVERSE.. He was her support through thick and thin.. He was the one she turned to for Everything.. He made her smile.. He made her laugh.. He was the one she loved with all her heart.. He never let her down.. He made her believe that she lived in his heart.. He gave her love in which she nourished.. He gave her love and care which she cherished.. He gave her dreams.. He made her every dream come true.. He was her GOD.. He could do NO WRONG..

And today he was accused of infidelity.. accused of harming one person whom she loves almost as much as him.. Her CHOTTE.. How can she believe them?? How can she accept this is the truth? How can her trust in him and the sanctity of their marriage break so easily??? How can she let one incidence disapprove everything they shared? She is not so weak..

She will not let him go.. For she cannot live without him.. She is incomplete without him..

Rabba vey!!

What a beautiful scene?? They talked and talked.. Without words.. Their eyes spoke volumes... It was all in their eyes.. The love.. the regret.. the pain.. the trust.. The longing..

They understood each other's pain and loss... Khushi understood how Anjali's words must have hurt Arnav.. Arnav understood how today's events must have hurt Khushi.. How seeing everyone in pain would have affected her..

He understood her reasons for being quiet about the truth in the first place.. He saw with his own eyes, what she was trying to protect HIS family from..

There was a silent apology and acceptance..

He needed her today.. Once under the effect of bhaang he stopped her from leaving his side... But today he is fully aware of what this girl means to him.. How she has always been there for him and his family.. How much he needs he by his side..

He asks her to stay by his side..She understands him and accepts his offer.. They HUG each other in desperation, in love and in pain.. Promising each other to be always there for each other.. To be the SUPPORT in difficult times..

He picks her up and puts her to bed, tucks her in.. He knows how exhausted and emotionally drained she must be.. She was hurt and needs rest.. As he gets up... she holds him back.. He sits by her side.. Caressing her face.. Savoring the moment.. Finding solace in her presence.. Atleast he has ONE person on whom he can rely..

Beautiful, beautiful episode.. It was so emotional..

Amazing performances by everyone.. Barun Sobti and Sanaya Irani were Just mind blowing in their performance.. They were truly Arnav and Khushi.. One could feel the love and the pain they felt like their own..

Love

Kopal


PS: thanks to all the people who liked my post on Friday.. Thanks a lot gals..

Thanks to reduxians for their contributions.. Lovely takes girls and ladies..

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Attachment is a great fabricator of illusions; reality can be attained only by someone who is detached - Simone Weil


We all have or had illusions once in our life before when the reality had bowed down, but then the truth couldn't be lingered and reality stood straight knocking out the illusionary wall we surround ourselves with. That is when comes the moment when you gather all the pieces of illusion and build them up again, but they never stay up for long. In practical words, that is when you give that one particular person a benefit of doubt who had been the reason you had broken down.

Anjali is no different than an ordinary human being. The brutal events of her past had cruelly crushed her and knowing that she couldn't surrender to her fears with a little brother, she created an illusionary world where everything was beautiful and perfect. A world where she was the one in control of everything. Where everything revolved around her.

Today, that perfect little world was crumbled into pieces. She knew that Khushi wasn't lying. She knew altogether that something is wrong in her relationship when Mami came up to her in morning and opened the lid of Pandora's Box. She slipped into denial and that too a strong one and it'll be this denial that'll lead her to build that illusionary world again; again this time the truth will punch in her guts when she'll herself uncover the truth again.

Shyam had always made Anjali feel special. He had displayed his affections and his protectiveness for her health and her in suh special ways that it had made Anjali feel special enough that she is wanted. The flashbacks in

Today when her hand reaches out to stop Shyam being thrown out, She would have done so if she had been given even a moment to have any say in the matter. The way she had shut Mami, Khushi and NK, she would have done the same for Arnav too.

That was reason why instead of Chotte, she called her brother Arnav that registered shock on his face. That was entirely the reason she shut herself off, isolating herself from the family.


Hum apke bina nahi reh sakte


My favourite dialogue from today's episode. The longingness and the desperateness was evident. The want for him to be by her side was bursting inside her with she herself reflecting in the image. *Anjali will get Shyam back into Shantivan for the last time by hook or crook!


"I Love you because I can trust you..." - Anon


There's no apparent reason to love anyone. You just fall for someone like that in a jiffy without realizing the facts.

I absolutely adore the connection Arnav and Khushi. That's the thing about fiction that attracts me, where you don't have to give a damn about yourself but just drown in the book/movie or screenplay!


The communication through eyes continued when Arnav reassured Khushi that everything would be fine. She silently walked out of the room having full faith in him.

The bedroom scene,
Khushi comes out drying herself wearing a white dress, symbolizing her purity and innocence. The guilt for unleashing the truth which is causing such havoc in the house float in her eyes.

Arnav picks up on Khushi being behind him. Tea symbolizes love and Arnav taking the tea represents his acceptance of Khushi's love finally! The realization of being together dawn over them and with a little hesitation, Khushi shares her burden with him. The silence prolonging and each one understanding each other like that.

Knowing her vulnerable state, Arnav picks her and place her on his side of the bed. *The reason for placing her at his side was because Arnav now considers her as his equal. They both are one with the union of souls.

Khushi stopping him to be with her; she has accepted his love for her too. That's the reason for the flashback of Arnav pronouncing Khushi as second important person in his life.


POINTERS


• I loved the placement of characters by Anjali's bed. Nani and Mami, the mother figures by her side. Both Brothers standing as protectors. Khushi, Payal and NK, all three outsiders and protecting her in their own way to an extent!

• Payal reaching out to Akash who is plunged in betrayl of trust not only by a brother in law but by his wife too for hiding the truth. Payal's intentions and actions maybe justified by it won't be remove the harm done to their relationship.

• Nani wiping off Khushi's tears, consoling her in a little way represents that she has believed Khushi and will be the first one to understand why Khushi had been quite so far.

• NK being the sole witness of the whole family breaking apart.

• The Gupta sisters will be there in time of need. There bonding is strong!

• Nani and Mami being together in a tough times. A example that not all relations are weak.


-A good episode with a good direction and execution. The team is coming out of their shell. Brilliant acting by Daljeet, Barun and Sanaya! All others were good as well!
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Shaym and Raizda's:-
What an episode where the emotional turmoil and disbelieve of the Raizada's from the betrayal of Shaym was shown perfectly.

And thus I clothe my naked villainy
With old odds end , stol'n forth of holy writ;
And seem a saint when most I play the devil.

William Shakespeare.

Like Shakespeare said how Shaym's villainy was hidden by the sweetness of his words and actions. He seemed to be a saint to the Raizada's and Anjali, what they did not know that there was devil inside him, which came out in the last 3 episodes.

Arnav/ ASR:-

" The superior man acts before he speaks, and afterwards speaks according to
action". Confucius.

Arnav Singh Raizada proved by his actions that sometimes words are not enough. Shaym was one of those with whom the words would not be effective, as there is a saying "Latoo Key Bhoot, baato sey nahi mantey". His action of two slaps and few words showed Shaym his place.

Anjali:-


"Illusion is an anodyne, bred by the gap between wish and reality."
Herman Wouk.

This what Anjali started to live after her 1st traumatic experience. Shaym used that and fed her that she stayed in that illusion. So she could never see the reality of his.

Anjali will fight for her delusional world, as she does not want to accept the fact that she has lost everything again. The only way her's will break when the man who fed her to illusions breaks it himself and she see with her own eyes and hear's from his mouth.

Khushi & Arnav:-


"Love isnt finding a perfect person. It's seeing an imperfect person perfectly."
Sam Keen

Khushi finally understood and saw beyond Arnav's imperfection and loved him for his two sides. The old Khushi wanted to find a perfect man but that was another illusion, there is no such thing as perfect man. She learned that when she met Arnav Singh Raizada and saw his imperfection and has now accepted him just the way he is.

The whole scene between them was beautifully portrayed. Their silence said it all, Khushi when took tea to Arnav finally let her showed him how shaken she was about the events that happened to her in last 24 hours. She let him see her vulnerability and anxiety.

She was happy and sad at the same time. Happy for the fact that Arnav believed her and sad for seeing the condition of Anajil and Arnav.

Arnav has understood Khushi now, he saw her distress and comforted her. Letting her know he is back and will always look out for her. Told her in actions not to worry any more and he will make it alright.

The hug was for both of their comfort, Arnav hurting as his Di is in pain, Khushi is in pain because her husband is in pain. She cried and took out of her system of the horrendous days she had passed without him.

In the bed scene she wanted him to be with her, so she could feel that he was there with her.


Payal & Aakash:-

"The betrayal of trust carries a heavy taboo".
Aldrich Ames

Aakaah anger is justified on Payal, as she kept such a big secret and truth about Shaym from him.

He was not angry because of what Shaym said, as he did not believe a single word. He knows Payal is good person, but he felt betrayed that she did not trust him enough to the right thing for her and his di.

He believed what ever his bro and Khushi said, as he knew both of them are just. They would not lie about such a big thing and he believed Payal as well.

Payal's actions you can understand but you can not justify the fact that she kept him in the dark when Aaksh has promised that from now on her will not keep any secrets from her.

This will create a little rift in their relationship. He will understand one day, but the trust will come when Payal will not keep anything from him that has to do with his family.


Mami & Nani:-

Mami and Nani may seem to be at loggerheads with each other but now their grief is the same. Their family has become a mess and they are crying because the man they thought was a good man has betrayed them badly.

NK:-

He was just an observer last night as he saw his family was left in tatters because of Shaym. He might play in important part in bringing the family together.


The Raizada's life has changed, their relations will never be the same again.

Arnav & Anjali:-

The whole scene left me in tears, the way Arnav rested his head on his di lap. This time her Di did not keep her hand on his head.

The way he pleaded with her to not to let him out of her life. Was a plea from a chotte Arnav. He could not bear the fact that his di is not accepting his comfort and his words.

All I can say to Arnav is you will get your di back and the person who took your di away from you i.e Shaym. He will be the one who will give your di back to you.


All the actor's were superb in their parts. An 👏 to all Barun, Sanaya, Daljeet, Utrashakti, Akshay, Karan and Deepali.







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"It is far more difficult to murder a phantom than a reality." Virginia Woolf

A complete episode after a long time...all characters given their due screen time a complete representation of the turmoil the family is going through. The episode started from the continuation of yesterday's scene where Arnav throws out Shyam from the house..Shyam is bewildered and not in his wildest dreams could have fathomed that this was even possible while he had his ace Rani sahib on his side but luck his dealt him a bad hand and for the the time being he is unable to reach and use his trump card. A very nice parting shot of anji extending her hand to somehow hold him and not let go and Shyam looking bewildered and forlornly at his strong hook in the house.

Arnav closes the doors of RM on Shyam's face whereas all members of the household look on...yet again proven that all decisions are taking by the ASR. He turns to apologize to his Di and simply states that he trusts his Khushi. Quiet interesting that he is not going to tell anajali about all the dirty details he has about jeejaji...as predicted anji Di faints...creating the hiatus that it is supposed to create...loved akash's skid on the floor when reaching her...!!

Once anajali is back to the world of living Arnie requests to talk to his Di alone and promises to answer all questions after that. Again a nice touch where hubby and wifey communicate through their eyes, she inquiring and he assuring...he talks to his Di and says that this was required for the sake of her and the unborn child...still he doesn't give her the dirty details about her hubby...anjali reflects back on all the moments she has spent with her hubby...his love for her and the baby how he keeps her on a pedastel, how he takes care of her and then the allegations by Payal and Khushi...it's difficult for her to believe an outsider on her husband especially when they have no proof...she has been living in a blissfully world with her hubby for the past couple of years and he has never given her a chance to doubt so why should she lose her faith in him now...for her her brother has taken sides with his wife...he is known to make rash decisions in his anger...so for her he has done that ...her Shyam cannot be wrong...she has worshiped him and he in turn has been very attentive and loving to not only her but her family as well...she is doubting her brother's decision and hence asks him to leave her alone...when he hesitates she calls him Arnav rather than chotte which she calls him with love...the sibling rift very clearly indicated by her pulling her hand back out of his hands and then closing the door in him.

She refuses to talk to anyone and instead turns to her husbands picture and simply states " I cannot live without you "...thus indicating that Abhaas has got a short leave and will be back in the picture soon...she refuses to accept the reality and wills her dream and illusion to be true,...the illusion of a perfect hubby...and mentally I am sure she has come up with reasons to justify each and every action of her hubby,...she will live her illusion unless and until it is broken by the very man whom it is based on that Is Shyam.

If you all notice there are 3 statues in Anjali's room The statue on the console besides her bed is of Radha-Krishna... the eternal lovers ! There's one more... Goddess Saraswati (goddess of knowledge)... sitting on the lotus ! and then there's Maa Durga in one scene... goddess of strength... sitting on the tiger ! (thanks Ritzi)

All three were quiet prominently shown...so I am guessing in the order of appearance that she at the moment considers herself Mrs. Anjali Manohar Jha in the first category i.e the eternal lovers...she will then be deceived by her husband and get the all knowing truth first hand and with experience and that too a bitter one,...she will get the knowledge of the true colors of her hubby and that is when we will see the rise of Anjali Singh Raizada...she will then turn into Durgah to bring about his downfall...as Doods always puts it...The execution of Shyam by Anjali!!

The rest of the family is shattered..one after the other all relations have been shaken by the unraveling of one truth...Nk is seen observing all family members and is probably realizing why both the sisters kept quiet about this vile creature...he could see that if this pandora's box had been opened earlier when both the sisters were outsiders no one would have believed them at all...when one cannot believe them now...so what weight did their statements hold then,...he leaves the two sisters consoling each other and witnesses his ever strong masi break down...his matriarch dadi crying brokenly. ...His sweet brother akash turned bitter towards his wife...the only thing he could see was that the sisters were righteous and that arnav now knows that...I could see a resolution being made in his head about how to help right the wrongs...

Now let's see where each characters stand:

Arnav: When the brother kept his sister's happiness intact the lover in him was hurting and desolate...today the lover has finally found his peace but the brother is at a juncture of bitterness and unhappiness...he has lost as a brother has been unable to protect his sister from the pain and bitterness...he will lose further when his sister will choose to distance herself from him..

Nani: always believed in Khushi morals, values and righteousness, she will never question khsuhi's character...but need assurance about how why what happened...

Mami: the RM bond...is at the moment sure of shaym's betrayal, unsure of khushi's role in the game and hence the cold attitude...she will investigate that's for sure...

Akash: true to his word never doubts his brother,...if Bhai says that Khushi is correct and Payal is telling the truth..then so be it...but rightfully hurt and angry with his wife for sitting on the truth for so long...

Rifts in the cards:
Anajali- Arnav
Payal - akash
Mami - Khushi/Payal

Then comes the most beautiful scene of the episode...

Khushi is still shaken from the outcomes of the adventure...her hubby is saved but not only that he has openly accepted that he believes and trusts her And that she is equally important person in his life as his Di..at the same time she is guilt ridden that her opening the can of worms has led to this fiasco...her love is hurting...the lad whom she considers like a sister is hurting...she is rightfully shaken and hence her hands falter when handing over the tea tray..sensing her anxiety her fear her he holds her hand to re-assure her and she hugs him in earnest like her life depends on it...she gathers e0assurance and strength from him..she makes herself believe that all that was wrong is being righted slowly...for her it is a reality which seemed too far away to grasp...she has him safe and sound...wordlessly she pours out her fear and relief...he then wants her to sleep over it and get herself relaxed...so he picks her up to take to the room...the actual griha-pravesh...On the wedding night he had chucked her out to from the bed the pool..today he picked her up from the pool and returned her to her rightful place on the bed... He placed her on his side of the bed...without words conveying that you are my Equal...ASR=KKGSR...one cannot be without the other...the true Ying Yang...and at the same time his act was pleading forgiveness...which said stand by me and with me....to give her her space and considering himself unworthy of her he turns to go..but this time she holds onto him and pulls him towards herself...showing acceptance, forgiveness and at the same time indicating his importance in her life...for her he is the base on which she stands...he caresses her cheeks with love and she like a baby all content with his presence...is re-assured and falls asleep in his palm...

True love needs no words to be expressed...this was very beautifully portrayed by the CVs and leads today...Bravo!!!

Some important pointers:

Anjali said Arnav not chotte...because now chotte per sirf khushi ka haq hai...you know what i am talking about😉

Akash in his doodh roohafza colored shirt tried his level best to stand out...skid maara...bhaag bhaag ker her jaaga her scene main right behind ASR...and in the end the lovely pose of Maharani RM..sitting in Naraz pose for the portrait to be painted...

CVs ne diya dhoka...daala thanda paani hum sab per...the much hyped bath of ASR and change of vest ceremony was not shown...instead they showed khushi walking out with the towel after the shower...CKT club hartaal...ek to pehle kiddus use kiye and ab jo bacha kuch chance maarna tha woh bhi scene kha gaye

HP is changed...the new HP in basant mode...

I have a strong feeling Laxmi and HP (old one ) have eloped!!

😃


Edited by Arhimaniac - 13 years ago
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Attachment is the great fabricator of illusions; reality can be attained only by someone who is detached.
- Simone Weil


I have an handkey which belonged to my grandma who is no more. The moment I see that piece of cloth or hold it.. the flood gates of my tears open. I will not have any control over my emotions. But given any other day, when I think of her, I recall the good times we spent together. And that brings a smile on my face. Just that piece of cloth I am so attached to , brings out a different emotion in me. And one piece of advise I get from my dear ones is to let go of that handkey. Its doing me no good. And its not my grandma either. Its just a piece of cloth.

And similarly lets analyze Mrs.Anjali Jha. There was a scene in the episode today where Anjali looks at a portrait of Shyam and herself together and we see a reflection of her imposing on her picture. And her conversation with Shyam . I cannot live without you. It was so beautifully pictured about her illusion She has built this fairy world which is picture perfect. In that world everything from door mat to Shyam is placed according to Anjali. In that dream castle not even a speck of dust will move without madam's permission. And its all that they lived happily ever after. Her attachment with illusionary world is to such an extent that she is not able to differentiate between reality and illusion . Some where down the lane the concept has ceased to exist and she believed it was her true world. But a small part of her had always sent her warning signals.

How many instances might have warned her which she chose to royally ignore. He was living on her money. He was out most of the time on the pretext of client cases. And many such and such red flags. Anjali even though noticed this, it was coming in the way of her carefully built fairy world. So she suppressed all that signals and chose to live in that fantasy world. But it was still a virtual world right which never existed in first place. And as destiny would have it, Khushi came and shook the foundation of this world by laying out facts which proved it was an illusion and reality was different. And her brother came and totally bull-dozed her virtual world. And thus becoming Arnav in her eyes from Chottey. But all this had to be done as this was causing more harm than good.

Res

Edited by mommamia - 13 years ago
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This is the kind of episode that I like watching. An episode that catches the mood of the moment and stays with it till the end. I don't know how good it was from a technical POV, but for me, the episode was good in terms of the feelings portrayed by each character.

Today was the first time I felt really sad for Anjali. I always knew that this day would come, and I knew how Anjali would react, but even then Daljeet Bhanot was great as a wife who heard and saw the true character of her husband being exposed, and refused to accept one iota of the truth as that would mean the end of her illusory world.

That dream of hers, the world of fluff that she had created was finished in a matter of seconds when her dearest brother pushed her husband out of the house. Two men she dearly loved, two men who were the center of her world, two men who had always seen to her happiness - these two men were at each other's throats today. Both men were baying for each other's blood.

She knows that Khushi is telling the truth, she has witnessed with her own eyes Khushi's love and care for Arnav. She was told of khushi's fiance's name, that a man by the name of Shyam was their paying guest. She knows that Khushi has told the truth. But then, how can a woman in love accept the truth about her husband so easily?

The nightmare that she was shielding herself from so long has finally materialized in front of her. The fear of being alone, unloved for, uncared for and without any support. Anjali has always depended on someone or the other for her happiness and that's where the root of her miseries and fantasies lie. When you depend on someone else for your happiness, then you base your happiness on that person, the moment that person stops being the base of happiness you plummet to the depths of despair.


The most striking line from Anjali was:

"Hum aapke bina nahi jee payenge..."


Indeed, note what she has said - 'I will not be able to live without you' - the line itself tells you that Shyam was needed as a support in life.

Someone to supply her with enough dreams to keep her happy world going. With Shyam being cast out of the house, her dreams too have been thrown out along with him. Shyam was her crutch for living a fantasy world where everything was sweet and good. There was no bitterness, no hard truths, no hurt, no pain, only joy, love, care, unity, peace and happiness. Without Shyam where will Anjali get to live all these priceless treasures of life? Without Shyam in Anjali's life, how can she continue dreaming of a utopian world? Without Shyam in her life, how can she feel that she belongs to someone, that she has a loving partner, that she will always be cared for by someone special, that all her needs, cares and comfort will be looked after?

Khushi, Khushi was the one who stole her dreams from her. Khushi laid out all the truths that Anjali never ever wanted to hear or know about. As far as I can understand Anjali, she will be angry with Khushi only for tearing apart her dream-world. Anjali's dream-world was a safety haven from the harsh realities of life, and Khushi's truth has left Anjali open to the viciousness of life that she so long protected herself from.

Anjali also knows that Arnav has made this move out of love for her, out of concern for her. But Anjali has always been the one who has controlled others till now. She has a subtle way of controlling the people in her life, and this part of her will not be pleased that Arnav stepped in and controlled one of the main aspects of her life. Anjali is dominating, she is the one who can manipulate people when she wants, she is strong and determined when she likes things to go in her favour. These qualities have taken a serious hit with Arnav deciding to throw Shyam away without giving Anjali a chance to speak for her own part of life. Anjali will be sore with Arnav for taking over and acting for her. Anjali created her dream-world, she is the owner, manager, decision maker of her life and no one else, not even Arnav!

Notice also the way she calls him for the very first time by his name 'Arnav' and not 'Chotte'. I could identify with Anjali here so perfectly since I do the same with my little sister. When I'm angry or irritated with her I call her by her first name, if we're joking around then it's her nick-name. Anjali is very displeased, very furious, very disturbed. The truth is staring at her in her face, and yet all she can think of are the loving tender moments she shared with Shyam all these years. It is very realistic. When you love someone, you will not accept the dark truths about them told to you by your friends or family. You will fight it, resist it, chuck it away, and yet in the depths of your heart you will know that it is the truth - knowing that makes you push the truth away even further because no one likes to be played with, no one likes to be a fool, no one likes to be cheated, no one likes to feel vulnerable and no one likes to be shown that the person they loved was false.


Anjali knows how to make people dance to her tunes. She is going to use her subdued intelligence, her hidden crafty mind, and her delicate nature to get her way. Anjali is even deadlier than Shyam at this, since she maneuverers her way around people in a very stealthily adroit way.


THINGS I LOVED

The Rabba Ve was just how I imagined it should be. The whole scene of Arnav-Khushi was a copy of my imagination. Loved the way Arnav sensed Khushi approaching him. The rattling of the tray by Khushi betraying the deep sadness, the pain she knows she has inflicted on his family, the slight guilt that she is partly responsible for everyone's pain, and her sorrow at driving the siblings apart was well done. And then, the scene I had imagined played out perfectly - the slight awkwardness at first, at finally being so close to one another, but hesitating from moving as the recent events cast a shadow over them, both of them silently in each other's arms - sharing their pain, their griefs, their troubles and their hurt. Arnav understanding Khushi's emotional state, seeing the pain, guilt, and worry in her teary eyes, holding her tightly to him, giving his company, giving her support, giving her himself to soothe her, to share her feelings. Both have them accepted each other in their lives, both of them attuned to each other's feelings, Arnav concerned about Khushi even as his Di shuts herself away, speaks a lot of the importance of Khushi in his life - he has recognized it and Khushi has realized his importance in her life too when he went missing. They both know how much they need one another.

Loved the way Khushi held Arnav's hand, stopping him from leaving her side, and pulling his hand a slight bit to sit by her side. Keeping him beside her, after so many days and after so many misunderstandings, and pain. It was touching to see the love they shared, no words spoken, the eyes did all the talking. The hands, caring, gentle, loving' the protective, dependable hand of his nudges her to sleep ' knowing that his hand will always be there to support, guide, hold, clasp, pull, and stay with her whenever she needs him.

I liked that they used flashbacks for every family member of RM, excluding NK. It was a very good touch, a touch that added feeling, and poignancy to the episode. They way Shyam was seen through everyone's eyes - very well done! 👏

Also loved the fact that they showed NK as the impassive observer of the breakdown of all RM members. NK has witnessed the dark side of Shyam, and he now witnesses the damage that Shyam has left behind. Very good touch here also! 👍🏼

One of my favourites today was Naaniji and Maamiji crying together, supporting each other, and Maamiji crying in Naaniji's lap while Naaniji caresses Maamiji's head consolingly. These two who were always at loggerheads sit by each other and share their unhappiness at the turn of events together. This one made me 😭

Anjali-Arnav - what to say! They were always good as brother-sister. The last time Arnav laid his head on Anjali's lap was the time when he thought he had almost lost her in the accident. This time, he really has lost her - as a sister (from her side).

Khushi standing, waiting and listening at Anjali's door. This girl will always be there for Arnav. Anjali is as much a sister to her as she is to Arnav. She crumbles to the floor knowing just how broken Anjali is with the truth of Shyam, whether Anjali accepts it or not.

Naaniji still with Khushi. Naaniji is one person who has staunchly believed in Khushi's innate goodness and purity, and she is the one who will always stand with Khushi when needed.

Payal-Khushi bond! I always loved their bond right from the beginning and always hoped that this bond would remain the same. Was so glad to see them being there for one another again! Both of them holding each other, knowing the extent of the pain they have inflicted on RM, knowing that they are to blame, that they deserve some of the reactions but all this just fades away a bit when they have each other! Thank you CV's!! Please give us more such scenes of Payal-Khushi!!!

Khushi in white salwar kameez. Sanaya Irani always looks divinely beautiful in this outfit!! Plus, after a long time Symbolism white = purity, innocence, and Arnav kept his own medicine aside to accept and attend to Khushi!


And, I saved the best for last!! The thing I loved the most was... no prizes for guessing...




ARNAV OUT OF THAT FILTHY, DIRTY VEST AND BACK IN HIS HAWT JERSEY!!


🥳



Edited to add: Please do read RebeccaDaphne's post on Page 4: click on this link Rebecca has put down the Five stages of Grief very well, that will help you relate to Anjali's character and her reactions to the present circumstances. Thanks for sharing this wonderful piece of knowledge Rebecca!! 👍🏼


CREDITS

Barun Sobti (the above is for you - my eyes have been refreshed now after seeing you in the gawd-thudding jersey) 😍 , Sanaya Irani - loved all your expressions today (Muaah my girl, you make me fall in love with Khushi everytime!! 🤗 ), Deepali Pansare (good... waiting to see how you tackle your on-screen marriage!), Daljeet Bhanot (I liked the vacant, too stunned to react look in your eyes today! Glad that you got more screen space as I always wanted to see a not-so-sweet Anjali 😃), Karan Goddwani (please be a permanent actor on the show! Love you!), Utkarsha Naik (you made me cry...), Jayashree T (you
too made me cry ... 😭) and Akshay Dogra (Waiting for your gusse-waala avatar, today was just trialer, that too mild trailer, waiting for the movie now!!)

CV's - simplicity at it's best. You took a mood, stuck to it, no unnecessary drama, no unnecessary dialogues, loved that you showed Arnav-Khushi sharing their silence - it was just in line with how I felt Arnav and Khushi should communicate for such emotional situations! That scene stole my heart just for the treatment! For the first time... chummis to you for that scene ❤️

Thanks for the overwhelming 120+ likes and comments on my Friday's post in IP Redux: Report Card Was stunned to see the record number of likes for my post 😆 Chummis and jhappis to all who take time out to read my lengthy posts and to like and comment on them! Love you guys... 🤗

P.S: Have kept today's post short as Friday's was so lamba that I felt sad I tortured you guys with that length! Hope the long post didn't spoil your eyes!! 😛 Take care guys... may be off and on writing for REdux this week on.


Au revoir for now,

Nia
😊

Edited by Nia.D - 13 years ago
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after watching episode only one word echoes in my mind n that is

PAIN.






MERA DARD NAGHMA -E- BE SADA


Mera dard naghma -e- be sada


Meri zaat zarra -e- benishaN


Meray dard ko jo zuba'n mile


Mujhe apna naam -o- nisha'n mile


Mujhe raz -e- nazm -o- jaha'n mile


Jo Mujhe ye rz -e- niha'n mile

Meri khamoshi ko baya'n mile


Mujhe Kainat ki sarwarii

Mujhe Dolat -e-e do jaha'n mile




ENGLISH TRANSLATION

{MY SORROW IS SONG OF NO VOICE}

My sorrow is song of no voice
My self is grain of no sign


(but) if My sorrow finds a cry
I find my (own) name and light


I find secrets of core of cosmos
(and) if i find that open secret


My silence finds (its) narration
I get King ship of universe


I find treasure of both worlds

[ POET FAIZ AHMED FAIZ ]



PAIN AND SORROW CONNECTS SOULS


DREAMER DREAM HAVE BROKEN , NOW IN PAIN

{ ANJALI MANOHAR JHA}

" Illusions commend themselves to us because they save
us pain and allow us to enjoy pleasure instead. We must therefore
accept it without complaint when they sometimes collide with a bit of
reality against which they are dashed to pieces.

"
( sigmund Freud )

She in her peaceful sleep and have a beautiful dream, dream of her prince and all is well in her garden, flowers blooming , green grass shinning, butterflies flying with their colour ful wings n she wants to be in her peaceful sleep and in beautiful dream.

But all who are waking up and living in real world, and out side of her sleep n dream, watching clock and seeing that clock needles increasing n getting closer n closer to the time . That time When she can be late from her best thing due to her this sleep. So they all got water n put it on her face at once and her eyes are open now but her brain not , she couldnt understanding what was happened and what is happening now . She is in wonder and she got angry all of them whom woke up her from her peaceful sleep and broken her beautiful dream.


She is in pain and sorrow , and in anger.


TWO PEOPLE, ONE PAIN, ONE SOUL
{ ARNAV & KHUSHI }


two people met , one Mu other and humiliated other, when they separated , their hearts feels an unknow feeling that gave da name hate.


Their hate journey continue and when when they met it increase day by day.
And a time come when they feels this feeling changed its path and got the other name, but they couldnt get the name.


Their journey continue with this un named feelings, and when ever they met it increasing more.
And one day they comes under one roof with the sacred relation named marriage, now again MU came in their lives again they called their feelings for each other by hate.


Day comes when they separates from each other for few days. And these few days pain of separation realizes how important they are for each othey that in both of them no 1 cant live without other.

And they are in LOVE and only trapped in the web of LOVE. And there is no way to escape from it.
Again they met, and a pain and sorrow comes in their lives, a pain of their most beloved person's life. They becomes the supports of each other to bear this, they shares it by each other, now this pain and sorrow connected the heart and soul one of each other.


" Pain and sorrow join the hearts & souls that they never can separates each. Only physicaly but not mentally, and emotionally.

( me )

" durr reh kar bhi pass hotay hain
ye dukh o takleef hi, dilo pr qabza krney k hathyar hotay hain"

(me)


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