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Posted: 13 years ago
#21
Hiya folks!!

Post has been updated on Page Two!

Cheers for Arnav finally changing out of that dirt, yucky vest and into his drop-dead sooper hawt jersey!!!


Toot-toot for clean dressed Arnav... 🥳 🥳🥳
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Posted: 13 years ago
#22

Originally posted by: tanthya



"In battle, in the forest, at the precipice in the mountains, On the dark great sea, in the midst of javelins and arrows, In sleep, in confusion, in the depths of shame, The good deeds a man has done before defend him"



"A man's own self is his friend. A man's own self is his foe."


"The faith of each is in accordance with one's own nature."


We have been told, O Krishna, that people whose family traditions are destroyed necessarily dwell in hell for a long time.


"Hypocrisy, arrogance, pride, anger, harshness, and ignorance; these are the marks of those who are born with demonic qualities, O Arjuna."

Bhagavad Gita



My feelings regarding the characters when I saw them today !!



***** On Break from Writing *******

Sathya...Superb...Even a glimse of your writting...Is too good beyond words...👏👏👏👏👏👏
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Posted: 13 years ago
#23

Originally posted by: Nia.D

Hiya folks!!

Post has been updated on Page Two!

Cheers for Arnav finally changing out of that dirt, yucky vest and into his drop-dead sooper hawt jersey!!!


Toot-toot for clean dressed Arnav... 🥳 🥳🥳

Nia I just read you post...
You have portrayed Anjali really well...
That one word..." I can't live without you"...spoke a lot about her present status and her refusal to let go of Shyam...
Which is true...👏...
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Posted: 13 years ago
#24
Hi! I'm new at REDUX...I always feel its a rather elite club for IF posties and I love reading the analyses, love your posts tanthya and doods, and all the others too.

Since you are talking about the characters specifically on this episode can I put my post on Anjali here, it's my take on what she's going through...
You may have heard of the five stages of grief that occur in people when they suffer a huge shock and loss.
I think Anjali is going through her very own stages...starting with today's episode..stage one...

Five stages

1. Denial and Isolation, she uses this defence mechanism that reduces the initial shock, and conveniently blocks out the facts and hides away from the truth...we can see this in today's episode when she shuts herself in her room and se wants to be alone.

2. Anger, she directs this at those she sees as the ones she blames for her pain...she will resent her Chotey and Khushi...and maybe the rest of her family if they side with them

3. Bargaining... Doing something to regain control,...this is a normal reaction to overcome the feelings of helplessness and vulnerability...we may see Anjali doing this if she decides she wants to abort her child...it's a way of making her in control of her life.

4.Depression...knowing that it's happened and nothing can be the same again...the sadness but the slow realisation of the truth...

5.Acceptance...resisting this only prolongs the natural process of healing...she needs to let go of the love she has for Shyam...no one says it will be easy for her..but...getting the strength and support she needs from her family to help her accept her husband for who he really is will make her stronger and a more emotionally stable woman.

I think in the upcoming episodes we may see Anjali going through these stages...hopefully coming out stronger at the end.
Sorry it's mainly about Anjali!

*a special thank you to Nia for mentioning my post in hers*! 🤗

Edited by RebeccaDaphne - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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"Man is not what he thinks he is, he is what he hides."
Andr Malraux

Anjali Mahohar Jha..

Today she witnessed her whole world crumbling down before her eyes. She stood there watching and not being able to do anything''.

Arnav closes the door and looks at his sister and tells her '.'He trusts Khushi and knows that she is speaking the truth'..He still doesn't disclose the details he knew about her husband''Even if he discloses and provides her with proof'..Anjali will never come out of her delusional world unless she witnesses it herself''

When Anjali wakes up'.. She only remembers the good times she had with her husband'..During these years he had not even once planted a seed of doubt in her mind'...Her husband had always showered her with Love and affection''.and they are expecting a baby together'.'.Though there were some instances'..where she had caught him before'.He had always provided her with convincing answers'''

Anjali always starts a relationship with trust and love'.It's easy for her to believe anyone''...There is no reason to doubt then''.So why doubt now''..If he is good to her ''.then he cannot be a wrong person...He would never cheat her...when he loves her''He is not a culprit ''.as to how these people portray him to be''.Something had gone wrong somewhere''.My brother is known the make rash decisions before and hurt everyone in the process'' and today he had done the same'..by listening to his wife'..Khushi

She brought Khushi to this family'''.Today Khushi was responsible for everything that has happened in her life''.Her brother believed his wife Khushi''.and threw her Love out'..How can she be not angry with both of them''..She would channel all her anger towards them...and also at people who support them...

Anjali is resting today''.But she will plan and bounce back'..She knows that she can get anything she wants by hook or crook''.Her word is final''and so far she hadn't said anything yet''

But today she looked at their photo and spoke with determination'. that she will never be able to live without him''.

This is enough to prove that Shyam will be back in RM'..She will bring him back even if her brother doesn't agree''and force this decision on them'''.Or she will threaten to walk out of RM'...

Will have to wait and watch...and see how she manipulates her brother Arnav''...

Today Arnav as a lover found peace and Arnav as a brother feels guilty for not protecting his sister and blames him responsible for the sorrow his sister is going through''

Khushi walks up to him'.with a bit of fear and more of guilty as to what had happened''.He assures her'' that she is not responsible for anything and not to stress''..and that everything will be ok'''She hugs him''for his support and also cries in relief''He carries her back '.and gently places her on the bed''and leaves her to take rest''.She reaches out to him''and asks him to be with her'.He sits next to her''and with him watching over her''.she feels safe and sleeps peacefully'''

(I have not done justice to this scene'..But it was enacted beautifully by Barun and Sanaya)

Current status of RM...

Akash is upset with payal for not disclosing the truth about Shyam''His anger is justified''But he should be equally upset with his mum for not disclosing Arnav's kidnapping''..

He will stand by his brother Arnav...But would not be able to witnesses his sister's sorrow...And might blame Payal for not disclosing it before...

The bond between Nani and Mami'..is beautifully portrayed''.In times of sorrow these two find solace in one another''...

Nani believes Khushi as she has seen the righteous Khushi...

Mami's anger is justified...She is equally angry with both Khushi and Shyam...She will be upset because her daughter's life is at stake...She will support the right...Afterall she is the 7th angel and DA...

Today''the sisters stood for each other and supported each other''After a long time we have seen them bond''.They will ride the storm together''..

NK a silent observer '''.but when the need arises''he will be there to offer his support'''

Hats off to entire team of IPKKND for giving this beautiful episode...👏👏👏👏👏

Hope you get the much deserved results in the report card tomorrow...😉

Arnav, khushi, Anjali, Nani and Mami...👏👏👏👏👏👏

P.S.: Thank you all for reading my take on the episode...and leaving a valuable comment ...Thank you so much...

Edited by sharmibalan - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
#26

Originally posted by: RebeccaDaphne

Hi! I'm new at REDUX...I always feel its a rather elite club for IF posties and I love reading the analyses, love your posts tanthya and doods, and all the others too.


Since you are talking about the characters specifically on this episode can I put my post on Anjali here, it's my take on what she's going through...
You may have heard of the five stages of grief that occur in people when they suffer a huge shock and loss.
I think Anjali is going through her very own stages...starting with today's episode..stage one...

Five stages

1. Denial and Isolation, she uses this defence mechanism that reduces the initial shock, and conveniently blocks out the facts and hides away from the truth...we can see this in today's episode when she shuts herself in her room and se wants to be alone.

2. Anger, she directs this at those she sees as the ones she blames for her pain...she will resent her Chotey and Khushi...and maybe the rest of her family if they side with them

3. Bargaining... Doing something to regain control,...this is a normal reaction to overcome the feelings of helplessness and vulnerability...we may see Anjali doing this if she decides she wants to abort her child...it's a way of making her in control of her life.

4.Depression...knowing that it's happened and nothing can be the same again...the sadness but the slow realisation of the truth...

5.Acceptance...resisting this only prolongs the natural process of healing...she needs to let go of the love she has for Shyam...no one says it will be easy for her..but...getting the strength and support she needs from her family to help her accept her husband for who he really is will make her stronger and a more emotionally stable woman.

I think in the upcoming episodes we may see Anjali going through these stages...hopefully coming out stronger at the end.
Sorry it's mainly about Anjali!



Hey there Rebecca!

Loved reading your short write-up since I was considering writing the same 😆 I love psychology, and this is one of the defence mechanisms one learns while studying the subject psychology.

It's really good that you put this down here so that everyone gets a good insight into Anjali's behaviour, and reactions toward the situation.

Welcome to Redux (should have probably started the reply with this... but well, better late than never 😃) Would love to hear more from you! You seem to have a clear mind... so, will be a pleasure to read you!

Ciao,

Nia 😊


P.S: Does your user name have anything to do with the 'book' Rebecca by Daphne du Maurier? (If it does, then before you ask let me tell you, I have only heard of the book but have not read it yet!)
😕
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Posted: 13 years ago
#27

Originally posted by: Nia.D

Hiya folks!!

Post has been updated on Page Two!

Cheers for Arnav finally changing out of that dirt, yucky vest and into his drop-dead sooper hawt jersey!!!


Toot-toot for clean dressed Arnav... 🥳 🥳🥳



Nia...

U wrote everything I wanted to write... 👏👏👏 Beautifully written !

I was just about to start my post... For Anjali... and then saw yours just above me !😊

Ab main kya likhun??? 😆

There's a note for you and me...


https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/fan-fictions/3082529/arhi-os-their-first-night


Read Chitmanas's post !!!




Edited by iritz - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
#28

Originally posted by: Nia.D



Hey there Rebecca!

Loved reading your short write-up since I was considering writing the same 😆 I love psychology, and this is one of the defence mechanisms one learns while studying the subject psychology.

It's really good that you put this down here so that everyone gets a good insight into Anjali's behaviour, and reactions toward the situation.

Welcome to Redux (should have probably started the reply with this... but well, better late than never 😃) Would love to hear more from you! You seem to have a clear mind... so, will be a pleasure to read you!

Ciao,

Nia 😊


P.S: Does your user name have anything to do with the 'book' Rebecca by Daphne du Maurier? (If it does, then before you ask let me tell you, I have only heard of the book but have not read it yet!)
😕

Thanks!😃 And yes, that's my favourite book and author!

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Posted: 13 years ago
#29

Originally posted by: Nia.D

Hiya folks!!

Post has been updated on Page Two!

Cheers for Arnav finally changing out of that dirt, yucky vest and into his drop-dead sooper hawt jersey!!!


Toot-toot for clean dressed Arnav... 🥳 🥳🥳


Lovely post Nia.. Completely bowled me over..👏👏👏
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: RebeccaDaphne

Hi! I'm new at REDUX...I always feel its a rather elite club for IF posties and I love reading the analyses, love your posts tanthya and doods, and all the others too.


Since you are talking about the characters specifically on this episode can I put my post on Anjali here, it's my take on what she's going through...
You may have heard of the five stages of grief that occur in people when they suffer a huge shock and loss.
I think Anjali is going through her very own stages...starting with today's episode..stage one...

Five stages

1. Denial and Isolation, she uses this defence mechanism that reduces the initial shock, and conveniently blocks out the facts and hides away from the truth...we can see this in today's episode when she shuts herself in her room and se wants to be alone.

2. Anger, she directs this at those she sees as the ones she blames for her pain...she will resent her Chotey and Khushi...and maybe the rest of her family if they side with them

3. Bargaining... Doing something to regain control,...this is a normal reaction to overcome the feelings of helplessness and vulnerability...we may see Anjali doing this if she decides she wants to abort her child...it's a way of making her in control of her life.

4.Depression...knowing that it's happened and nothing can be the same again...the sadness but the slow realisation of the truth...

5.Acceptance...resisting this only prolongs the natural process of healing...she needs to let go of the love she has for Shyam...no one says it will be easy for her..but...getting the strength and support she needs from her family to help her accept her husband for who he really is will make her stronger and a more emotionally stable woman.

I think in the upcoming episodes we may see Anjali going through these stages...hopefully coming out stronger at the end.
Sorry it's mainly about Anjali!



Hey Rebecca...

Very Well written post... 5 steps of grief... lovely explanation !!! Absolutely agree with you that we'll get to see Anjali go through all 5 stages, and then come out stronger !

I was also going to base my post on Anjali today... but both you and Nia beat me to it... 😊

Anyway... lovely post, my dear... hope to read more of you !


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