IP REDUX ; The Outsider !!

First Previous

Page

119

Next Last

Frequent Posters

meghavn

@meghavn

Voyager

+ 2

Posted: 13 years ago

#31

Originally posted by: Nia.D

For Anjali

Loved it Nia.. wht a beautiful quote... 😊

u covered every aspect.. excellent 👏 loved ur writing...

the last part really touched me today... it is the beginning of their new life...

Quote

Nia

@Nia.D

Voyager

+ 5

Posted: 13 years ago

#32

Originally posted by: iritz

Nia...

U wrote everything I wanted to write... 👏👏👏 Beautifully written !

I was just about to start my post... For Anjali... and then saw yours just above me !😊

Ab main kya likhun??? 😆

There's a note for you and me...

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/fan-fictions/3082529/arhi-os-their-first-night

Read Chitmanas's post !!!

Haahaa, read this post first and then Lucky 2's post on your OS and couldn't stop laughing!!! 😆

I'm so sorry girl that I wrote what you wanted to write , lekin koi baat nahi, you always bring out some point that others miss... plus you have a neat sense of humour, so you can use that... so, write on. 👍🏼

This actually reminds me of Omoraboti (Farha) and me - she and I too think and write the same things 😃

Now we can make 'Hey Soul Sister' our theme song 😛

Quote

Looks like you are new here. Register for free, learn and contribute.

redwine1

@redwine1

Rocker

+ 3

Posted: 13 years ago

#33

Hey all ..

Had no intention of writing today .. as i haven't even watched the episode .. but Megs kindly put up the link of the last 5 mins of the episode ...What to say i was floored ... hence i thot to write some points to ponder ...

Let me thank Ritzy & Appu for the absolutely wonderful Live update of the episode .. .. don't think i missed a single nuance so perfect was their narrative ... & of course darling Meg for the glimpse of the episode .. thanx guys ..

The episode progressed exactly as one would've predicted .. the ouster of Shyam ... & falling or crumbling of the castle of dreams of Anjali's .. in her faint ..

The first thot to ponder :

has this woman clenched her eyes shut to all problems today

Or has this woman opened her eyes to all her problems today

Arnav & Anjali scene. .. a heartfelt Thank you to Gul for this Gem ... ( not seen it as yet .. but wil do so soon).. ..

Ok i know all of u thot of me when u saw this scene .. as i had penned it as my dream scene .. heres why ... & pls note the relevance ..

Whenever ASR/Arnav is overwhelmed in life .. he goes to his MOTHER .. figure .. his Di .. & like any kid .. when the burdens of life become to much .. or when life throws curve balls to u .. u want to be in the one place where u know SHELTER is imminent ... all worries will GO .. all problems will miraculously disappear .. & thats where ASR went ... to his mother His DI's lap ...

Now what happened today .. most of u focussed on the Chotte turning to Arnav .. ( she has called him arnav in the very first episode) ... but look at the bigger moment .. TODAY THE MOTHER REJECTED THE SON ...

Today the Mother in Anjali . won over the SiSTER in Anjali .. a paradigm shift ...

Today the mother Anjali .. actually proved that she was a motherly sister .. not the MOTHER ... or she would've not thrown him out of the room .. she would've demanded answers from him ...

This is the next thot to ponder :

Will this be the BIG change now ...?

Through the weekend on Redux forum & through PMs .. some of you had asked me what i thot would happen on Monday .. & i replied .. i see a very post marriage scenario play out ... & boy was my TUCCA right today ... ..

Why did i say that i felt we would get a post marriage play out . was simply because i felt the whole confrontation had the same LOOK & FEEL of post marriage play out .. with such noticeable subtle differences .. differences which will define the Future of the TRACK ...

Now c what happened through wednesday / thursday / friday .. we had a confrontation .. with the whole family standing & asking Ques .. hurling Ques ... being abusive to KHUSHI ( Shyam at least) ... once again we had Khushi standing on ONe side answering & parrying ...

Now see the first difference .. at that time the Man who should've suppotedd her & spoken for her ... was STANDING RIGHT NEXT TO HER ... DINT SPEAK A WORD .. DINT STAND UP FOR HER ...

Now cut to see what happened on friday ... the MAN ( ASR) .. was standing faaway from her .. next to his Di ... but do you doubt for one moment HE WAS NOT WITH KHUSHI ...

He spoke up about her .. he unequivocally stated his feelings for KHUSHI KUMARI GUPTA SR ... when the last time he should've shouted his feelings ...

Now look what happened post the confrontations got over .. all retired to their rooms ... during post marriage scene .. WE HAD ASR shut his DOOR on ANJALI .. & today we had an ANJALI SHUT THE DOOR ON ASR ,... both the times sadly we had a crying Khushi standing wondering WHY ME ...

LOOP CLOSED or OPENED i will leave this as the third thot to PONDER

... must say every frame of the episode today ( what i read) .. portrays the brilliance of the maker .. GUL KHAN ... hats off darling .. ASR is ur baby & u know how to nurture him ...

Now for the final 5 mins of the episode .. ( now this i watched) .. awww .. this is romance ... i don't think on TV at least ne 1 understands or portrays Romance the WAY Gul & NIssar do ... simply brilliant ...

The woman walks up to her man ... once again being the caring WIfe ... wanting to say something .. wanting to thank him .. wanting to explain ... wanting to commiserate the hurt .. wanting to wallow in the breaking of a family ... wanting to comfort the man

Now see the turn back to the post marriage track ...

.. ( it was so beautifully weaved in to the whole episode that i was struck dumb) ..

The last time .. Khushi came crying to ASR saying she was an orphan today ...

& Today ... ASR doesnt need to go to Khushi & say the words .. coz she knows how much hurting his Di has hurt him ... & HOW MUCH Di's REJECTION would've shattered him ...

The woman in Khushi .. the mother in Khushi .. recognizes this pain ... & HUGS ASR ... he was the orphan today & she was giving him the comfort which he rightfully should've given her ... ( he wanted to) ...

if u see the HUG .. the whole picturizing of it is the dichotomy here ... NOTE ASR Is rubbing her hair in a gesture of comfort ... BUT IT IS ACTUALLY ASR who is deriving the COMFORT from that HUG ... Simple Superb .. !!!

Look at the beautiful way the makers today .. showed the apology of past mistakes & the acceptance of the apology ...

ASR carries Khushi .. over the threshold today .. the Grih Pravesh ( thnx Amarb for pointing this out) ... & carries her to her rightful place his BED ( his home) .. every expression of ASR .. is of regret in what he has done to her ... & he lays her on the bed .. his side .. denoting .. i surrender to you .. all that i hold dear ...

He tries to goes away .. & she holds his hand ... apology accepted ...

Brings him close to her ... We are one ...

He sits down cups her cheek ... thank you for accepting my apology ...

Then he moves the offending lock of hair from her face ...denoting ... don't worry all will be fine ... i won't let anything come in our way ...

aha .. GUL KHAN & NISSAR parvez .. guys ur brilliance knows no bounds for me .. for a die hard romance lover ... this is pure poetry in motion ...

Guys the most important point to ponder in the episode ...

Today u saw BIG change u saw a ROLE REVERSAL in RM ... u saw Anjali become ASR & ASR become Anjali ..

My Ques to you the dear viewer is ...

What will this role reversal BRING ...

An ASR who is a nurturer ...

An Anjali who is hot tempered .. opinionated ... quick to jump to wrong conclusions ... not asking the facts ... closing the mind to different possibilities & interpretations ... a person who thinks she is right .. ( sounds familiar .. isn't this what ASR did during the time he saw Khushi in Shyam's arms) ...

I have a feeling the next ride in IPK .. will be the BEST EVER .. so guys please SIT tight ...

PICTURE TOH ABHI BAHUT BAAKI HAI MERE DOST ...

Sorry i know short post .. but haven't watched the whole episode .. if i do watch it will update more ..

Edited by redwine1 - 13 years ago

Quote

RebeccaDaphne

@RebeccaDaphne

Inactive

+ 2

Posted: 13 years ago

#34

Originally posted by: iritz

Hey Rebecca...

Very Well written post... 5 steps of grief... lovely explanation !!! Absolutely agree with you that we'll get to see Anjali go through all 5 stages, and then come out stronger !

I was also going to base my post on Anjali today... but both you and Nia beat me to it... 😊

Anyway... lovely post, my dear... hope to read more of you !

Thanks! Yes..I liked Nias post too...its always interesting to read others points of view..I hope you do post about Anjali, I'd love to read your take on her!

Quote

Nia

@Nia.D

Voyager

+ 5

Posted: 13 years ago

#35

Originally posted by: b.sarika2

Beautiful...specially the parts above. Loved it. And Yes THE VEST😆 I am in party mood today🥳

Originally posted by: chatterbug

For Anjali

Thank you for such a wonderful assessment !

100% agree on the state of anjali !
She will be against khushi for destroying her dreamworld ( even though she know's khushi is innocent)! She will show it on arnav !
We can not blame anjali for this change !
Every character is portrayed today with apt reactions...

Very realistic episode...👏

Thank you Sarika, chatterbug, Sharmi, Vroom (Ritz/Soul sister 😉), Kopal, and Megha for your sho shweet appreciation!! 🤗 to all of you!!

Edited by Nia.D - 13 years ago

Quote

Ume Salma Kakal

@sunflower52

Rocker

+ 4

Posted: 13 years ago

#36

Originally posted by: RebeccaDaphne
Hi! I'm new at REDUX...I always feel its a rather elite club for IF posties and I love reading the analyses, love your posts tanthya and doods, and all the others too.

Since you are talking about the characters specifically on this episode can I put my post on Anjali here, it's my take on what she's going through...
You may have heard of the five stages of grief that occur in people when they suffer a huge shock and loss.
I think Anjali is going through her very own stages...starting with today's episode..stage one...

Five stages

1. Denial and Isolation, she uses this defence mechanism that reduces the initial shock, and conveniently blocks out the facts and hides away from the truth...we can see this in today's episode when she shuts herself in her room and se wants to be alone.

2. Anger, she directs this at those she sees as the ones she blames for her pain...she will resent her Chotey and Khushi...and maybe the rest of her family if they side with them

3. Bargaining... Doing something to regain control,...this is a normal reaction to overcome the feelings of helplessness and vulnerability...we may see Anjali doing this if she decides she wants to abort her child...it's a way of making her in control of her life.

4.Depression...knowing that it's happened and nothing can be the same again...the sadness but the slow realisation of the truth...

5.Acceptance...resisting this only prolongs the natural process of healing...she needs to let go of the love she has for Shyam...no one says it will be easy for her..but...getting the strength and support she needs from her family to help her accept her husband for who he really is will make her stronger and a more emotionally stable woman.

I think in the upcoming episodes we may see Anjali going through these stages...hopefully coming out stronger at the end.
Sorry it's mainly about Anjali!

Really good analysis and stages of which Anjali will go through to emerge into a strong woman.

Loved your take on Anjali.

Quote

trintring

@trintring

Rocker

+ 2

Posted: 13 years ago

#37

DING DONG...THE VEST IS GONE!!!!! 🥳

My fellow Reduxians, before you all say that the Satyanash moment of Redux has finally arrived and Trin has decided to analyse the episode I will put your fears to rest. I am not doing anything of that sort. But I made a promise that if we get rid of that Vest on Monday I will dedicate a post to the Vest. So please click on the link below and take with me a journey through time of our favourite Baniyaan Ji for a proper farewell.

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/iss-pyaar-ko-kya-naam-doon/3083818/bye-bye-baniyanji-a-journey-through-ipk-time

Edited by bs_si - 13 years ago

Quote

cool_tweety

@cool_tweety

Rocker

+ 2

Posted: 13 years ago

#38

Lovely Analysis Nia, loved the starting quote and everything..no words..👏👏
Rebacca the 5 points 👏👏👏.

One among the few episodes that touched my heart and made me cry..showed what i love abt IP, the bonding that each relationship share..
Arnav and Arnjali,Mami n Nani, Mami n Anjali, Nani n Anjali, khushi n payal,Arnav n khushi.

The following scenes touched me..
Arnav looking at khushi as Anjali refused to take his help in getting up.
Arnav gets down to Anjali's lap asking for her forgiveness.
Anjali's isolation and her love for Shyam (Does Shyam even know how lucky he is to get such a life partner???😕)
Khushi waiting outside jus looking at the relationship, the bond that she always loved for its strength, prays to god to keep it stronger, but does she really know that it is having its testing time??

Wen i saw the episode, the one thought that i came to my mind was, wat an ironical relationship does Arnav n Anjali share. Arnav dint believe in his love, even though she wasn't faulty and Anjali does believe Shyam n only him ,even though everything is his fault..one bitter incident changes the whole perceptive towards life. .

And finally the Arnav khushi scene, two people blindly in love,doesn't really need words to express their love nor their pain . Loved the scene totally also cried loads..thought of Anna..my crying partner..😆

Here i am with a VM, on my fav tamil song, felt this song suits the situation, so here u go, the song is with subtitles(bad one though😆, i was blank wen i was trying to figure out the exact english word 😡)so people who don't understand tamil can even watch it.😛 and those who understand can throw tomatoes n eggs for the subtitles.😆

This song is dedicated to all the wonderful reduxians who i love a lot for their lovely analysis. For all those who gave me company wen i felt alone, for those who made me laugh wen i was having a hard day..for all those wonderful ladies out there...

[YOUTUBE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vB0tzs-IELQ&feature=youtu.be[/YOUTUBE]

Edited by cool_tweety - 13 years ago

Quote

sharmibalan

@sharmibalan

Rocker

Posted: 13 years ago

#39

Originally posted by: RebeccaDaphne
Hi! I'm new at REDUX...I always feel its a rather elite club for IF posties and I love reading the analyses, love your posts tanthya and doods, and all the others too.

Since you are talking about the characters specifically on this episode can I put my post on Anjali here, it's my take on what she's going through...
You may have heard of the five stages of grief that occur in people when they suffer a huge shock and loss.
I think Anjali is going through her very own stages...starting with today's episode..stage one...

Five stages

1. Denial and Isolation, she uses this defence mechanism that reduces the initial shock, and conveniently blocks out the facts and hides away from the truth...we can see this in today's episode when she shuts herself in her room and se wants to be alone.

2. Anger, she directs this at those she sees as the ones she blames for her pain...she will resent her Chotey and Khushi...and maybe the rest of her family if they side with them

3. Bargaining... Doing something to regain control,...this is a normal reaction to overcome the feelings of helplessness and vulnerability...we may see Anjali doing this if she decides she wants to abort her child...it's a way of making her in control of her life.

4.Depression...knowing that it's happened and nothing can be the same again...the sadness but the slow realisation of the truth...

5.Acceptance...resisting this only prolongs the natural process of healing...she needs to let go of the love she has for Shyam...no one says it will be easy for her..but...getting the strength and support she needs from her family to help her accept her husband for who he really is will make her stronger and a more emotionally stable woman.

I think in the upcoming episodes we may see Anjali going through these stages...hopefully coming out stronger at the end.
Sorry it's mainly about Anjali!

Superb Rebecca...Well written...Loved all your 5 steps...👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

Welcome to Redux...😊

Quote

iritz

@iritz

Dazzler

+ 5

Posted: 13 years ago

#40

Originally posted by: redwine1
ritzy read what i have just written in report card last thread .

Originally posted by: redwine1

sandy i see u here ... gr8 .. so here goes ..

do u remember .. everyone asking me thru the weekend what i think we wil see .. & i said the scenario will be very post marriage scenario ..

C they played it exactly like that .. scene .. huge blast .. everyone settles quietly in their rooms & Anjali retires to her room alone ...
the difference was anjali ran behind arnav & arnav banged the door during post marriage .. & this time it was the other way round ..anjlai threw arnav out of the door ..
to muddled right now . to think thru this .. bu twill come up with something in the morning .. ne 1 analyzing today .. pls try focusing on this ..

This is pure role reversal of Anjali & Arnav .. now ...
again last timr round .. they showed anjali & nani talk on the situation .. now this time have arnav & nani talk on the situation ...

Kya kamal hai yaar yeh team .. kya kya loop close karte hai .. itna subtle moves hota hai .. ki kya bataon ...