Curtailment and Pontifications - Page 4

Originally posted by: meera30

Originally posted by: MentalExotica

Hello,

Great topic.

"Priorities" and "Making the right choice" as a lesson are never given importance when bringing up a child.

You teach them the basics

1. Never Lie

2. Respect you elders.

3. Work Hard

4. Be courteous to one and all

et all

But to take decisions and set your priorities right is never a topic many discuss with thier children.

So eventually everyone struggles emotionally and physically to choose what is right.

Why do we always end up having choices?

Why are we always stuck at cross roads?

OUR INABILITY TO TAKE DECISIONS CONFIDENTLY. - SAD BUT TRUE.

Originally posted by: serialjunkie

meera - @bold. no worries

you can enjoy the show and still crib about it. i see no conflict 😆

Originally posted by: tangam

@bold: Ha ha. You remember! Well, she is as much of a prick as I last found out. But man is she talented! I hate that!

Originally posted by: meera30

Amost forgot that...now you have gone an ressurected my curiosity and man that is such a thorn...

Originally posted by: meera30

If anything, this show should be the anti-thesis of a social-cause based show!

I mean cheating husbands, manhandling, contract marriage, hiding the truth, taunting mothers-in-law...Bad bad world...IPK!

Post made in jest - please do not kill me. I love this show!

Originally posted by: meera30

Hun, you are a pro at witty sarcasm and jokes at the show (I love your Thoughts posts...are we getting one today?)

Believe me I have had people down my throat at the slightest criticism! What to do..Have to be carefoool!

Originally posted by: barun2297

great question posed n many people will have different takes on it. I believe, despite luv always being projected as superior in the end in real life many people r restricted with their duties. At present in iss pyar i wudnt refer 2 arnavs overprotectiveness of anjali as far fetched 4 three main reasons, firstly anjali has additional vulnerabiliy coz of her polio. Secondly coz of her very naive n gullible character n lastly coz they have both been orphans since a long time. Therefore i think arnavs concern is understandable.

Originally posted by: tangam

😆😆😆😆Ok,,,,get ready fro a totally against the grain...thought😆😆😆

Like me my thoughts to are bloody mix and stand out...(moslty alone)

So lets deal with the play first...

Anjies charactor is very underdeveloped as with all other charactors in the show but hers especially...

she is shown as needy, religious and smiling, sickeningly sweet...enough to give me a sugar high her bro will never have...

so if I were to fill the gaps...as per my mind (a dagerous thing)...they lost thier parents when Arnie was what 15...she was shown without a limp in fb (could be an oversight or a later injury but as it is with all of their med research...polio is the sickness allocated)...so he completed school and the went to harvard...on what...they were kicked out of thire residience...Nani took them in but apparently did not have much...we are made to believe that Arnie got them here...manorama helped with Jewelry...but nani keeps hinting that mano was the maid...so many disjointed versions...

I think to get Arnav where he is it was Anji that bore the brunt...begrudging herself of many things...

may have fallen ill etc...

so the shared past, grief and ugly story...the strength he lent on and then took off...makes him attached to her at a different level...the co dependency, the gratitude and guilt...a very strong and also dangerous relationship for it can be poisonous...

So I would not call it just duty but love also...all of our relationships are that a bit of everything...even love for a partner...just in different proportions...

right now his sister has more than earned his love and loyality...and for khushi it is a guilt ridden love he feels because of his short sighted ness...

and to be fair to Anji...as far as we know (which again for me is a flaw in her charactorisation) is unaware of how her brothers need to be her protector is coming in the way of his fullfillment...

hooof...that much for the fiction...now I will be back with the real life part...

edit

I am not sure if this is a disclaimer or educated review😆

this show is prone to vast exaggeration a neccasity for drama...but the needed basic story or premise and the necessary research is shoddy and wanting...making the exaggerations that much more unrealistic...