Curtailment and Pontifications - Page 3

Originally posted by: tangam

😆Ok,,,,get ready fro a totally against the grain...thought😆😆😆

Like me my thoughts to are bloody mix and stand out...(moslty alone)

So lets deal with the play first...

Anjies charactor is very underdeveloped as with all other charactors in the show but hers especially...

she is shown as needy, religious and smiling, sickeningly sweet...enough to give me a sugar high her bro will never have...

so if I were to fill the gaps...as per my mind (a dagerous thing)...they lost thier parents when Arnie was what 15...she was shown without a limp in fb (could be an oversight or a later injury but as it is with all of their med research...polio is the sickness allocated)...so he completed school and the went to harvard...on what...they were kicked out of thire residience...Nani took them in but apparently did not have much...we are made to believe that Arnie got them here...manorama helped with Jewelry...but nani keeps hinting that mano was the maid...so many disjointed versions...

I think to get Arnav where he is it was Anji that bore the brunt...begrudging herself of many things...

may have fallen ill etc...

so the shared past, grief and ugly story...the strength he lent on and then took off...makes him attached to her at a different level...the co dependency, the gratitude and guilt...a very strong and also dangerous relationship for it can be poisonous...

So I would not call it just duty but love also...all of our relationships are that a bit of everything...even love for a partner...just in different proportions...

right now his sister has more than earned his love and loyality...and for khushi it is a guilt ridden love he feels because of his short sighted ness...

and to be fair to Anji...as far as we know (which again for me is a flaw in her charactorisation) is unaware of how her brothers need to be her protector is coming in the way of his fullfillment...

hooof...that much for the fiction...now I will be back with the real life part...

edit

I am not sure if this is a disclaimer or educated review😆

this show is prone to vast exaggeration a neccasity for drama...but the needed basic story or premise and the necessary research is shoddy and wanting...making the exaggerations that much more unrealistic...

Originally posted by: serialjunkie

obligations are very much part of the culture, where I come from. Sacrifices for your loved ones is eulogized. Showmakers are only exaggerating it for effect.

Whats disturbing is not what is shown. Whats extremely disturbing is that hoards of women are taking real life lessons from what is shown.
ASR the ideal husband
Khushi the ideal girl
Anjali-ASR the ideal bro/sis

Facts and fictions converging causing some confusion between reality and reelity?

Escapism can help one imagines but to what level is the question.

And to that end, the makers are OBLIVIOUS or pretend to be or simply dont want to acknowledge or dont care that the gobbledygook they churn out every week is lapped on, lock stock and barrel, as the very holy grail of definition of human character, a guide to actual living and a mantra to understand one's partner, sister or family!!!

Hmmm gobbledygook a word I use frequently which means yet again I am in CONFUSED land. That being the state of me very often after watching this drama. However I enjoy it inspite and despite as I am still hanging around

I get the creepies just thinking about the lessons people are drawing from this fare, that is utterly mediocre, under-non-researched, non-factual flights of someone's wild fancy.

A tad worrying agreed when lessons are drawn from this fare as you clearly put it

off my soap box now.

(adding colors for my own flights of fancy 😆)

Originally posted by: enigma17

Originally posted by: barun2297

great question posed n many people will have different takes on it. I believe, despite luv always being projected as superior in the end in real life many people r restricted with their duties. At present in iss pyar i wudnt refer 2 arnavs overprotectiveness of anjali as far fetched 4 three main reasons, firstly anjali has additional vulnerabiliy coz of her polio. Secondly coz of her very naive n gullible character n lastly coz they have both been orphans since a long time. Therefore i think arnavs concern is understandable.

Originally posted by: tangam

😆😆😆😆Ok,,,,get ready fro a totally against the grain...thought😆😆😆

Like me my thoughts to are bloody mix and stand out...(moslty alone)

So lets deal with the play first...

Anjies charactor is very underdeveloped as with all other charactors in the show but hers especially...

she is shown as needy, religious and smiling, sickeningly sweet...enough to give me a sugar high her bro will never have...

so if I were to fill the gaps...as per my mind (a dagerous thing)...they lost thier parents when Arnie was what 15...she was shown without a limp in fb (could be an oversight or a later injury but as it is with all of their med research...polio is the sickness allocated)...so he completed school and the went to harvard...on what...they were kicked out of thire residience...Nani took them in but apparently did not have much...we are made to believe that Arnie got them here...manorama helped with Jewelry...but nani keeps hinting that mano was the maid...so many disjointed versions...

I think to get Arnav where he is it was Anji that bore the brunt...begrudging herself of many things...

may have fallen ill etc...

so the shared past, grief and ugly story...the strength he lent on and then took off...makes him attached to her at a different level...the co dependency, the gratitude and guilt...a very strong and also dangerous relationship for it can be poisonous...

So I would not call it just duty but love also...all of our relationships are that a bit of everything...even love for a partner...just in different proportions...

right now his sister has more than earned his love and loyality...and for khushi it is a guilt ridden love he feels because of his short sighted ness...

and to be fair to Anji...as far as we know (which again for me is a flaw in her charactorisation) is unaware of how her brothers need to be her protector is coming in the way of his fullfillment...

hooof...that much for the fiction...now I will be back with the real life part...

edit

I am not sure if this is a disclaimer or educated review😆

this show is prone to vast exaggeration a neccasity for drama...but the needed basic story or premise and the necessary research is shoddy and wanting...making the exaggerations that much more unrealistic...

Originally posted by: DaShIng_GiRl

@tangam.. sinnie, DG umm drooler (😆).. whatever floats!

@SJ.. the point.. we don't need to draw any from the 0 researched show. i am still not convinced someone's doing that.. in fact maybe i give too much value to the viewers and say they are way mature to think so..

and more than once i have questioned that thought of yours.. strange love that.
women can multitask now, can't they? watch the show + discuss on the forum! (in reality - the show has nothing to offer today; so the latter is easier to do)

@enigma.. maybe i meant women sacrifice more than men in relationships. maybe i din't.. well, now you never know! hehe. maternal instincts - i have none. natural - yes!

@meera : LOL; how's the celeb of yours who you lost respect for?

Originally posted by: DaShIng_GiRl

@tangam.. sinnie, DG umm drooler (😆).. whatever floats!

@SJ.. the point.. we don't need to draw any from the 0 researched show. i am still not convinced someone's doing that.. in fact maybe i give too much value to the viewers and say they are way mature to think so..

and more than once i have questioned that thought of yours.. strange love that.
women can multitask now, can't they? watch the show + discuss on the forum! (in reality - the show has nothing to offer today; so the latter is easier to do)

@enigma.. maybe i meant women sacrifice more than men in relationships. maybe i din't.. well, now you never know! hehe. maternal instincts - i have none. natural - yes!

@meera : LOL; how's the celeb of yours who you lost respect for?