Why is an apology so important? - Gul Khan Heroes.(DT Note pg. 7) - Page 5

Originally posted by: Fantasia.

Thats a good POV, thank you for one non-bashing reply. Yes shivaay's character can borderline on being the silent one where his actions can be based to judge what is in his heart and trust me this is the POV i am trying to hold on to and enjoy thier scenes .. he has proposed to her two times and both times my hopes of a sorry were crushed and i am like .. nai shivaay needs to be judged by his actions but then i see him saying and confessing everything else which he didnt earlier except the apology and my poor heart goes back to have another hope .. and i am still keeping the faith that the wedding day will come a full circle 😳

Originally posted by: DarkPhoenix93

Have you watched Ishqbaaaz? Shivaay had a journey of redemption which is more than I can say for any of the Gul Khan heroes. He regretted about it so many times and he apologized in a million ways. Pre-separation, he proposed to Annika as a way to make up for the forced wedding...Please understand the character before making assumptions

Originally posted by: Fantasia.

I guess i should focus on people who uave something constructive to discuss and are not blind fangirls .

The severity of the crime determines the ease of forgiveness .. i so so want gauri to just push him and leave for once .. atleast one angry reaction is the right of any girl who goes through this .. i understand creatives have thier own limitations bit still a little work on the track would make it beautiful !

Originally posted by: blackorwhite

Wait a second, Shivaay NEVER apologized for the wedding?? 😕 He has apologized with actions and with words... Not once but more than once.. Just because he has not said the word 'Sorry'.. all his actions are moot now... That is really unfair..

1. Pre-separation - Proposed to her again..wanted to remarry her..Thought about a sweet simple wedding!

2.Even during the latest Re-marriage(the happiest day of his life, when they are starting afresh) ... They talked about the forced wedding and in his own way showed his regret for the past...that what he did was wrong and wanted to start afresh...- Zabardasti ka nahi...Khubsurati ka bandhan bandhan chahta hoon.. 😊

So, of-course he has introspected.. He regrets it, maybe always will.. He has tried to do a million things to make-up for it...

3. He has accepted time and again that Anika did not get her.. the HAQ she deserves!

You want to criticize Shivaay..please go ahead...Bas also give him his dues where he deserves it!

Anyways, it is all about perspective.. and too each their own.. I have realized and accepted that , Shivaay will always be on the path of redemption.. since that is what this fandom seems to want...*sigh*

Originally posted by: annikaa

Look I totally feel everyone has a different thinking and thats the best part of us humans. And I love to know others POVs, its a colourful world and their r many shades ...

As for Shivaay... And Maafi...

"Shivaay Singh Oberoi Maafi nahi maangta" we have heard it enough times...😆

Well he says it with Tadi...

But its also a hint that he just cant verbalise his regret and guilt.

We had a pool scene where he was about to say Sorry but she dint want to hear it.

She loves him and reads him she doesn't have to hear it, she can seebit in his actions in his eyes which speak baalti bhar bhar ke..!

If you have noticed, at many instances she has never let Shivaay ask anyone for forgiveness ...never let him because she knows what he is..!! Better than he himself!!

And the ultimate and highlighted was when he bent down his head in front of her before the proposal.

Dint it say all that could never be saod?

He has been a person of Jasbaat, emotions...and not Lafz.

Lafz is Omkara's zone.

And that one bowing before her was the ultimate.

Of course previous to this we have had many instances,

He has done actions that showed regret,

For her For Saahil

Taking a bullet!

And finally admitting... My life is you.

Originally posted by: angel_nonu

@bold red: That's the point of TM that he did not say exact word sorry to annika

whereas pre-separation day he clearly said that he was so wrong in blackmailing her to marry him. He is still so guilty of that and could't forgive himself. He admitted that he wants to rectify his mistake of forcing her and asked for her wish but I guess instead of these words and actions, exact words "I AM SORRY" is needed.