Why is an apology so important? - Gul Khan Heroes.(DT Note pg. 7)

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Hey all ..

While listing down elements of true love, we mention trust respect, understanding and a lot other things but apology. We label people as doormats living in abusive relationships but we never say that the cheating or the abusive partner should apologize and redeeem. Apology is so underrrated when according its one of the foundation of love where you realize ur fault and leave ur ego behind .. all that matters is another chance from that person .

So Omkara has certified that Gauri is having an affair and now he is playing with her .. I dont know how many of you saw Tumhaari Paakhi where it took one fake report and a time period of less than an hour for anshuman to believe Paakhi was cheating on him but it wasnt stretched .. he knows the truth in the next episode and it lead to one of the most beautiful redemptions ever on TV .. he went thru fire to apologize to Paakhi .. he waited and waited until she said yes .. now the thing is .. will Omkara ever be made to walk on fire or Gauri is going to be all forgiving? .. but i am hoping maybe JUST maybe we could get a redemption track like anshuman .. Om is going to nail it ! And down the line if only ONCE anika can complain to shivaay and shivaay can whole heartedly apologize for that forced wedding !
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Posted: 7 years ago
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GUl khan Heroes and apologizing 🤣
I don't know if that happens in real life coz the worst a girl ever could be questioned is about her character but all these female leads take it easily and start encouraging these male characters by calling it love.It happened all around her shows and it still happens.One or two close romantic scenes and all the mistakes are forgotten to romance more
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Posted: 7 years ago
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lol what show have you been watching? Anika has many times referenced the ugliness of the forced wedding directly or indirectly. It's a basic character trait that she doesn't let anything get her down. Picks herself up and keeps going.

As for Shivaay, lol amazing that this is still being made an issue after he has shown regret SO many times...pre seperation he wanted to atone by asking her to marry him out of her own free will, again he proposed to her after Pinky's OMM, and again he referenced the fact that he wanted to marry her the right way when they finally got married this time.

And still this is an issue and being used as something to compare Shivika with other pairs? lol to each their own but let's atleast get the facts of the Shivika story right.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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" Geet" dekhlo ,alag hai
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I guess you don't watch the 'Ishqbaaaz' that we watch as then you would not have said that Shivaay has not ever apologised to Annika. In fact when he finally proposed to Annika in front of media he said he wanted her to have the marriage she deserved. The very idea of the remarriage was to erase the bitterness of the forced marriage but I realise you either fast forward Shivika scenes or watch a different soap altogether.
Edited by Hriju321 - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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In Shivaay's case it was different. You need to know his character to understand his apology wont be in words. He is all about actions...more than words in general.

While Omkara, I see him apologising and crying asking for apology, that is his character.



Maker's arent sure bout Rudra, so how can I be!


Besides,
"Its Fiction " is always in my head.😆
If Real Life then I would want Teen Khoon Maaf+4 for me🤣

Edited by annikaa - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: AreYaar

lol what show have you been watching? Anika has many times referenced the ugliness of the forced wedding directly or indirectly. It's a basic character trait that she doesn't let anything get her down. Picks herself up and keeps going.

As for Shivaay, lol amazing that this is still being made an issue after he has shown regret SO many times...pre seperation he wanted to atone by asking her to marry him out of her own free will, again he proposed to her after Pinky's OMM, and again he referenced the fact that he wanted to marry her the right way when they finally got married this time.

And still this is an issue and being used as something to compare Shivika with other pairs? lol to each their own but let's atleast get the facts of the Shivika story right.


wonderful thoughts👏
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Have you watched Ishqbaaaz? Shivaay had a journey of redemption which is more than I can say for any of the Gul Khan heroes. He regretted about it so many times and he apologized in a million ways. Pre-separation, he proposed to Annika as a way to make up for the forced wedding...Please understand the character before making assumptions

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Posted: 7 years ago
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u know the things i am reading on IF these days
do u think a mere sorry is enough? i haven't seen the show u r talking about...but mopping the floor isn't the way to do it

u know i thought actions speak louder than words but coming to IF i have learned that only words matter

So u think a "sorry" and going through fire and sitting on ur knees is the way to ask for forgiveness then u r wrong
Shivaay might've not said those 3 words for the forced marriage...and I don't know if u have seen what happened after it or not...but that guy did everything he can to make that memory go away...
he made up for every mistake he did

sure a sorry would make her forgive but what he did make her forget what he did...Annika, at a point, forgot it was a forced marriage...she fell in love and found her own way of a happy ending

instead of asking a wronged person to beg,cry and go through tests to proove he's guilty...watch what he does...instead of a crying mopping Om, ask for an Om that gives Gauri respect, equality and lots of care...enough of care ,love and trust that she never remembers what happened


what u said about that show...that isn't called a redemption track (with all due respect) it's called a mopping session...where u ask the person at wrong to keep asking for apology...keep crying and begging ...


finally...comparing forced marraige to this isn't right...Shivika had such incident (and i am assuming u know that since u brought shivaay into this) and shivaay said those words...very beautifylly too
yet at some point, annika was still scared that Daksh will create an MU again...

but the way Shivaay redeemed his forced marriage "without apology, without begging" Annika never thought again that he'll force her or hurt her brother ever again

forget about the one that made the mistake...and look at the one who was wronged...what do u want gauri to have?
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Hey Kinzu
I do want Om to apologise. He was presented as sensitive n dil se sochne wala character so he HAVE to apologise
Gauri jaldi maaf kare ya der se woh nhi pata but apology must be there
Anyhow their story always get stuck so Paakhi type track nhi milega but uska 0 1% bhi chalega

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