Why is an apology so important? - Gul Khan Heroes.(DT Note pg. 7) - Page 2

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Posted: 7 years ago
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I hope they don't show a weak Gauri and Omkara's redemption nicely.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I bet u don't watch the show Ishqbaaaz😆
shivaay forced annika for the marriage but then he regretted it n apologized in many ways through actions. As they actions speak louder than words, the same goes here. To understand the ways he apologized n what he did for Annika, u should watch the show to see their journey. I don't want to rant here. He even asked for her hand with her own will twice.but i just want to say, don't go by words but see the actions too.

As far as Om is concerned, their confrontation is still not aired in the episode then how can u say abt apologizing. I'm sure even RIkara will have their own journey, n Om will truly try to apologize. be patient and watch the show and let the journey begin first.

And, the show which u were talking about, i followed it until the main lead got a double role😆 don't compare that show to this. IN that, the lead betrays the FL since the beginning, but here, shivaay does it on face.He didn't betray FL.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Since an apology is expected from Shivaay for his mis-deeds even after his redemption for countless times, I guess we can ask from you too for posting mis-leading post? 😆😆😆
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: AreYaar

lol what show have you been watching? Anika has many times referenced the ugliness of the forced wedding directly or indirectly. It's a basic character trait that she doesn't let anything get her down. Picks herself up and keeps going.

As for Shivaay, lol amazing that this is still being made an issue after he has shown regret SO many times...pre seperation he wanted to atone by asking her to marry him out of her own free will, again he proposed to her after Pinky's OMM, and again he referenced the fact that he wanted to marry her the right way when they finally got married this time.

And still this is an issue and being used as something to compare Shivika with other pairs? lol to each their own but let's atleast get the facts of the Shivika story right.



Firslt i am amazed at the number of LOLs' u have used in your answer . I am not mocking or passing snide remarks. I am not teasing anyone, its better to talk like mature individuals rather than using this tone.

Secondly, very surely i have been watching Ishqbaaz and i very well know HOW many times Anika has reffered to this incident .. apko pata chale ga kaisa lagta hai jab koi aur apki zindagi k faisle leta hai .. and then the same anika was pleading shivaay to answer her that please tell me why are u angry .. a girl who was threatened to marry him was pleading ( the time when S thought she slept with Daksh) , and i KNOW shivaay proposed to anika before she faked insulting Om and Rudy and then in the yellow dress under the sky .. i know all that i have seen all those scenes BUT i have NOT seen shivaay saying what he did was extremely wrong, how he hurted, and threatened to molest her if she didnt comply.

Giving anika the wedding she deserves .. alright .. but where has he mentioned HIS mistake? Where did he say he was the beast that day? Where have they both talked about that night? Where has anika said .. i forgive u shivaay .. that night doesn't haunt any more .. i want this apology. And thats MY POV !

Being able to pick yourself up and fight and complaining to the person who wholeheartedly loves you are two different things. You dont agree to me you are welcome. You think Shivaay has redeemed enough thats good for you ..i am not judging anyone who think shivaay redeemed. i love shivika and i badly want One single scene so i can not have any qualms of the couple i love .. for whom i binge watched 150 episodes on a spree.

My facts are straight, i know every scene but I am NOT convinced of his apology. Thank you cery much.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Hriju321

I guess you don't watch the 'Ishqbaaaz' that we watch as then you would not have said that Shivaay has not ever apologised to Annika. In fact when he finally proposed to Annika in front of media he said he wanted her to have the marriage she deserved. The very idea of the remarriage was to erase the bitterness of the forced marriage but I realise you either fast forward Shivika scenes or watch a different soap altogether.



I am amazed at the judgements here. Is it so alien to have a different expectation of an apology of a character you like? What is the issue here . I watch Ishqbaaz and yes i have seen shivaay saying i want to give u the wedding u deserve BUT i have not seen him reffereing to abika .. thats my exoectation. I made a cery harmless post, and before accusing me of saying i dont watch the show .. please mention me the scene where shivaay apologized to anika for that night .. said he was wrong and i am sorry .. i will edit my post and ask mods to close. Thank you.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: annikaa

In Shivaay's case it was different. You need to know his character to understand his apology wont be in words. He is all about actions...more than words in general.

While Omkara, I see him apologising and crying asking for apology, that is his character.



Maker's arent sure bout Rudra, so how can I be!


Besides,
"Its Fiction " is always in my head.😆
If Real Life then I would want Teen Khoon Maaf+4 for me🤣




Thats a good POV, thank you for one non-bashing reply. Yes shivaay's character can borderline on being the silent one where his actions can be based to judge what is in his heart and trust me this is the POV i am trying to hold on to and enjoy thier scenes .. he has proposed to her two times and both times my hopes of a sorry were crushed and i am like .. nai shivaay needs to be judged by his actions but then i see him saying and confessing everything else which he didnt earlier except the apology and my poor heart goes back to have another hope .. and i am still keeping the faith that the wedding day will come a full circle 😳
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Honestly , this entire misunderstanding Gauri track was utterly stupid & nonsense . It made a pappu of both Gauri & Om's characters . Gauri was in in Bareilly ,for more than 15 days,her mother was severely ill & she didn't thought once to inform Om or anyone else in the house ! Kaun karta hai aisa ? I expected better from Gauri Kumari Sharma .
Om just saw Gauri & Arjun's name in a hotel register & concluded that they are having an affair or something ? Why couldn't he wait for more concrete evidence ?
Frankly this track is worth digesting only & only because of fantasic acting by Kunal Jaisingh , nothing else ! And when the entire MU track is so half baked & stupid there is no use hoping & expecting a proper redemption track !
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: DarkPhoenix93

Have you watched Ishqbaaaz? Shivaay had a journey of redemption which is more than I can say for any of the Gul Khan heroes. He regretted about it so many times and he apologized in a million ways. Pre-separation, he proposed to Annika as a way to make up for the forced wedding...Please understand the character before making assumptions




OMG ! Do i need to sign an affidivat that i watch the show? Just because i dont post here often means i dont watch the show?

Regretted a million times? OMG where ? Now i need to ask you that do YOU watch Ishqbaaz? Can u give me one instance where his FB's or monologues were related to that night?

Yeah everyone is referring to the proposal .. i am not convinced thats my POV .. can everyone here stop acting as if they dont know it already. This type of redemtpion is good for u .. thats great .. its not for me .. what is the problem? Did i judge anyone who thinks shivaay has redemmed?
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Fantasia.



Firslt i am amazed at the number of LOLs' u have used in your answer . I am not mocking or passing snide remarks. I am not teasing anyone, its better to talk like mature individuals rather than using this tone.

Secondly, very surely i have been watching Ishqbaaz and i very well know HOW many times Anika has reffered to this incident .. apko pata chale ga kaisa lagta hai jab koi aur apki zindagi k faisle leta hai .. and then the same anika was pleading shivaay to answer her that please tell me why are u angry .. a girl who was threatened to marry him was pleading ( the time when S thought she slept with Daksh) , and i KNOW shivaay proposed to anika before she faked insulting Om and Rudy and then in the yellow dress under the sky .. i know all that i have seen all those scenes BUT i have NOT seen shivaay saying what he did was extremely wrong, how he hurted, and threatened to molest her if she didnt comply.

Giving anika the wedding she deserves .. alright .. but where has he mentioned HIS mistake? Where did he say he was the beast that day? Where have they both talked about that night? Where has anika said .. i forgive u shivaay .. that night doesn't haunt any more .. i want this apology. And thats MY POV !

Being able to pick yourself up and fight and complaining to the person who wholeheartedly loves you are two different things. You dont agree to me you are welcome. You think Shivaay has redeemed enough thats good for you ..i am not judging anyone who think shivaay redeemed. i love shivika and i badly want One single scene so i can not have any qualms of the couple i love .. for whom i binge watched 150 episodes on a spree.

My facts are straight, i know every scene but I am NOT convinced of his apology. Thank you cery much.




I have no choice but to LOL😆😆...I have to LOL when I hear stuff like Shivay threatened to "molest" her😆...shows the huge gap in perception we have here. If you want to interpret that as mocking, that's up to you. I was merely expressing my amazement at how people still keep saying that Shivaay hasn't apologized...lol


Clearly our basic understanding of Shivaay's character and Shivika's journey is on completely different planes if you fully want to hinge it on a rehashing of the forced wedding point by point with Shivaay apologizing for specific bullet points and everything else he has done to atone is completely dismissed. To some, those gestures matter far more in terms of atonement than the technicality of an apology.


Btw if you want to get technical, Shivaay did talk about his mistake in the scene with Rudy after he learns of Anika's past too...he again expressed disgust at what he had done to her that day...but I suppose that doesn't count in your books either😆


This is giving me deja vu of the whole ILU technicality...to some people, unless he says the exact words, his actions count for nothing...in the same way unless he rehashes the whole forced wedding, apologizes for SPECIFIC points, his atonement counts for nothing...the understanding b/w Shivika counts for nothing😆
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: VasusenaRadheya

Honestly , this entire misunderstanding Gauri track was utterly stupid & nonsense . It made a pappu of both Gauri & Om's characters . Gauri was in in Bareilly ,for more than 15 days,her mother was severely ill & she didn't thought once to inform Om or anyone else in the house !Kaun karta hai aisa ? I expected better from Gauri Kumari Sharma .

Om just saw Gauri & Arjun's name in a hotel register & concluded that they are having an affair or something ?Why couldn't he wait for more concrete evidence ?
Frankly this track is worth digesting only & only because of fantasic acting by Kunal Jaisingh , nothing else ! And when the entire MU track is so half baked & stupid there is no use hoping & expecting a proper redemption track !


Barielly mai network issues hai...Ambani is looking at the matter 😆

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