It's complicated Bro... 11.7

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Looks like the younger brothers and their girls have started their grand plan to help Shivaay and Annika get back together. But in their game plan, they are accidentally hurting their other halves and feeling bad.

Girls tossed the OBros into the pool at Annika's signal , after Shivaay shows tadi to mock and challenge them. But the victory was shortlived as the big babies walked drenched into the kitchen and activated their care-o-meter. All feel anxious for the boys' health and separately plot to take care of them.

While OmRu were clearly cold and chilled to the bone, they kept up their tadibaaz faces to keep Bade Bhaiya company. As the girls' did with Annika. Adorable bunch they are.
Shivika

Annika and Shivaay continue their "Jealous hai" fight. Shivaay, still smarting from his failure to get a reaction from Annika with regs to his "engagement", moved to scratch the wound. Irritated to be called "Chui Mui" (funny how he understood that by himself😆) , he picked up HER ice cream bowl and started eating from it. Instantly worried, Annika nags him into stopping and snatching the bowl away.

Typical that he should get a reaction from her by harming himself, isn't it. Exactly like the time he got himself beaten black and blue by goons , looking to see if she was worried about him. All to see her faraqs for him. Big Baby. 😲

It worked, she was fretting over him and worried. Then he moved to drive his earlier point home.

"Are you jealous of Ragini? " Wow, straight to the point huh , Shivaay?
"Nope, even my new shoe Chikni isn't jealous of her.." she retorts. She tried to leave but he holds her back. He can see the touch is still having the same effect as it always did.

"Why should I be jealous? We have both moved on, right?" she says averting her eyes. Lying isn't her best suits. Even as she broke up with him, she had used harsh truths.

He has probably figured out he can only disable her like this. His touch unnerves her, scrambles her brains a little. Uses the opportunity to payback for going out with another man in that dress and letting another man catch her fall (sounds petty, I know).

"I got engaged. Have some sweets." He holds her jaws gently, feeds her a spoon of ice cream, and walks away, having scored a point.

How did it look like to the vamp and her future vamp saas? Like the cold unfeeling man just lovingly fed his wife ice cream , holding her face and her full wide eyed attention.
EVen Pinky can see, them being under the same roof, it's just a matter of time, they will be close again. *^#()#*$^^#%*@)($#_**#&* 😡




Shivaay' state of mind & Annika's gussa (It's complicated Bro..!)

Remember how Annika was totally broken post the forced marriage? We cribbed about how Annika lost her bindaas attitude, and became a weepy girl just following what Shivaay made her do, sacrificing everything, and her self respect. Actually she had lost her way, lost her independence.
She had to rebuild herself up front the ground after she was kicked out by Shivaay. She got up. She became herself again. Nobody's got her back, she's got her own back. (and Chanda of course) Because the "love of her life" had thrown her out, despite promising to be her companion, her anchor through everything.

Now see how Shivaay is after Annika forced him to make the divorce happen. He's lost his sharpness, his smarts, Smart&Shark Singh Oberoi asleep somewhere in a dark cave. This Angry&Sad Singh Oberoi is now just circling around her , very upset that she appeared to have moved on.

How could she move on FROM ME?
(See the disdain when he looked at Rohit the halwaii. And the agitated ire while he watched their lunch date at the restaurant.)

His pride is hurt. His heart is broken. He failed at marriage. He trusted the wrong person. His proposal got rejected, she walked away from him.

He hasn't spared any thought about her. If he did, he'd realize she gained NOTHING from what she did. Not even alimony. Zero.

Annika is angry. He proposed marriage to Ragini in front of all. She has no reason to believe otherwise after what she saw in the newspapers. She has always felt insecure and unworthy of being married to Shivaay.

Yes, he still wears her ring on his finger. But his words, they hurt a lot. She has always been alone, with Sahil to care for. To create a space filled with so much trust for Shivaay in her life, and for him to throw divorce papers like that and throw her out, after all they have been through together was awful.

He made promises to her. He said she was family. He'd never throw out his family, but he did her. She had to do all that because his mother had blackmailed her, but who forced him to divorce her and kick her out? How is she to ever trust him again?

I'm so glad at the point of break up , she used truths to pick up on their fragile equation of marriage. Yes, they were like Best Friends, Teammates, Co-conspirators, absolute trust and loyalty, but lovers? That aspect was just beginning, and Shivaay wanted to take it bullet speed to their first night.

I have always thought their separation was very necessary, for both. To deal with Shivaay's one sided advantages in marriage, and to deal with Annika's insecurities. Let them fight it out. I'm happy.



Rikara

Gauri said : " Annika Bhojai isn't wrong also. However the relationship is, Trust is very important in keeping it alive. I trusted in Omkara, but he doesn't not trust me back the same way. So, I'm keeping away from him so he can realize what is wrong with our relationship. "

Omkara is feeling the distance , because Gauri isn't like this. It's good that he starts thinking about her seriously. She has been a loyal companion through so much trouble, he needs to reflect on a lot.

RuVya

Bhavya said : " Bade Bhaiyya, whatever I did was to protect Rudra, but he's taking it as though I made a fool of him, i betrayed him. You guys are right in your stand, but we are not wrong either."

OBros

OBros' sit moping about their girls, the song was funny and adorable.. Shivaay realizes his brothers are missing their wife/gf , and its all happening because of them. It was a cute scene brought back all the old feels.👏

I really liked the multifaceted complex plot plan Shivaay hatched to patch his brothers with their girls.

Their conversation had so many double meanings , but alas the so called Smart SIngh OBeroi doesn't reflect on himself with all the advice he's dishing out.

"I was wrong to treat Gauri badly, and I have realized my mistake. But she won't let me make up for it, instead she gets angry with me..! "

"Maybe he doesn't accept their marriage, but Om and Gauri are perfect for each other. What Gauri has done for this family is apparent to all. I think Omkara is overreacting. We should patch them up.


"I feel used, Bhaiya. She used me for her mission. I feel hurt."

"Problem is Rudra's ego is hurt. How can a girl be stronger that him? And what is Bhavya's mistake? A cop is a cop. I think Rudra is overreacting. We should patch them up.


I like how all these advice can be projected back at him for his refusal to see Annika's side of their issues. He feels only he has been wronged, (I,I , me , myself, mine) and Annika is the culprit who must be punished. Not to be understood, not spoken to, not to be negotiated with.

Must make a post one day about all the hometruths Annika spoke the day their marriage ended. all of them will be addressed slowly. Mark my words. (Oh, overconfidence there..)

Did you guys see the smirk on his face when Annika appreciated his chantomaiye-ness.


Other misc points:

1. Ragini : Her expressions mocking in reacting to Pinky was frankly hilarious. I enjoyed the funny faces , this woman will throw Pinky under the bus when she has overstayed her welcome. She wants Shivaay, she'll get rid of the sticky overbearing mom for sure. Ragini plays her own schemes, and Shivaay even shuts his mom up and listens straight from Ragini what the matter causing tears.

Nothing will work. Ragini is already beginning to look more psycho by the day. Frankly I'm a little tired of seeing Annika fend off Khandani Gold diggers from Shivaay. Yawn.

Funny how Shivaay pulls out of the statue embrace as soon as Annika leaves the scene.

Rags is telling her brother about Annika and he is surprised to find the same Annika is SSO's ex wife. For some reason, that scene of SSO breaking down SJM's property boards seem to keep recurring in the mind. He still has a neutral expression, can't make out if he's mad about it or just meh.

But silver lining is he warns his sister not to "crazy" stuff to get what she wants, and she refuses to listen. Uh Oh, crazy psycho detected. Female Daksh? Yawn.
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samprettyy thumbnail
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Awesome post As always! I always look for your post everyday just to know your perspective! I really wish Shivay become smart Singh oberoi soon! Ragini is making pappu out of him n he is blindly believing in her
Loved shivika scene in kitchen! What is he up to?? They never show that he thinks...ani we know.i really wish ragini making pinkie oom .as per spoilers when oberoi team up to expose ragini..pinkies involvement should also come out.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Anisa aaammmazinggg post as usual ❤️
You actually expressed everything I was feeling today, and you did it so beautifully, I too had called out on the parallels between the forced marraige and the forced divorce before the separation had actually occurred. Somewhere I had come to the conclusion that the we would see the same emotions but in reverse, it will be Shivaays turn to break down and then pick himself back up and that's what we are seeing.
Annika has been saying over the past two days your "I" is what has ruined things, and she's right, this was addressed before the jungle track where she said shviaay dictates everything in their relationship. Yes, the Shivika progression was a beautiful one and it hurt to see them break apart, but I was one of those who was against their SR. I thought it was too soon, and somewhere I believe I was right. Their relationship is built on the complexities of these characters. There is so much more to them, and there is so much that needs to be addressed. Shivaay's understanding that "me, myself and I" does not work in a relationship of "us", and Annika's insecurities of her not being worthy needs to be addressed!

They have a huge journey ahead, but sometimes I wish I could fast forward to the end just to know what happens lol helps with the frustration 😆

Great post as usual!😊
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Amazing post as usual.
Past two episodes have shaped up really nice. Agree to all you have written so won't repeat it.

Don't you feel the truths which Gauri and Bhavya told Shivaay applies to him too? He needed to have the trust to ensure the relation works and what A did was to protect S. So nice parallel there too.

PinGini I just forwarded their part. But yeah Ragini will do a nice pappu of Pinky aunty when going goes tough for her.

Loved that Anikka says, 'Shivaay will correct it'. Not just because Shivaay needed to hear from her the trust she has on him but because she has not yet been given the position back where she can say that 'we will correct it'.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: samprettyy

Awesome post As always! I always look for your post everyday just to know your perspective! I really wish Shivay become smart Singh oberoi soon! Ragini is making pappu out of him n he is blindly believing in her

Loved shivika scene in kitchen! What is he up to?? They never show that he thinks...ani we know.i really wish ragini making pinkie oom .as per spoilers when oberoi team up to expose ragini..pinkies involvement should also come out.


Pinky thought herself very clever in backing Ragini. Ragini doesn't give two hoots about her. Ragini is not Tia, at least Tia has some kind of fondness for Pinky.

I dunno what to think about Annika and exposing Ragini, and how SJM will fit into picture. All i know is the rebooted track is usually different from the first. So I'm not going to stick my neck out and theorize when nothing looks obvious..😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Anisa, your analysis is just perfect.
I was waiting for it before I doze off as morrow is a busy day.

Honestly this camouflage of their (Shivika) feelings in the name of 'move on' is beginning to touch some of mine nerves it is about time they get out of this game

Looking forward too... for Annika hometruths to be addressed one by one but precap made me feel it ain't gonna happen😆 writer might just bypass it straight to honoring her as wife and dose it.

Was it my misinterpretation or did Samar defend Annika saying (She is not fat...😲)hmm he did notice her by just one touch😆 huh...that sounds like trouble coming.😊

Am trying hard to follow Om and Rudra story but well I guess I have to go with the flow as I did not watch their LS. Loving the family dynamics though.

It was a wonderful episode; I hope it continues this way.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: AnnzSageflower7


Pinky thought herself very clever in backing Ragini. Ragini doesn't give two hoots about her. Ragini is not Tia, at least Tia has some kind of fondness for Pinky.

I dunno what to think about Annika and exposing Ragini, and how SJM will fit into picture. All i know is the rebooted track is usually different from the first. So I'm not going to stick my neck out and theorize when nothing looks obvious..😆


S..whats s role summer ? Only cvs know..i always skip pigini n summer scenes so don't know what they r up to...my guess work always fails I'm very bad at that...
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Originally posted by: cestlavie

Anisa aaammmazinggg post as usual ❤️

You actually expressed everything I was feeling today, and you did it so beautifully, I too had called out on the parallels between the forced marraige and the forced divorce before the separation had actually occurred. Somewhere I had come to the conclusion that the we would see the same emotions but in reverse, it will be Shivaays turn to break down and then pick himself back up and that's what we are seeing.
Annika has been saying over the past two days your "I" is what has ruined things, and she's right, this was addressed before the jungle track where she said shviaay dictates everything in their relationship. Yes, the Shivika progression was a beautiful one and it hurt to see them break apart, but I was one of those who was against their SR. I thought it was too soon, and somewhere I believe I was right. Their relationship is built on the complexities of these characters. There is so much more to them, and there is so much that needs to be addressed. Shivaay's understanding that "me, myself and I" does not work in a relationship of "us", and Annika's insecurities of her not being worthy needs to be addressed!

They have a huge journey ahead, but sometimes I wish I could fast forward to the end just to know what happens lol helps with the frustration 😆

Great post as usual!😊


I know right, I feel impatience to binge watch it all too...😆

I can't wait for that moment he realizes what really happened. Some think that he will be mad at her and angry that she didn't trust him enough to tell him the truth. But I think he'll understand what she did because he did the same for Om, shielded him from the fact and the video totally.

I have a strange feeling Shivaay will stumble unto the truth himself. Nobody is going to tell him anything. They will all fight for him in the background and he will find out himself. It will just show how much everyone loves him in that house. And how terrible his mother is, she herself will expose her sins.

If anyone says anything about Pinky, she will cry crocodile tears and create HUGE drama, which Shivaay cannot deal with. So by this logic , only she can expose herself.


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Posted: 8 years ago
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Sorry.. I just have to comment.. and I don't want to make this Anika vs Shivaay discussion(I do like them both a lot...😊)..BUT
Why do your posts generally and primarily just highlight how Shivaay failed Anika.. How he was not there for her..How he did not trust her.. How he broke his promises to her.. How he threw her out and divorced her..How his brain is not working.. How he is not figuring out things.. All facts and valid points..BUT

Why do they never talk about how Anika failed him... How she broke him.. How she did not trust him either - He also created a place of trust for her.. How she also broke her promises to him - Jungle and NT track...How she emotionally manipulated him during the separation and even after the lapse.. How she still has not realized how ruthlessly she went about the separation - She has realized he is lost without her and regrets giving in to Pinky's blackmail...but I still have not seen any regret/guilt in her for the method(emotional manipulation) she used... If she regretted that she would have apologized..

Also, Why is it only Shivaay's fault that there was imbalance in this relationship? Yes, he is at fault and yes this had to be addressed..I am not denying that.. BUT Anika silently let him take the lead in this relationship, so she is at fault as well.. She could/should have stood up for herself..

She did not think Shivaay was her family either.. he was her friend.. Otherwise she would not have done what she did.. and this was partly due to Shivaay's behaviour and partly due to her insecurities..

And not just Anika.. How will even Shivaay trust her now?? IMO, Even she has to gain Shivaay's trust back as well.. She has to work on/for this relationship as well.. She has a lot of learn as a well.. She has to redeem as well..

As far as Anika is concerned.. I blame the writing for the above rant...😆

And I really don't mean any offense.. & Sorry again! Also,yes I have not read all your posts.. 😊So, maybe you did point out Anika's failures/flaws in one of them.. but I have not seen it in any of the ones that I have read..


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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: prabhata

Amazing post as usual.

Past two episodes have shaped up really nice. Agree to all you have written so won't repeat it.

Don't you feel the truths which Gauri and Bhavya told Shivaay applies to him too? He needed to have the trust to ensure the relation works and what A did was to protect S. So nice parallel there too.

Exactly what I was saying ! He can appreciate Gauri and Bhavya for what they did, but not Annika. He has taken Annika for granted a lot. Undervalued her. Harsh but true. How much has Annika done for all of them?

How is it that when Annika playacted rudely to create drama, OmRu didn't buy it at all?

PinGini I just forwarded their part. But yeah Ragini will do a nice pappu of Pinky aunty when going goes tough for her.

Loved that Anikka says, 'Shivaay will correct it'. Not just because Shivaay needed to hear from her the trust she has on him but because she has not yet been given the position back where she can say that 'we will correct it'.

Loved the scene with Dadi. She was so upset and disappointed that they broke up. She had pinned her hopes on them to carry on her home happily in the future. And in one moment, everything splintered into pieces.



One thing though, when Annika tried to tell Shivaay, that Pinky was behind Nayantara, he completely blanked her out. She tried hard, saying that she was just telling the truth. And he didn't believe her. With what leg will he stand if he were to accuse her of withholding truth from him?


In anger, he shouted at her over and over, said cruel things about that. Saying she did all that because she didn't grow up with a family herself. So she cowed to blackmail, "You're never to accuse a mother" he said.

What was she supposed to do in that position?

That day, he was so sorry for shouting so much at her, and pointing fingers at her lack of parvarish.

Soon, he'll be so sorry for throwing divorce papers at her and cruelly throwing her out of his life..😭

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