It's complicated Bro... 11.7 - Page 2

Originally posted by: blackorwhite

Sorry.. I just have to comment.. and I don't want to make this Anika vs Shivaay discussion(I do like them both a lot...😊)..BUT

Why do your posts generally and primarily just highlight how Shivaay failed Anika.. How he was not there for her..How he did not trust her.. How he broke his promises to her.. How he threw her out and divorced her..How his brain is not working.. How he is not figuring out things.. All facts and valid points..BUT

Why do they never talk about how Anika failed him... How she broke him.. How she did not trust him either - He also created a place of trust for her.. How she also broke her promises to him - Jungle and NT track...How she emotionally manipulated him during the separation and even after the lapse.. How she still has not realized how ruthlessly she went about the separation - She has realized he is lost without her and regrets giving in to Pinky's blackmail...but I still have not seen any regret/guilt in her for the method(emotional manipulation) she used... If she regretted that she would have apologized..

Also, Why is it only Shivaay's fault that there was imbalance in this relationship? Yes, he is at fault and yes this had to be addressed..I am not denying that.. BUT Anika silently let him take the lead in this relationship, so she is at fault as well.. She could/should have stood up for herself..

She did not think Shivaay was her family either.. he was her friend.. Otherwise she would not have done what she did.. and this was partly due to Shivaay's behaviour and partly due to her insecurities..

And not just Anika.. How will even Shivaay trust her now?? IMO, Even she has to gain Shivaay's trust back as well.. She has to work on/for this relationship as well.. She has a lot of learn as a well.. She has to redeem as well..

As far as Anika is concerned.. I blame the writing for the above rant...😆

And I really don't mean any offense.. & Sorry again! Also,yes I have not read all your posts.. 😊So, maybe you did point out Anika's failures/flaws in one of them.. but I have not seen it in any of the ones that I have read..

Originally posted by: BeaBea

Anisa, your analysis is just perfect.

I was waiting for it before I doze off as morrow is a busy day.

Honestly this camouflage of their (Shivika) feelings in the name of 'move on' is beginning to touch some of mine nerves it is about time they get out of this game

Looking forward too... for Annika hometruths to be addressed one by one but precap made me feel it ain't gonna happen😆 writer might just bypass it straight to honoring her as wife and dose it.

I was discussing with some pals on Twitter just this. Shivaay may just remember how Annika really is and put that event away as a one off and forgive Annika. Because no one was going to tell Shivaay the truth anyway. Pinky is going to expose herself, is our theory..😆 the clever fox can't get away ALL the time right?

Was it my misinterpretation or did Samar defend Annika saying (She is not fat...😲)hmm he did notice her by just one touch😆 huh...that sounds like trouble coming.😊

I don't know Bea, they have kept Samar carefully neutral, he could go either way. I' would like very much for him to be a good guy, but who knows what he'd do for his sister's madness.

Am trying hard to follow Om and Rudra story but well I guess I have to go with the flow as I did not watch their LS. Loving the family dynamics though.

It was a wonderful episode; I hope it continues this way.

Originally posted by: samprettyy

S..whats s role summer ? Only cvs know..i always skip pigini n summer scenes so don't know what they r up to...my guess work always fails I'm very bad at that...

Originally posted by: AnnzSageflower7

You're right BW. Annika also has made many mistakes. And I have detailed them in many posts, it's just that you choose to comment on the ones where I haven't summarized how everybody has made mistakes. I can't yaar. 😆

I need lots of time to sit and compose politically correct posts that won't piss off someone.

Originally posted by: AnnzSageflower7

Must make a post one day about all the hometruths Annika spoke the day their marriage ended. all of them will be addressed slowly. Mark my words. (Oh, overconfidence there..)

Originally posted by: asya34

Lovely detailed post as always Anisa. You always take the trouble to make one .. thank you🤗
Frankly at this point I see one of the things, out of the many, that Annika accused the Family of not fulfilling, coming true ... This is not one of her complaints against her husband but this is one that is against the whole Family and in my opinion very very legit

Shivvay always takes care of other peoples problems but no one steps forward to take care of Shivvay's problems ever.
That complaint I feel is being addressed not by the elders of the house, but surprisingly, by the younger ones in the house. But then the brothers do love Shivvay more than anyone (barring Annika) does so it would be right that they address this major complaint that she had registered to the Family to be addressed before she left. Unfortunately for 3 months not one elder gave a damn about Shivvay (asking him to work on his broken relationship to find out what and why it happened), just as she had predicted, and now that Om is back (from his coma) he decided that it would be him and Rudy who would take care of this for their Bhaiya and Bhabhi.

I am glad someone thinks that ShivIka is not always able to handle their marriage on their own and sometimes needs nurturing and a gentle guiding hand. I am glad someone thinks ShivIka need positive external support, interference and reinforcements from time to time. I am glad that there are brothers and their wives/partners who care enough to see this couple struggling to get back on their feet again. I am glad to see these caring siblings holding their hands as they waver in their steps towards each other and guide them lovingly, coaxing them to give this another chance.
ShivIka are blessed in being a part of this team that is building slowly but surely and I have complete faith that this team will rest only when they prove to their Bhabhi that they too take the burden to make things right when needed. That they too care about Shivvay as much as he cares about them and that Shivvay is not abandoned in his hour of need.
They too can be as responsible about their bade Bhaiya and Bhabhi as their Bade Bhaiya and Bhabhi are for them ❤️
The building of Jr. Team O's in progress folks - make notes as they do that

Originally posted by: angel_nonu

You have said everything Anisa. Nothing to add 😊

Above part. Please do make a post whenever you get time. Would love to have discussion on them 😊