ShivIka's Slow Progress and my take on it - Page 5

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Pearl... If im waiting for an update on FF.. Am I being too hopeful?
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Awesome post Pearl!!!
I too love the progression and it's pace. I enjoy the courting phase more than the full on romance and jumping to 3rd base. Shivaay being more experienced, possessive and as you put it, is more a person who associates 'propritery' to his relationship wants to own and possess Anika. She has been the loner and been alone throughout her life and is new to all this. Both don't know what love is but both love all their relations with a passion and protectiveness. Now they have ended up falling in love with each other where in actual sense they BELONG to each other like no body else and do not have to share the other with anyone. The kind of love that exist is just magical.
I too agree that Shivika are by far the best onscreen couple and I too will make them my bench mark to judge the others. I also feel that it will be along time that any body else will come closer to them. Saying all this I also want to add that they are also the most realistic couple on screen. Here all the credit goes to the makers of this awesome show that we both and many like us have fallen in love with. The credit also goes to NM-SC for bringing life to Shivika. I can not imagine anyone else other than NM as Shivaay and no body can play Anika better that SC. I have to be honest that I was not very happy with the FL earlier. But SC has impressed me.(did not see QH). She has become my most liked actress.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Very well written ... before Shivika got married , both had feelings for each other .. shivaay had almost told her in the drugged state that how much he loved her and then ofcourse he ran way from that situation by putting the ring on Tia's finger .. then Daksh'a arrival and the MU . The marriage may have been done on the ground of hatred but once the MU got cleared , he was like a loving caring hubby even during Tia's P thing.
The progression of their relationship is good..the way he carried her home from her friend's place and then comforted her in his lap and when she got up from there suddenly realising , he didnt really want her to go. Anika is naive anaadi type... shivaay has to teach her many things and she will learn with time and her shyness and hesitation will shed 😉
They would be the No. 1 IBs of the family

Your name reminds me of this cute actor from Badtameez dil
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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amazing post. Thank you very much for this post 😊
you said it all. Thank you

As for annika, I feel her fear/insecurities are very deep rooted rather than shivaay's NKK becauseshe has seen lose all her life. She has to fight for everything in her life.
Like she said to shivaay that "bhagwan ko pta nhi mujhse kya michmichi machti hai ke thodi si khushi dete hai to uske badle me kuch bahut bada le lete hai"
Her another dialogue in last episode "hamesha is tarah trailor khusiyon ka tha lekin film B-grade sad". So whenever she gets happy her fear increases more that this happiness will go. Thats is why even though Shivaay keeps assuring her but she is not able to fully come out of her fear. This is fear which she lived all her life, faced it so it will take some time for her. ... and so true. She always has fleeting happiness. And now that she has Shivvay she is worried that the bigger the happiness the greater her loss in her life.

Some people say that why is it so hard for her to believe that shivaay accepted her fully and will not go away from her but they are not getting that she has lived fear of lossing happiness/or infact have seen sadness wrapped in happiness bubble so it is hard for her to fully let go of her fear. She is coming out of that zone slowly but we need to give her sometime. I completely agree. She has to work this out gradually and accept the fact that she has him forever - no matter what.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Awesome post Pearl and all the replies here as well 😊 Thanks from me and all here ..lol

May be I'm biased towards Shivika / NM-SC , but this is the first show where I've seen this much emotional connect , understanding and trust between a couple. IB has it's fair share of crazy tracks but the one thing that is absolutely brilliant is Shivika ❤️ The fact that there is no long drawn out misunderstanding track between the two, helped a lot in their relationship. Exactly why I love them as well. This is an everyday couple you and I could relate to. They have their fights, misunderstandings and their sorrows but what I love is that they have shown them battle these within the 'parameters' of a marriage.
Neither had to suffer a long drawn out separation because of an MU post marriage. I love that. It shows strength in fighting their issues (between themselves) together as opposed to each battling it out individually on their own while pining away like 'devdas'.

And Shivaay's journey of redemption from that dark day of marriage has been remarkable! In the jungle track where Anika is hiding behind that curtain with her cute expressions in that glasses , the way he says "tum chuppi huyi ho ? " like talking to a child was so adorable, he wants to make it up to her for all that she had suffered since she was a child and with her he also becomes child like Oh! the way this man indulges her is adorable to the power of tiffany ..lol She is his "Annika Baby' if he could call her that 😆 but Tia key yaad sey chameli na pad jaye Billu ko 🤣

As for Anika her insecurities are deep rooted but she is not just concerned about Shivaay's acceptance ( Shivaay has given her more than the assurance she needed) but for the approval of his mother Pinky! In the jungle track she was a care free person but the minute they are back to OM she is a different person altogether, her childishness disappeared and she was afraid of Shivaay taking care of her for the reason whether Pinky would like it or not ! She wants to hold on to this family as a whole. Very true. She feels that she is the reason for Pinky's unhappiness and sorrows
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Posted: 8 years ago
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This is absolutely brilliant👏 one of the splendid analysis ive ever read in this forum👏😊 i completely agree with ur rationale😊 its true. I desperately wonder when she ll upgrade her operating system from dost to biwi😆 She will when she stops seeing him as Om, Rudy and Prinku's older brother and starts seeing him as Shivvay. The guy who is flesh and blood.. the guy who has feelings ... the guy who has wants and desires ...

The guy who flirts and makes moves on his Biwi at every given oppertunity, watches 'Jism ki Bhook' kind of movies when he chills with his younger brother without batting an eyelid, the guy who is not the 'stick in the mud' she knew him to be when he was engaged to Tia, the guy who caresses his wife intimately and even plants kisses on her to ensure that she feels the same pangs of desire she feels... basically a man who is 'Flesh and Blood' not someone she has painted him to be.

As for Billu, up until now he has been restrained in his interaction with Annika because of her comfort level with these matters. The girl hyperventilates only when he hugs her aur kuch kare bandha toh Om key jaise CPR na dena pade Biwi ko... 🤣 🤣 But that is not for long as he is increasing the heat everyday and with every opportunity he finds. He has become comfortable enough to do all this without a moments though or hesitation and that shows that he is just waiting for her to catch up to him.

I can see she is now in beta version of biwi mode😆 bollywood wet hair waking, blaming her pati for not being romantic in jungle ,for not getting hint to stay there alone😆 etc etc.. but still long way to go
Ps. Although logical brain screams this is sooo true, the illogical and crazy heart still wishes for shivika firey scenes😉😆sorry yaar😆 am so tired looking at their foreheads😉 Aab Delhi door nahi hai !!!! 😉😆

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Im ok with shivika progress even i love shivika for their emotional bonding e.t.c instead of physically attraction only. My only prob is that shivika need to spend time with eachother for their growth but in show they r busy with detective stuff aur future mein bhi i see no further growth just consoling stuff aur phir koi dna test e.t.c They r busy in the problems and r not getting proper scene..by proper scene i don't mean romantic scene but proper conversation scene.
Ib mein nowadays either track starts with comedy and end with comedy or starts with drama and ends with drama. The track with NT right now is somehow tied, I feel, with the Mahi track unfolding. They have brought Ranveer and Kamini back in which means that is the next phase. This fake mom track is less for Annika and more for Shivvay. NT is merely the catalyst in Shivvay -Pinky clash happening where Pinky would have crossed all limits of decency in Shivvay's eyes. We all know his over protectiveness for Annika and we can only imagine how Shivvay is going to take this betrayal at the hands of his own mother.

Up until now he has not been very vocal about Pinky's ill treatment of Annika because he probably had assumed that it would just be something that would work out over time. But finding out that she has orchestrated it all drives him deeper into his wife's arms and father away from his mother. I may be wrong but either there is a physical separation between mother-son where Shivvay walks out of OM with this and Mahi revelation coming to the fore or Shivvay emotionally separates from his mom while still in OM

The whole thing is to bring about the last NKK wall (mother of my children) coming down. Something earthshaking has to bring about that change in Shivvay. It is not something one just works out of ones system. It has to come in the form of a 'hard slap' that wakes you up from the belief you lived by all your life, and makes you take a second look.
Till then we have to enjoy brief moments of romance ..lol

Since they won international jodi award.They r not even getting proper ss.I mean maximum time is taken by nt-pinky drama or priveer.beech mein shivika ka hug ya forehead kiss dal dete hain.next week bhi kuch nahi hona.Because MS mein bhi bakwas drama hoga shivka ka koi proper scene nahi milega.I don't like random comedy or romantic scene which i m expected that we will get in ms along with drama and drama
I think MS is going well. The pace is fast and they are not dragging it. Something huge is coming our way.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Awesome post Pearl!!! Thank you dear 😊 By the way the FF you made me start just for fun has been baptized with a new thread ...lol

I too love the progression and it's pace. I enjoy the courting phase more than the full on romance and jumping to 3rd base. Yes. Because ek baar SR dikha diya these writers think that romance and all the flirting goes out of the window. I remember dying to see that in IPKKND and all we got was ek jhalak yahan and ek jhalak wahan ... 😆 So I am hoping that this slow progressing keeps the pace alive even after they get to 3rd base. 😉

Shivaay being more experienced, possessive and as you put it, is more a person who associates 'proprietary' to his relationship wants to own and possess Anika. She has been the loner and been alone throughout her life and is new to all this. Both don't know what love is but both love all their relations with a passion and protectiveness. Now they have ended up falling in love with each other where in actual sense they BELONG to each other like no body else and do not have to share the other with anyone. The kind of love that exist is just magical.
How well you put it. Yes!! we keep forgetting that these two do not believe in love and the 'kuch kuch hota hai' kinda stuff.

Besides, Annika has heard her 'pyaar ki ghanti' but Shivvay hasn't. He has to get there whereas Annika is there already. Shivvay needs to feel the rush of just seeing Annika and his 'dhadkan going so fast that it feels like dogs are running behind him' 🤣
He feels the rush but it is more the physical desire (typical man .. sigh!)

Similarly Shivvay is on the 'Jism Ki Bhook' stage where he knows that there is nothing improper about satiating that hunger now that she is his wife. There is nothing wrong with going to 2nd base with Patni in tow, very firmly encircled in his arms but Annika is still on the 'Gajar ka halwa' bhook stage. Whereas Annika is still treating him like a boyfriend who has to maintain andkeep his distance and these 'Dard hota hai' games are not very well received by a very prude Mrs. Oberoi. I love how she slaps his hands away when he tries to touch or approach her on the bed. 🤣 🤣 OMG that is and always will be my fav scene
He is such a rogue and loves teasing her so much. He was enjoying every minute of her embarrassment and discomfort.😳

I too agree that Shivika are by far the best onscreen couple and I too will make them my bench mark to judge the others. I also feel that it will be along time that any body else will come closer to them. Saying all this I also want to add that they are also the most realistic couple on screen. Here all the credit goes to the makers of this awesome show that we both and many like us have fallen in love with. They are such a beautiful married couple to go by. I think many of us married woman can relate to their relationship and even their slow progress.
Annika was never courted, she never dated Shivvay, she never spent a day just chilling with him out of the OM (except the jungle), she never really truly got to know the man himself but only the man he portrays to the world, so she will need some time to understand and learn about 'Her Shivvay'. The man who has been hidden deep inside for so long that he is only now emerging as 'her Shivvay'.

The credit also goes to NM-SC for bringing life to Shivika. I can not imagine anyone else other than NM as Shivaay and no body can play Anika better that SC. I have to be honest that I was not very happy with the FL earlier. But SC has impressed me.(did not see QH). She has become my most liked actress. She is a girl with a thousand expressions and faces. Every scene and every sequence sees a new SC. When I look at the old episodes I sometimes wonder who that girl was??!!! 😲 Amazing actress and hats of to Nakul for creating such a timeless chemistry between ShivIka
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Very well written ... before Shivika got married , both had feelings for each other .. shivaay had almost told her in the drugged state that how much he loved her and then ofcourse he ran way from that situation by putting the ring on Tia's finger .. Because he is a man who honors his commitments ... he never backs down from them. Betraying Tia was unthinkable for him.

then Daksh'a arrival and the MU . The marriage may have been done on the ground of hatred but once the MU got cleared , he was like a loving caring hubby even during Tia's P thing. By then he was quite sure that the baby was not his I think. This man could not have been improper even in a drunken stupor. That is just not Shivvay. So the logical thing of course was to honor his present commitment to Annika who was now his legally married wife. The attraction for her made it all the more easier to do that of course 😉

The progression of their relationship is good..the way he carried her home from her friend's place and then comforted her in his lap and when she got up from there suddenly realising , he didnt really want her to go. As I said, commitment means everything to this man (that is where he matches Gauri btw. I am positive we are going to see a wonderful bond there). Shivvay is all about propriety, commitment, promises and upholding these no matter what comes his way.

As far as he was concerned, Annika had committed to this marriage and to him there was no way in the world that he was going to let her break a commitment and that too, a commitment related to HIS marriage. She was in it to stay even if he had to drag her back kicking and screaming. She was not and will not, by any means, be allowed to ever walk out of it. If anyone ever thinks that Annika has a say in this matter now they are sadly mistaken. She chose to be his Patni and so she shall remain till the day he dies.

We saw the authoritarian in Shivvay that day, not a husband as some think. He was the older one disciplining her and enforcing the rules and responsibility that comes with this commitment. You could say that she was reprimanded and even given a lesson in responsibility towards a commitment that day.
He was laying down the ground rules of their marriage and ensuring she understood the consequences of breaking them. There would be no room for breaking any of these rules.😆

It was very simple as far as he was concerned and hence she was taught a lesson in commitment and it's seriousness that day but of course with his 'kid gloves' on.
You throw a tantrum in public for all to see - I discipline you in public for all to see. You do not take the problems, issues, misunderstanding and the details of this marriage and make a scene for all to witness. You stay here in the confines of this home, room and marriage and solve it here.
Scream, yell, break stuff and even walk away and lock yourself up - but in the house within these walls.

Anika is naive anaadi type... shivaay has to teach her many things and she will learn with time and her shyness and hesitation will shed 😉 Annika is a lot of lovely things and I adore her childishness but disciplined she is not. Shivvay is the disciplined one in their relationship. That is why many a times he has to play the authoritarian (almost like a guardian) and take her in hand while he guides her gently and firmly. He indulges the child in her and loves pampering her but when she crosses the line he does become the authoritarian and the older one. It is so lovely so see that in him.
They would be the No. 1 IBs of the family I think they already are...lol

Your name reminds me of this cute actor from Badtameez dil I do not watch that show but might be tempted to watch it now ...lol thank you love 😛

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