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I went into this knowing my opinion would ruffle some feathers, or at least elicit a response. So no, I don't mind you having a different opinion. We're not a flock of sheep to have a herd mentality anyway. 😉Haha 😉 I just have time today and I'm in a mood for a healthy discussion 😊How do I define interference? Anything that makes the brothers interact not of their own accord but due to others' machination. That is interference to me. Because all the while we've been sold on the concept of the brotherhood bond, that what they have is unique and special. If they would need an outsider to put things in perspective for them or even make up a situation in which they would have to interact, then the special bond is lost.Though in all honesty, I'm not as deluded to think she would not have any say in the matter at all, considering who she is to the show. So a minimal intrusion and interference would be unnecessary and annoy me, but as long as the bulk of the reconciliation is taken by the brothers, I would tolerate said interference. We Obbros fans have long since resigned ourselves to the little bits and scraps thrown our way. We're so easily pleased. 😆IMHO, a minor push from Anika or her talking to SSO is not interference at all 😊 But yeah her batofying gyaan - trying to be Mahaan - would surely get on my nerves.. 😡Let's see what the CVs have in store for us.. 😊Btw I'm an Obbros fan as well but with slightly different expectation from this bond 😊Yes. I would like the bond to stay the same, and therefore not liking the extra non Oberois living in the mansion. 😆 Unrealistic and delusional, I am very much aware of that. Leave me to my illusion 😛All jokes aside, I agree that the bond needs to evolve as time goes on. But it has been proven than handling multiple relationships is not this show's strong points. As was shown before in the brothers' pursuit of their love life, or interacting with other characters, it is always the brotherhood that is sacrificed first to glorify the importance of others. Giving higher preference to someone else over his brothers? That would be out of character for Shivaay. But then again, he has not been himself lately, has he?😛@underlined WORD... I completely agree with this.. Hence, I think I can wait patiently for Rumya and Om ki 'maya' stories 😆.. Luckily I do enjoy Shivika 😊@red Unfortunately true.. I blame the CVs temporary amnesia for this 😭 Similar to how they are messing up SSO's character, they keep forgetting about ShivOmRu from time to time 😭@blue Right now yes it out of character, but maybe say in some months(when Sahil is as important as Rudra) and Shivaay's priority changes.. then I feel it will be in character..With time people evolve, priorities change and such bonds needs evolve as well..Yes. They should never have interfered with their brother's love life. It was cute at first, I'll admit that much 😆 Less and less now.I've always had a problem with that simply because Tej's infidelity would've made them averse to it. And yet here they are, pushing their brother to essentially have an affair behind Tia's back. Sure we all know know what a vamp she is, but they had no idea did they?Did they interfere with Om-Ridhima? Hardly. Or with Rudra and his countless girlfriends? Or does that not matter because they're not the end game? This is neither here nor there, and what's done is done but yeah, always had a problem with it.Again we might have to agree to disagree here..Shivaay-AnikaWere they pushing him to have an affair or were they hoping he would understand them and break up Tia(who they felt was wrong for him and SSO ka reason was NKK which as they knew is not strongest ) and think about having a relationship with Anika?Initially OmRu were talking to Shivaay about Anika and I thought that was healthy.. As soon as they stopped talking, gayi bhais pani mein.. Shivaay lost his marbles 😆 I, for one, wanted OmRu to be more involved in pre wedding track as well.. because as they said they understand Shivaay better than he understands himself.. When things were getting serious and they realized he is making a mistake, they should have been more firm.. 😭If I see my brother/sister or good friend making a mistake, I will surely try to get involved and make him/her realize what is right and what is wrong or make sure they can make me understand that what I was thinking was a mistake is not a mistake, which won't be easy 🤣😆🤣Om-RidsWhat interference should I expect here - If I think them getting involved other person's relationship is correct? 😆Frankly this track was confusing for me. 😆 so I might not be able to analyze it properly.. 😊Rids-Om relationship - Om was getting suffocated in this relationship(as far as I can tell), Rids felt neglected, so she went away, then Rids came back(remind me if she came back on her own or did someone call her?), then Rids broke his trust by pitting him against Shivaay and he rightfully broke up with her.. Where in this entire situation should ShivRu have interfered?At-least according to me, Om was making the right decisions and he did give the vibes that he was not sure about Rids and ShivRu never had strong reasons to believe that Rids was bad or good for Om.. and ShivRu I think did discuss Om's commitment issues a few timesBtw SSO did interfere in case of Ishkara.. 😊 but I guess this was mostly due to offscreen situation .. toh maybe we should ignore this 😊Rudra and GFsWhat interference should we have expected from ShivOm about Rudra and his girlfriends? Do you want them to give gyaan to Rudra?😆 Then I doubt that they would because they never took Rudra and his GF thing seriously ..😊Now when the RumYa marriage is revealed, I would like some ShivOm involvement in it for sure.. 😃The parents part, I agree that they have mostly been negative. Still does not take away from the fact that they have rarely been included in the Obbros circle (or triangle 😆). Not even Prinku or Dadi have been given the privilege.Now I don't understand this family dynamics well because they have not given us a lot of insight into their childhood.. So, I won't be able to analyse this.. Why Prinku is not involved? I don't know.. maybe she is too young.. I just feel sad for Prinku here 😒But I'll add this.. There is a slight difference between your relationship with your spouse/GF(this a relationship that you choose 😊) and family(the one you kind of get 😊) and yes, yes I realize that SSO has not actually chosen Anika - this stupid forced marriage track - but she is still his spouse and in IB terms I think this means his heart has chosen herObbros have always been a separate unit, a family of their own. And as with all families, outsiders are tolerated, but interference is never welcomed.One thing I want to highlight.. I want Obbros better half to be accepted in this family not tolerated & I also don't want her to interfere but for her to be involved in this family's events/activities 😊However, even then these better halves don't need to be involved in everything because Obbros obviously need their space..😊Hope dies last, as we always say. But that hope is struggling and dying at this very moment 😭
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