Originally posted by: blackorwhite
Haha 😉 I just have time today and I'm in a mood for a healthy discussion
A healthy discussion is always welcomed. Much better than the generic if you don't like it don't watch the show argument 😆
IMHO, a minor push from Anika or her talking to SSO is not interference at all 😊 But yeah her batofying gyaan - trying to be Mahaan - would surely get on my nerves.. 😡Let's see what the CVs have in store for us.. 😊
Btw I'm an Obbros fan as well but with slightly different expectation from this bond 😊
As I mentioned before, logically she would be shown to be involved. And I have resigned myself to that fate and would tolerate it as long as the brothers play more role in mending their relationship than she does. Yeah..CVs...pining my hope on them. Why do you think I stuck around despite all this?😆
At the risk of sounding lke a broken record, this show hooked me by the promo focusing on bromance. Had I known this is how it would be, that the bromance would be pushed aside by generic romance, I would never have committed myself. And I think I wouldn't have minded the romance had the bond be explored more before the romance angle is thrown in. I would've preferred no romance at all..but that is asking too much. 😆
I enjoyed Shivika before, or at least tolerated them. But overexposure has turned me off. The butchering of Shivaay's character has not endeared me to the couple.
Yes. They should never have interfered with their brother's love life. It was cute at first, I'll admit that much 😆 Less and less now.I've always had a problem with that simply because Tej's infidelity would've made them averse to it. And yet here they are, pushing their brother to essentially have an affair behind Tia's back. Sure we all know know what a vamp she is, but they had no idea did they?
Did they interfere with Om-Ridhima? Hardly. Or with Rudra and his countless girlfriends? Or does that not matter because they're not the end game? This is neither here nor there, and what's done is done but yeah, always had a problem with it.
Again we might have to agree to disagree here..
Shivaay-Anika
Were they pushing him to have an affair or were they hoping he would understand them and break up Tia(who they felt was wrong for him and SSO ka reason was NKK which as they knew is not strongest ) and think about having a relationship with Anika?
Initially OmRu were talking to Shivaay about Anika and I thought that was healthy.. As soon as they stopped talking, gayi bhais pani mein.. Shivaay lost his marbles 😆 I, for one, wanted OmRu to be more involved in pre wedding track as well.. because as they said they understand Shivaay better than he understands himself.. When things were getting serious and they realized he is making a mistake, they should have been more firm.. 😭
If I see my brother/sister or good friend making a mistake, I will surely try to get involved and make him/her realize what is right and what is wrong or make sure they can make me understand that what I was thinking was a mistake is not a mistake, which won't be easy 🤣😆🤣
Om-Rids
What interference should I expect here - If I think them getting involved other person's relationship is correct? 😆Frankly this track was confusing for me. 😆 so I might not be able to analyze it properly.. 😊
Rids-Om relationship - Om was getting suffocated in this relationship(as far as I can tell), Rids felt neglected, so she went away, then Rids came back(remind me if she came back on her own or did someone call her?), then Rids broke his trust by pitting him against Shivaay and he rightfully broke up with her.. Where in this entire situation should ShivRu have interfered?
At-least according to me, Om was making the right decisions and he did give the vibes that he was not sure about Rids and ShivRu never had strong reasons to believe that Rids was bad or good for Om.. and ShivRu I think did discuss Om's commitment issues a few times
Btw SSO did interfere in case of Ishkara.. 😊 but I guess this was mostly due to offscreen situation .. toh maybe we should ignore this 😊
Rudra and GFs
What interference should we have expected from ShivOm about Rudra and his girlfriends? Do you want them to give gyaan to Rudra?😆 Then I doubt that they would because they never took Rudra and his GF thing seriously ..😊
Now when the RumYa marriage is revealed, I would like some ShivOm involvement in it for sure.. 😃
I said they hardly interfered in RidhKara. Om did go Shivaay for advice. But he initiated it. Shivaay did not poke his nose into Om's affair. Telling him to marry Ridh or he is better off being with someone else. That's what I meant. Your point is about them not wanting Shiv to make mistakes and thus made him realise that he is better off with Anika than Tia. They didn't know that in the beginning na? Yet they have always wanted her for him regardless of how both of them felt. But again that is neither her nor there as the focus of this post is on Anika, not the brothers.
I see them as pushing Shivaay towards an affair because they were promoting a different woman for their brother despite said brother having a girlfriend already. Interfering. But again...I need to keep on track. This isn't about them. 😉
Now I don't understand this family dynamics well because they have not given us a lot of insight into their childhood.. So, I won't be able to analyse this.. Why Prinku is not involved? I don't know.. maybe she is too young.. I just feel sad for Prinku here 😒
But I'll add this.. There is a slight difference between your relationship with your spouse/GF(this a relationship that you choose 😊) and family(the one you kind of get 😊) and yes, yes I realize that SSO has not actually chosen Anika - this stupid forced marriage track - but she is still his spouse and in IB terms I think this means his heart has chosen her
Prinku being too young..Rudra is not much older and not more mature. 😆
The marriage tracks happened without the partners coming to terms with their feelings. Badly handled. And thus I have a hard time accepting the relationship. Even the couples involved are not even sure of their status 😆
One thing I want to highlight.. I want Obbros better half to be accepted in this family not tolerated & I also don't want her to interfere but for her to be involved in this family's events/activities 😊However, even then these better halves don't need to be involved in everything because Obbros obviously need their space..Agree to disagree here 😆 I am not denying the other halves' position in the family. Just in the Obbros' relationship. In their equation. Obviously they will have a say in the family. They are the bahus. But within the Obbros unit..I would like them to leave the brothers to themselves.