Originally posted by: blackorwhite
A few questions:
How you define interference 😆?
- So, for me if Anika creates a situation to make them talk or she just listens to SSO(as if he will talk ), then that is not interference but if she goes to OmRu and pleads SSO case or tells OmRu and/or SSO what to do(batofying gyaan), then that is interference..
Is ShivOmRu bond such that no-one can ever enter this circle - not even their better halves? If yes, then do you expect it to remain like this forever - Hypothetically(because yeh toh hone nahi wala 😆), Even when they have kids and their priorities change? What if tomorrow Shivaay gives higher preference to Sahil(after he accepts Sahil as his own) than Rudra.. Does this mean this bond is broken?
- I feel 'The ShivOmRu bond' needs to evolve as Shivaay, Om and Rudra evolve and/or change
Playing the devil's advocate - If Anika should not interfere in ShivOmRu bond? Then OmRu should not interfere in SSO-Anika ka relationship either? 😆
- I am actually very very happy that OmRu were the ones who revealed the truth about the marriage day.. 😃
I was actually hoping for more OmRu involvement before and during the wedding as well.. But what is done is done.. 😊
Now I also would want Anika to be 'involved' in this ShivOmRu track 😊 To understand Shivaay, she needs to understand this bond and to understand that she needs to be a honorary member of it.. 😊 - Won't say a part of it.. 😆 I feel ShivOmRu are part of a pack and their better halves need to be welcomed in the same 😃
Now, if the CVs make this whole thing.. all about Anika(and her Mahanta) and forgot about the this bond, then that obviously is BIG BIG no no.. And I'll never forgive them..😡
I'm actually expecting a Shivaay-OmRu back hug 😊 and a few tears and a few shyaaris 😆
I hope you don't mind me giving a different opinion than yours 😊
PS: Their parents interference at-least what has been shown has mostly been negative!
I went into this knowing my opinion would ruffle some feathers, or at least elicit a response. So no, I don't mind you having a different opinion. We're not a flock of sheep to have a herd mentality anyway. 😉
How do I define interference? Anything that makes the brothers interact not of their own accord but due to others' machination. That is interference to me. Because all the while we've been sold on the concept of the brotherhood bond, that what they have is unique and special. If they would need an outsider to put things in perspective for them or even make up a situation in which they would have to interact, then the special bond is lost.
Though in all honesty, I'm not as deluded to think she would not have any say in the matter at all, considering who she is to the show. So a minimal intrusion and interference would be unnecessary and annoy me, but as long as the bulk of the reconciliation is taken by the brothers, I would tolerate said interference. We Obbros fans have long since resigned ourselves to the little bits and scraps thrown our way. We're so easily pleased. 😆
Yes. I would like the bond to stay the same, and therefore not liking the extra non Oberois living in the mansion. 😆 Unrealistic and delusional, I am very much aware of that. Leave me to my illusion 😛
All jokes aside, I agree that the bond needs to evolve as time goes on. But it has been proven that handling multiple relationships is not this show's strong points. As was shown before in the brothers' pursuit of their love life, or interacting with other characters, it is always the brotherhood that is sacrificed first to glorify the importance of others. Giving higher preference to someone else over his brothers? That would be out of character for Shivaay. But then again, he has not been himself lately, has he?😛
Yes. They should never have interfered with their brother's love life. It was cute at first, I'll admit that much 😆 Less and less now.I've always had a problem with that simply because Tej's infidelity would've made them averse to it. And yet here they are, pushing their brother to essentially have an affair behind Tia's back. Sure we all know know what a vamp she is, but they had no idea did they?
Did they interfere with Om-Ridhima? Hardly. Or with Rudra and his countless girlfriends? Or does that not matter because they're not the end game? This is neither here nor there, and what's done is done but yeah, always had a problem with it.
The parents part, I agree that they have mostly been negative. Still does not take away from the fact that they have rarely been included in the Obbros circle (or triangle 😆). Not even Prinku or Dadi have been given the privilege.
Obbros have always been a separate unit, a family of their own. And as with all families, outsiders are tolerated, but interference is never welcomed.
Hope dies last, as we always say. But that hope is struggling and dying at this very moment 😭
Edited by arachne - 9 years ago
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