Wat Would U Do In This Situation? Reality Check! - Page 6

Originally posted by: kirim

Much needed post neha thanks for pointing out it

I was also thinking the same thing yesterday

If we're on shivaay's place we also do that and tbh obsession would be somehow wrong but not the fact

In the society where we live and bringing up is also pulled this state in our minds and somewhere we also rigid in that case tho

Those people are mahan who don't give a damn about it but we do definitely in reality

tell me one thing if the rishta had come for devs brother ryan wud shivaay have said no or yes considering ryan's dad was involved in a EM affair.

Originally posted by: yellomellow

Shivaay's thought process is realistic but very old-fashioned to put it nicely. I don't like judging others over such superficial reasons, but the reality is some people do care about these things and while others don't. He wants to protect her so I can understand that part.

I agree with what you said about people considering all aspects regarding the bride or groom in marriages.

People do consider not only the bride or groom's education and what he/she does for a living but also about their family's financial condition, parent's and siblings.

It has been seen that in a family with more than one daughter it is impossible for the family to fix the younger daughter's marriage unless the elder is married since people doubt about why they are doing so and that their may be some problem with the family,even though in reality it may be that the elder one does not want to marry or wants to study further or achieve more in her career or any other reason.Even a son's marriage is not arranged unless the younger sister is married.

I agree that Chabbra's were wrong in not telling them about Dev beforehand.

I disagree with Shivay's blood and lineage stance of the Obero's. One can point at the other person's drawback, only if they themselves are clean about that.Oberoi's are very wealthy agreed.
But,in this case Priyanka is Tej's daughter who himself has been involved in extra martial affairs.So the Oberoi's are no dudh ka dulha either. And if Shivay's views are considered no parent will marry their son to such person's children.

If this was a real life situation,they way Shivay reacted,the Chhabra's would have given it back to him by telling about Tej's affairs.Shivaay should have been more calm in his approach.He literally removed them from the house which was wrong.

Shivay is partly right.The Chabbra's should have disclosed about Dev before asking for the roka to be fixed.

Whatever Shivaye did was natural. I agree with Shivaye that most of the time relationships are a deal especially in arranged marriages. People marry each other seeing their family background, status and bank balance. If that's not a deal then what it is???? True love hardly exists in real world, everything comes down to money and status in the end no matter how much people preach about idealism. But I have one question, why Shivaye is taking life decisions of Priyanka. He can think whatever he wants but it should be Priyanka who should decide whether she wants to marry Dev or not. She has to spend her life with Dev, not Shivaye or Tej. That means Shivaye does'nt cares about Priyanka's feelings at all. I know that the excuse will be Priyanka is irrational and can't take such big decisions of her life on his own but if that's the case then why Shivaye is getting her married in the first place???

But what is Dev fault here?
Did he decided to be an illegitimate child?
So why does he have to suffer these allegations?
Why the hell is he being blamed?

The constant highlighting of Shivaay's beliefs about the purity of lineage and bloodlines being sacrosanct, is no doubt being done in so blatant a manner for a specific reason. Whatever the secret that there is that will be unveiled eventually, will involve his heart directly in one way or another. And then they can show all of his prejudices come home to roost. The more lofty is the high ground you purport to walk, the harder is the fall when it comes.

the chabras were wrong in hiding that dev is the child of his mistress

Your post says everything that I want to say today.

We are hypocrites when this happens to others and preach but don't practice the same with our selves.

I also want to add that later when Rudra and Om's love story starts, they too will be as adamant as Shivaay. They too will fight with themselves for their ideologies.

aOkay I haven't read all the comments but I can say that each one has a bit that I agree with.