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I might be called a hypocrite for this post coz all these days I called Shivay's judging ppl on their Name, Bloodline n Lineage wrong...called it his obsession, he is still obsessed n quite rigid althought!!. I always thought he was wrong in judging Anika for her name, class, social status...(He still is wrong in her case n Anika over Shivay any day for me😆😛)
But today its not about Anika. Its about Shivay and his obsession with Name, Bloodline, Lineage, Class.
I am not obsessed like him, but after a long long thought...putting myself in his place n empathizing a lil bit with him...I got my answers...he gave the much needed Reality Check in a way!!
Want to know wat other ppl in his place would have done?
1) Unless u r madly in love with someone below ur class, ur social status n community standards...will u marry a person with no Surname, or who is an illegitimate child but tells u the truth about his identity? Will u just be as great and sacrificial u expect Shivay to be?
2) Okay not about u ...but would u allow ur siblings to marry a person, who is an illegitimate child of someone...or low in social status and class...way below ur standards or or Family Name (arrange marriage case)
3) Do u, in real life, not give any importance to Class, Bloodline at all...especially in cases of life long relationships...especially in arrange marriages ppl look for an alliance with equal class if not better?
4) Idealism, Sacrifice, Truth over Family and Achchayi over Class n Status n Family Name...which one for u?
I think all of us are flawed in some way...we all are influenced by the society, old beliefs, Khoon Khaadaan in some or other way...talking idealism and practicing it are two different things.
We (most of us) r being hypocritical in Shivay's case me feels
I just realized why and how much I connect to Shivay more now.
Unless u fall in love with a person for his good side like Shivay will for Anika...u cannot really consider marrying someone below ur status...below ur standards (education, class, background)...family name is very important too. One might think of compromising all this in love marriage.
Anika is an exception. She has a lot more than all that she doesn't have🤔 And who knows wat lies in her past...I still feel she knows about her real family but chooses to not speak about it...may be she is from a rich background...so can't really judge her.
But I still cannot hate on Shivay for wat he did today...!
I slightly agree with Om too...Relationships should not be based on a Lie...Truth should be the foundation of every relationship...but even if Mr. Chabbra had old the truth, Shivay would have said a No...and even Tej, as he is Prinku's dad.
Just wanted to put forward a different perspective...Shivay's...he is not completely wrong here...he is only thinking his family n sister's well being n I can so relate to it. The Chabbra family was wrong anyway and their intentions looked so not right by hiding such a big truth and who knows if Dev was ever goin to disclose the truth even later, why not at the first meet itself!
Can't really hate Shivay until he trashes Anika really bad again without any fault of hers (as per the precap) which will make him hate for him for some time atleast 😆
But right now he is only being a realist n I support him !!!
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