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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: S.Stephy

According to me, more than illegitimacy, the real problem with the alliance was hiding the matter. Because if they are not transparent about this, then they could hide and scheme about anything else as well.

With the illegitimacy matter, it really depends on the individual person who is going to marry. So ultimately, it should have been Priyanka's decision. I know Priyanka is considered immature to take a decision but IMO, if a person is considered mature enough to marry then they are mature to accept or reject a proposal for themselves.



Exactly, there lies the main problem that the foundation of the relationship was goin to be based on a lie.

Prinku was too immature in my opinion to say a guy yes just for his looks...in real life, girls look for much much more in her partner than just good looke...and Dev was okay looking too😆

Again, she is not mature enough to even marry, she should take some personality development course and build her confidence first coz she must be only 18 or 19 yrs, too young for marriage in my opinion, the Oberoi family was wrong on thinking to get her married so early.
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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: naq5


well the other truth is also that Tej himself is involved in an extra marital affair. Now tell me which khaandani family in their right minds would marry prianka is evry1 thought like SSO. for priankaonly such aliances will come because the oberois too belong to the same level coz of tej

the way shivaay dealt with dev was very wrong . i agree they lied, but a simple i do not want to go forward was enough instead of telling tht devs blood was bad, he could have instead said that his dad's blood was bad with the sense that polygamy genes were passed on to his sons.



Tej can still gloat for not having an illegitimate child...coz as per him his relationship with Svetlana is already over.

I am not defending Tej at all, he is wrong and will always be for his past sins...!!

But the thing is it Dev being illegitimate was not a small thing...it was a very big truth related to his identity...!! But I agree Shivay was harsh with his words and wrong in his way of handling the situation, but guess, the reaction was only natural seeing the Roka Ceremony about to happen

@Bold: I so agree with that!! :)
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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: Crazy4Mayur



Tej can still gloat for not having an illegitimate child...coz as per him his relationship with Svetlana is already over.

I am not defending Tej at all, he is wrong and will always be for his past sins...!!

But the thing is it Dev being illegitimate was not a small thing...it was a very big truth related to his identity...!! But I agree Shivay was harsh with his words and wrong in his way of handling the situation, but guess, the reaction was only natural seeing the Roka Ceremony about to happen

@Bold: I so agree with that!! :)


Shivaay's anger is justified knowing they lied... N illegitimacy is a very big truth... If it was hidden now n dev was gonna tell post to ka what was the point... Such truths hv to be told before hand so that family/girl can take an informed decision... It's jot a guy's fault that he is illegitimate but it deffo is his parents fault... Infidelity in marriage is something not to boast about... Tej is very wrong n has committed infidelity... But that doesn't mean someone else's infidelity is justified... Tej doesn't hv any illegitimate child atleast as of now...Albut that doesn't mean his character is clean... He is also character defect but he atleast doesn't boast of his relationship... Mr. Chabbra is boasting yes he had a relationship n has a son but what's the big deal... Who cares about such things in today's world... Why there was need to tell this... So he dint tell... Like really? A fact that u hv a child out of wedlock n u r proposing marriage to that child is information that needs to be concealed? Well then u had all decided to cheat on oberoi... If cheating was the objective, they better be ready for insult... Yes Shivaay goes overboard with insults when it is essentially about status, blood, lineage, family... N He is over protective of his family... If he feels someone wanted to cheat he won't spare... N yes Shivaay calling dev bad blood isn't really unjustified... It isn't dev's fault that he is born out of wedlock... But yes generally child born out of wedlock is looked down upon as much as his parents... Shivaay is crass... Rude n upfront... He was bound to use hurtful insults for them but Dev is no Saint... He had time to reveal truth to dev when Shivaay spoke to him... Also Shivaay had told him if anyone hurts my sis in anyway I will kill that person...

Wont justify Shivaay s words as he mostly always goes over board but roka was already on its way n he had to stop it... Everyone wud hv wanted to know why is he stopping it so he had to give out the reason... Only sentence Chabbra said which made sense was u can call my relationship illegitimate but can't call dev illegitimate rest all he was very wrong...

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