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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: NandiniRaizadaa

In my openion lying and canceling infirmation is wrong but putting down someone just because they are illegitimate is also wrong

Shivaye was not totally wrong however he shoukd have asked Priyanka what she thinks. Also i think there is a difference in telling people you found out their truth and being totally rude. Calling someone illegitimate is rude

However i also think their is a difference between love and arranged marriage

When one falls in love first these things dont matter but when one ones arranges a match one does look at all this. I cant believe Priyanka has fallen in love in one day.

And if she has she shouls say so. Take a stand instead of crying

She is looking for an escape route in Anika
She should tallk to her brother

So the blane is not just of SSO but of pri and chabra family too



Yes...putting them down and insulting them was wrong, I agree😃 He could have politely called it off by taking family separately for a discussion and explained them everythin, but he showed his SSO style tashan 😆

We agree on Prinku's unbelievable love story...Hi Five!😆

Well the girl will not take a stand for herself ever...she instead asked Anika to fight her case...and Anika will end up losing her respect and her job for this and I won't be surprised even after this if Prinku stays quiet and doesn't defend Anika.

Glad u agree at Prinku and Chabbras being at fault too :)
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: NandiniRaizadaa

If people will bash my SSO i will stay away from.maon forum


No one is bashing him lol 😆 This post is from his perspective😃
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Posted: 8 years ago
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i srsly didnt liked the way sso was portrayed today bahut sare thappad to him 😡🤬
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Crazy4Mayur


So u agree he was not wrong today?😆




I judge characters based on their morals and beliefs, not my values. So he is not wrong for me.😆 If he behaves outside his belief suddenly then i would call it character assassination. This belief system should undergo a change in logical way. It should be Shivaay's character growth.

It will be interesting how this belief systems changes. Hope CVs show something gradual and logical.😕 Believing CVs is so difficult na😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Neha i also agree with you that ehen marriages are arranged parents wont go in for a dysfunctional family or bellloe social status
And neither do girls cry buckets over proposals that dont materialise for any reason

Holding SSO totally responsible is wrong


However he needs to change his khoon khandaan belief. Just because his mom was not married to his dad does not make his blood bad
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: pritzz

Putting down dev's image in front of unknown people was completely wrong even saying it loud in front of his own family.. dev being illegitimate child is a personal matter and very sensitive.. he should have discussed it one on one first and then brought it out loud later... this was open insult .. and moreover it is not devs fault that he is illegitimate. He was wrong there..

But rest all you said I agree.. not even upper middle class people would choose a nobody for their daughter or son or even a partner who has a lesser degree in education than them... This is a true fact!.. I totally agree!


But the WAY shivaay handles the problems is what I don't like!


I agree with u that the way he handled it was pretty harsh...but again, putting myself in his shoes, I would lose my temper at such a family who has hidden such a big truth from me.

Had he not stopped the Roka, ceremony would've happened.

Also, saying that I was goin to tell the truth after the ceremony didn't make any sense to me...why not tell such a big thing at the first go? 🤔

Thanks for agreeing on the rest😆 Shivay needs to calm down a little...Anger Management is needed😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Crazy4Mayur


No one is bashing him lol 😆 This post is from his perspective😃


Arrey that was for Shivik AT. It landed here 😆

I told you na i am in confused state of emotions 😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I agree with most of the people here, the way shivaay handled the issue is wrong.
But yesterday he took dev seperately to enquire about the sowmya issue, he didnt tell anything infront of all.

But today by the time he got the confirmation and came down, they were about to exchange rings. So he stopped it infront of all

After stopping an engagment, u cant deal the issue in one to one. he is answerable to everyone there.

I am not defending him but we all know his tongue is very sharp and when it comes to protecting his family, he never cared about anyone.

So it is natural reaction of SSO for the wrong that he believed happened with his family and his sister




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Posted: 8 years ago
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Any idea who put this khoon khandaan thoughts in his mind so deeply? Nobody in his age group also will say such things. Atleast not so vocal like him. Even daadi is not like that. Tej refused this rishta but he had affair with Svetlana, not so khandaani act. So who is that😡😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: LTLFan




I judge characters based on their morals and beliefs, not my values. So he is not wrong for me.😆 If he behaves outside his belief suddenly then i would call it character assassination. This belief system should undergo a change in logical way. It should be Shivaay's character growth.

It will be interesting how this belief systems changes. Hope CVs show something gradual and logical.😕 Believing CVs is so difficult na😆



In my case, I see who I can connect to...like who is being more of a realist,in ideal life situations wat I would have done in such a case...and I can say I am somewhat like a female version of him sometimes😆

Yeah his belief system needs to go a gradual change...like not being outright rude n offensive to ppl with low class...he needs some softness in his tone and some flexibility in his beliefs...that would come with him accepting Anika for her other qualities than her class, bloodline, lineage, etc.

Have faith in CV...thoda sa😆

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