Originally posted by: LilMissBossy
I'm rewatching ISA again and I've noticed more things this time around than when I'd watched it the first time. And it's bugging me 😆
Zara had asked Kabeer as to why he divorced her, he had said he'll answer but why did he divorce? Just because of their different views?
That doesn't seem like a valid reason to go for a divorce. I really would have liked if they'd given his answer.
Kabeer had admitted to Ayesha that he had been thinking about divorce for a while so why during the mosque matter, did he soften towards her and on Eid episode come close to her etc...
Also Zara had said she wouldn't allow anyone to play with her life, not even Kabeer. So, why had she returned to the Ahmed household and not fight for herself. I'd have loved to see a court case over the triple talaq matter.
After the talaq, Zara and Kabeer should have been staying in separate rooms to mull over everything, calm down and then work on resolving things.
So why had they stayed together in one room? Zara mentioned the Quran suggests that it's allowed but I had searched for a reliable source where it mentions that but I cannot find anything. Is there a Hadith or verse that mentions that it's preferable for the husband and wife to share a bedroom?? Unless they cooked it up just so they'd stay close and have their accidental romantic scenes 😆
Kabeer being a maulvi should have gone down the proper route of involving family and expressing his displeasure and they try talking it out. And if that didn't work and nothing else worked out then he should have given her the first talaq. Being a maulvi, shouldn't he have practised what he preaches?
The reason behind getting this knowledge is so he preaches what he learns but he must practice it as well.
I'd come across a post recently which has since been locked due to the inactivity and it mentioned ZK had done it in Kashmir 😆
I didn't think so and there's no confirmation. I had assumed they done it' after the argument of the parda episodes.
Did they or didn't they?
I did wish that Zara walked out of the house following his statement of saying it was his Farz!
All your questions are valid.
1. I do have this questions in my mind Why he gave Talaq if first case. He stayed adamant in Talaq as well. This was not such a big issue. No man and wife had similar view points till date. I felt that more as Tit for tat. I always felt that Kabeer always saw Zara as his Opponent and competitor. Even when Miraj offered 50% share and she held the majority share he was displeased.
2. Zara saying that I will not allow anyone to play in her life. But here the drama was totally different. Finally she gave up to save her marriage. If Zara didn't give up he would have pronounced the 2nd Talaq or what.
3. Even now that point is bugging me. Why Zara should resign from Shariya Board. As far as the Halala Nikkha Case is concerned Zara was not wrong. Kabeer himself should stood by the Girl side. Its not women or Men. Its Justice. I was displeased. Here I felt Kabeer very grey.
4. Some where I strongly felt during this divorce that He has decided to have family with Zara no doubt. he wanted Zara don't want divorce. He seriously took Ayesha's advise. So he Clearly used the opportunity to make Zara resign because he doesn't want shariya board between them. Clearly Zara was right. She proved the Case also. She saved a girls life and a child's life. Being a responsible person and a wanna be Kazi he should stay in the side of right and Justice. There is another side to this. This is what he wanted from the moment Zara become a shariya board member. He never liked her presence there.
5. Kashmir Honey Moon - They consummated the marriage. They Did it. It was said subtly in the episode many times. After that after their Investor Drama... To patch up with Kabeer Zara did the bed room Trick. But Kabeer ... Stayed adamant ... He called it as his Farz... That's the reason many times when they get close Zara kept asking its Mohabath or Farz. He even after the Investment episode. after Ruksar parda farsh he accepted as Mohabath. But it was so so... Then this mosque case araised.
5. First I thought that he did this divorce thing to Zara to bring her back home. As his ego prevented him bringing her back home and also she announced that they wont stay as Husband and wife till this issue get resolved. That's big decision by Zara. When kazi and Kaziani brought Zara home Kabeer went to room to meet Zara. There he was a pure Lover Boy waiting for his wife to hold his hand. He was shocked on her with drawl this never happened to him. even when he scolded her and ever after the Farz, Miraj, Ruksar thing she never had her ego or she always went behind him like a puppy.
Till that Point things were ok. The moment she pulled off he was shell shocked. The Puppy is gone that was totally new for him and Shabaz Played his card. Zara went back to her home with her parents. How can he call her back. His ego rose high up. He cant put his ego down. Noway he can bring her back home after this. His ego soared high up. Want her to run behind him, beg behind him, want her to come back home by herself. he did that in the way he knows. There the problem begin. Kabeer Seriously felt Super possessive there she ignored him but hugged his mom. If you notice carefully after that Kabeer and his Mom Dynamics really got affected. Somewhere Kabeer is too too possessive. But I was surprised with his behavior. But after the inauguration incident... there were confusing moments... but he wants to save his relationship but with his own terms and conditions. He wanted Zara to Budge. Again everyone played their part in making things worse.
6. You can notice that possessiveness during their meals every time. When she Inquire about Imran also he was displeased but that was more on a lighter note. He become desperate after Miraj exposure. Though His bonding grow slowly with her with Love and Hate. I always had a feeling that from first episode he had interest on Zara. Even he was Ok to marry zara but her denial put him back.
After the cancelling of engagement when they all met in the restaurant he was totally displeased and kind of mad on Zara. Watch that Episode. When Ruksar Call him to the Seat infront of Phir Shab he was totally displeased on ruksar and on Zara. The look he gave to shabaz and Phir shab Said it all. The final look to zara with a displeasure confirmed everything. The jackpot when Ruksar called Zara. You can notice that.
First I thought kabeer to be what he was saying but he is always more than that. I realized that completely in this aabidha case. If its the Kabeer we think he would stood by aabidha. The side swings, selfish reasons, But what he did. The entire dynamics would say much more dimension of Kabeer.
Edited by Sheerinbanu - 6 years ago