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Originally posted by: shahrukh fan
ok this is my first debate ever!!!!!!
ok am on alisha's team: đ
i personally think if no pain no gain.....if you will not get critisized you will not have the spirit to fight the critics and prove them wrong.....look at amit sane from II1 he used to get told of by Farah about his performance every time when he performed some time she used to encourage him and sometime she used to shout at him BUT look where that got him everyone loved his few dance steps he did on the show....so to some extent i do agree with critics.....
no pain no gain, alisha ne yeh jo kaha hai woh bilkul theek kaha hai. for contestants, criticism is very important. therefore, i am all for being critical. it poses a challenge for the contestants to do well and the mistakes pointed out by criticism can sink into their head more efficiently so that they can display better results. as a guru or a judge, being critical can bring out effective results.
Originally posted by: the_charm
Well critics is good but critics doesn't mean criticizing the contestants n doing stuffs....it can be done by telling the contestants too......judges don't need to be harsh.
if the judges are not harsh then you get what you are watching now, poor performance overall by contestants, there should always be one to keep someone in place, otherwise they wont try harder to do better, if the contestants are really determined, they can take those harsh criticisms in their stride and mend their flaws. javed saab, udit ji and alisha are not being critical enough. they are just sugar coating their flaws which the contestants are taking very lightly. as shilpa shetty said kill someone by sweetness, and thats what these judges are doing right now, they are squashing their talent with sweetness.
i dont know who tauntd who....i don't remeber seeing any thing like that đ.......Seriously some contestant need critizim......do you guys remeber rahul Vaidya (sorry dont know how to spell his surname) in II1 he was such a good singer but his attitude was awful and when sonu and rest of the judges told him about his attitude he was one of the 3rd finalists....so judges beig harsh does help the contestants big timeđOriginally posted by: the_charm
the performances are not poor at all.......im not saying they r perfect but they r not at a poor scale too....they are at a competing level... but thats not he point.......i but being harsh wont let them do great......yes they need to know their mistakes but they should not be taunted.
Originally posted by: the_charm
Well I don't totally disagree with u but as i said criticism is good upto a level...being critical to the limit can do good but when it is done too much it wud definitely discourage the contestantsfor example: if u draw something n u show it to ur parents and they say its aweful n u can never do well u wud definitely get discouraged.but if they say yes its gud but u can improve a lot more...u need to work hard on some features then u wont get discouraged....u wud try to improve yourself.Thts the point.đ
am answering the point that's highlighted in blue....... if you do sumthing for the first time and somebody be it your parents,teacher or friends critisize it by saying it's crap etc etc it's awful and it hurts i agree.......Originally posted by: the_charm
Well I don't totally disagree with u but as i said criticism is good upto a level...being critical to the limit can do good but when it is done too much it wud definitely discourage the contestants
for example:if u draw something n u show it to ur parents and they say its aweful n u can never do well u wud definitely get discouraged.
but if they say yes its gud but u can improve a lot more...u need to work hard on some features then u wont get discouraged....u wud try to improve yourself.
Thts the point.đ
i'll give you another eg when i strated cooking for the first time my mum used tell me of nicely about where i went wrong but when i was still making the same mistake i used to get a right telling off by her and she used to say stuff like "look at girls in your age they know how to make this and they do it without there mothers help"etc etc....and trust me them comments really hepled me, know whenever i cook i give my 110% .....so basically how long can you say to some one nicely that you need improving.....even my driving instructor used to shout at me to get best out of međ
hope it all makes senseđł