Maybe this precisely is the problem. As an disinterested third party, imlie seems like an awesome person who loves anyone and everyone. But if you are in a relationship with her then this would be hell- when a person loves everyone then how am I special to her. I am just one of the many that she loves.
Add to this the problem that imlie idea of family is very flexible. Koi bhi family ban jaata Hai 2 seconds mein iske liye. So her husband is always playing second fiddle.
And as an audience this gets tiring in a love story to watch
Ofcourse it will be difficult for her partner that too when companion like Aryan because word family define different meaning for both of them.
Till now we saw Aryan was having upper hand on this marriage, he trying his best to manage and save this relationship. Imlie not purposely jeopardize their marriage but she could have handled the situations on better way. She is married, she needs to consult with Aryan before taking big decisions especially getting outside people on their home. Even though Aryan knows how things will roll, she makes him to hear her instead taking his enlightenment what he is saying Her decisions affecting entire family.
She needs to understand and accept her decisions have it's own consequences. If she don't have that character progression then what is the use of leap? Even Arylie reconciled after leap, he would live in a fear of loosing her again or loose forever. This leap should help her to become more wise and mature, that will make Arylie as equal partner. Do good things on better way without keeping herself and family on line.